Well. Lets start with my name. My name is Whitney. I'm 13 years young. I'm pretty cool if I say so myself. Most likely, I'll stereotype you, place you into a group, and judge you; So prove me wrong & show me who you really are. My favorite stores are Ruehl, Nordstroms, & Rearends; but, I'm not scared to be seen in a salvation army. It's kind of like, if I see something I like, I'll get it. I am my own person. I can be the nicest person you'll ever meet, or the meanest. My favorite color is brown. I'm allergic to cats, but I have three. My friends mean the world to me, and my sister is my major role model. If I'm having a bad day, watch out. I LOVE LOVE LOVE when people drop things in my inbox. I WILL try my hardest to answer your questions & give the best advice I can. I'm not too good with relationship problems, only because its hard to explain over the internet. I've gone through a lot through these measily 13 years, but I'm telling you, I've got some knowledge.
But anyways, I really hate talking about myself. So I'm done.
Website: hey cuteestuff.
Gender: Female
Location: Tenesse
Occupation: School
Age: 18
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Member Since: July 13, 2005
Answers: 147
Last Update: October 8, 2008
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Okay so I have a boyfriend of almost 11 monthes now. Problem is his mom and I do not get along exspecially after last night!
So I seen she IMed me while I was with my boyfriend ((her son)). She said hey or w/e so I IMed her back sayin hey an I had a question so I asked her why did she let his ex gf stay the night knowing I don't like her. She told me that since chad was at work she thought it was fine plus her house is open to any one she care's about or w/e. So I got all upset you know cause' that make's me mad an basically told her you know that it's not right an supposively his mom already told him that one of his ex's misses him right? SO why would his mom tell him this if she knew he has a gf, an like that make's me wonder what the hell did she tell the girl after she said that, an it's seems kinda obvious she doesn't like me an she is tryin to get chad to go mess with other girl's or somethin ya know.
Okay now after all this me askin her about the girl stayin the night I told her how I felt an shit an then she tells me like I supposively hungout with my ex bf? Im like wtf I didn't hangout with my ex bf. And then she like went an looked at my ex bf's myspace an seen shit I posted to him in the past like cause we were tryin to make this girl jealous an his mom went on a rampage about it all telling me she would tell my bf an shit so I was like w/e go ahead do what you do.
Now like really, I honestly don't know what to do about her like he can't move out because like his mom will make him pay insurance an since he is gonna start going back to school he wouldn't be able to afford it.
So what should I do in my situation if he asks me to come hangout with his family, do I talk to everyone in cept her.
And am I in the wrong for being upset of his EX gf being there ya know. And like I know I could of handled stuff little better but I asked her a question an she was all a bitch about it an then brought up somethin that I told my ex in the PAST an shit.
Like Honestly she isnt my mother so she has no right snoopin in my buisness. PLUS if chad thought anything dont you think he would of went online an snooped himself, plus it was something said in the fucking past.
I thinks he has no life but w/e am I in the wrong, what should I do like no idea im goin crazay. Thankx you whoever takes the time out to read this!! (link)
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Hokkay. so yah your in a load of crap, but to tell you the truth, you sort of put yourself in it. I'm sorry, but i've NEVER heard soemone be that disrespectful to an adult. I am almost positive this whole situation wouldve been different if you would have controlled your mouth.
for 1. how do you know the relationship between cha'ds mom and katie. they could be close. dont freak out until you lknow the whole story.
watch your mouth on here. no one wants to listen to that.
ps. dont rate me or send any feedback. i dont want anything from you... and just so you know, yah i mayhave been rude or straightforward... but look at how you acted.
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I'm 15 and I'm completley new to makeup. Shocking, right? I don't really need it all that much but I kind of wanted to step up my look a little bit. Can somebody help me with colors to choose or something?
Hair color: Light Brown
Eye Color: Green Blue (hazel)
Skin Color: Light with a few freckles
I'd appreciate it so much :) (link)
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im pretty much the exact samee.
i dont really like girls like our age to wear like lipstick or even lipgloss. it looks sorta trashy to me and it looks like your trying too hard [but thats just my opinion]
so i play up my eyes. brunettes with blue in their eyes looks gorgeous. its sorta rare so when people see people like us thats one thing that theyre drawn too.
so play up that blue. NOT extreme though. the thing to makeup is to make it look natural. in the corner of your eyes start with a dark brown with a shimmer in it. then fade into a LIGHT blue. then into a gold... all of this is LIGHT. the colors are bold but the amount you put on needs to be ligght.
dont wear foundation or powder unless you have a blemish.. but even then only wear it on the breakout.. not the WHOLE face ... you start to loolk like a fake plastic barbie at that point.. ha.
like isaid earlier.. dont wear lipstick of lipgloss.. chapstick looks the best ad most natural.
eyeliner underneath the eye is soo last year. if you wish to use some then use a brown, and use it on TOP o your eye. it'll look nice;;not trashy. if you choose to wear mascara use a dark brown.. and only on the top lashes because if you put it on the bottom.. its not only a fashion no no but it also starts looking liek bad by the end of the day because it runs.
i hope this all works out. sorry its so long!!!
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i know its wrong but all my friends have had sex, and thats all they talk about so i told them i have had sex too and i was like centre of attension... i know its wrong to lie but i hated feeling left out. Now i have got this boyfriend hes like well older than me about 4 years, and he understands i want to take things slow but now all my friends make comments like "dont do anything i woudnt do" and "use a johnny".
But i havent bein with him long and when we are making out i cant help bu thinking i know he wants to rip my clothes of and have sex but the truth is im scared...has anyone got any tips for having sex for the first time??
Please dont stay your a ass you lied to your mates, i know that already im looking for REAL advice!! And truth is im glad i lied.. (link)
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hey. alright well you obviously are just doing this to fit in.. which isnt right. if your neervous.. your not ready. you'll know when the time is right.
stay true and be safe
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so i made out with this guy named kyle c, and like he has all these zits and hes like reallllly ugly but i still like him and in utah we have like a lot of zit faces and it annoys me sooooo bad, so like what should i do, should i like him cause hes nice and everything, but a lot of people at this other school hate him andstuff. ooo and hes rreally good at track like he won this one race, but then he threw up afterward so everyone thinks he's gross so like idk. at least his blonde hair is kinda hottt (link)
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Well, like people for who they are.. not for what they look like... who cares if they have zits.. you must be in your teen age years and most people have then anyways... whether you live in UTAH or not.
goodluck with your issues.
ps. your pathetic =]]
x0o_Whitney
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is hummus healthy? i mean i thought it was but i wasnt exactly 100% sure. i eat...tribe classic hummus. any clue?
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hummus is very healthy. its made out of chic-peas. like the person below me said, it has a lot of proteins, and not just that, but vitamins. Thats a tastey snack that will give you a lot of healthy nutrients!
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okay so like im 5'3" and i weigh 160. i heard that you were kinda ummm well not the skinniest person when you were younger, how did you slim down since your so happy with yourself right now?
im not trying to be rude
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hey, no problem. i know thats not rude!!!!! im here to answer anything. Well, i know this sounds funny, but you obviously know me, so you know the community ed center in walled lake? well my mom use to take aerobics there and stuff.. and so i decided to go along once.. results happen within a year, if you actually work, and use weights and leg weights. Start eating healthier.. i mean, i cant say im not eating the healthiest right now, but when i was a chunky little thing.. ha.. i started eating healthy. I mean, for salads, eat spinach salads with light dressing, or vinnagerettes. But, when you really want something like u8nhealthy, go for it, just limit your self. Because, if you keep saying no to yourself, one day your just going to splurge, and eat tons of what you want. I dont really know what else I can say.. but if you give me your name, i could probably help you a lot better, because different workouts work for different body sizes, for further talkings, please either email me at pink_stix@hotmail.com or my sn which is faiiry x0o taiil.
much love, and good luck!
--Whitney
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does anybody know any hair styles that are easy but still look good? im bored of just putting my hair up or straightening it....
i rate high!
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so i guess you straighten your hair.. well this is what i do sometimes when i get bored of just using the straightener.. i like to straighten my hair then curl it with ringlets then straighten the ends of the curls. leave some pieces straigh. finish the look with seperating the curls and add hairspray... leave your bangs [[ if you have some]] straigh
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I have to go on a cruise with my family and I get sea sick really easily. Is there anything to stop me from getting sick like that? (link)
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yeah, tons of people get sea sick. there are a lot of 'over the counter' drugs//medicines that you can buy from a local drug store like CVS or something. [[spelling...??]] Dramnamine is one of the best.
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Theres this girl I like. She looks really sexy but I don't know how to ask her out. What the hell do I do? I need help. Is there anyway I can make it easy on myself?. Thanks alot. (link)
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Well it sounds like your just judging her on looks. Thats a big 'no no.' But the best thing to do, is like ask her to hang out some times. Maybe take her down to the local beach or soemthing that she likes to do. Dont focus on looks, because maybe, her perosnality isnt what you were looking for. Stay True, and you will definately know when the time is right!!!
I hope I helped
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ok yea that was corney but I have a question...At nights when I can be at home with my husband I like to straighten my hair, wear cute pajamas and NO make~up... Problem is I have extremley dark circles around my eyes it looks like I am seriously malnourished but im not! What can I do to make them go away? I've heard of cucumbers but exactly what's there purpose? I'll rate high as the sky (22/female) (link)
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For me, the whole cucumber thing doesnt work for what you need. It really just relaxes you. There is this stuff from MaryKay, and its just a cream [[no coloring or anything so its not considered make up]]. Look it up online or check out their catologue. From what I've heard, it works amazingly.
I hope I helped
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My iron has black stuff on the bottom and it keeps rubbing off on white clothes but it won't be wiped off. Any tips for getting it off and any idea why it's there in the first place?! (link)
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Alright, so I have the same problem. I found out that if you use Spray Starch or whatever the iron spay is, its getting burned by the iron and leaving that gross black stuff that we DONT WANT!! so, this is the iron remedy; Go to A hair supply place && get the Flat Iron cleaner.
Follow the directions on that, but for your Iron. Tell me how it works!
I hope I helped
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Hi I'm 18/f.
I get affected easily by what people say about me. (I know, at this age I should already be very confident) When I spot a new haircut, initially I'll feel really good bout it but when other people start to criticise it, I start to feel ugly and feel that my new haircut sucks too when i look in the mirror.
Sometimes I think I'm pretty , sometimes I'm not. I get upset when people don't think I'm pretty. I will try means and ways to get them to say I'm pretty. Or when I ask someone, "she's prettier or I'm prettier?", I'll keep bugging him or her to say them I AM prettier. I know its bad. Can someone help me to be less affected by what others say and be more confident bout wat i think of myself? (link)
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Alright, so I use to do that now. && I realized, why waste my time!!! If I think that a new haircut is cute, then I will stick to it. DONT let anyone change your mind about something. Because after a while it changes you as a person.Stay Truee =]
I hope I helped
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I had my wisdom teeth pulled Tuesday and its Saturday now, and i'm still kind of swollen and the inside of my mouth is VERY swollen. how long will it take for this to go away permanently?? (link)
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Well, my sister just got hers pulled out, and it usually takes about a couple months to get back down to your normal self. But i bet if you go to a local, drugstore, there might be some over the counter stuff you can put on it, and it could make the process go faster =]
I hope I helped.
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ok so last month around like may 3rd i got my first period. and it lasted maybe like 5ish days. (but it was only really heavy about 3 days) anyway..about a week past after i got it..and then i got it again! i know that when you first get it, it's irregular, so do you think i will get it this month? i'm just really scared that i don't have it or get it on monday, because i am going to a waterpark with my 8th grade graduating class.if i do happen to get it, (which im really hoping i don't), what should i do? i haven't started using tampons yet. i dont know???? any advice? thank youu. (link)
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Okay so i was in the same situation a while ago as you are now. let me tell you, they DO come irregular, and they are very unexpected.. but thats just one of those perks us ladies get [[sarcasm]]. I would really talk to your mom or a close friend, or an older sister if you have one, about using tampons. It will make things so much easier for you. At first i was scared to use them.. but ehh theyre easy. Also, you know that your period stops in the water right? well, if you didnt know that now you do. So you could just stay in the water.. and when you are gonna eat or something, just put on a thin panty liner just for a little, then take it out when you wanna go back in.
I really hope I helped.
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im 13/f and ive been getting really close with this guy in my grade, like friend ship close. and hes been opening up to me and told me he cuts and i cut to. so weve been talking and im really afraid and i want to stop him from cutting but i dont know what to do.. any suggestions??
oo and theres another problem with this guy.. people have been telling me that we should go out because we talk on the phone for hours and we know each other inside and out, but hes hung up on this one girl like really really hung up on her but shes totally wrong for him and we both know that. is there any way i can help him get over her? (link)
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T0 me, that really upsets me that people feel the need to to actually do that. how do you guys have the NERVE tto actually put a knife up to your wrist. w.e maybe you have a screwed up childhood or life. STILL...NO EXCUSE
okay so you know cutting is wrong.. and you want him to stop.. why shouldnt you too!?? there is no reason to do that.. im sorry. its like running away from your problems. you guys neeed to find a way wheere you can express and solve your emotional and other problems by words and no "lets almost committ suicide because that will help" because it wont sweetheart. i know im coming off way too strong and im sorry. but this is a big issue. if your worried about him, why arent you worried about yourself? you can get into a lot of trouble. and i know you know all of this...so why dont you stop. you know it will only be for the good. & if you guys go through and stop together, im thinking that will even bring you closer. PLEASE STOP THAT.
just keep the things the way you have been *minus the cutting* be yourself... butt dont talk negative about her. it will just kinda confuse him.
im sorrry for being so rude but well, this would be a major deal and you know tht
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hey i m 14 almost 15 around 5'2 and i weigg 129 pounds. how much weight shuld i loose? (link)
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first of all.. for all the people who commented before me, there is no such thing as an "ideal" weight. Whatever you feel comfortable. Right now, at your age, your starting to grow into a women... i think ur a girl... so your getting ya know the hips the boobs... etc. so that all gains weight too. also, if ur athletic or have a lot of mscle... remeber muscle weighs more than fat. but hey, if urr not comfortable at your weight right now, i have answered some of those questions before. check out my collumn... there may be some tips...
hope i helpedd..
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Hello
I'm going to a my friend's little brother's birthday party. I have black hair that falls up to 2 inches from my chin, 4'9, 80 lbs, and lightly tanned skin. It is a bit cold here and I'm wondering what I could wear there? What colors would look good on me? I'm just thinking of being in jeans and a nice shirt. What should I do with my hair? I don't look that good with pigtails but my friends like it a lot for some reason, my hair isn't that long to put in one pony tail, and I don't look that good in a half pony tail. What should I do? (link)
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alright. with your skin complection and hair color, the best colors to wear are like vintage olive green and brown. maybe you could wear faded slighty ripped jeans, a long sparkly olive green vintage tank with a khaki shrug over it. wear a stylish leather belt over your tank. scrunch your hair with light weight gel so its wavy. maybe a little of bronze shimmer eyeshadow. and to complete your look at some long strands of beads for a neclace. hope this works... give me some feedback or send me a pic of what you ended up doing!!!
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sorry i didn't know what catagory to put this in.
ok i'm 13 and i just got a straightener. i heard that if you use it too much your hair gets really dry and it's unhealthy...so for people that straighten your hair...how many times would be too much? like how many times could you straighten your hair in a week without it becoming unhealthy? thx! (link)
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no not at all. well if you get a good ceramic one you should be fine. i straighten my hair A LOT everyday of the week. just use a lot of conditioneer and also, at CVS or any local little drug store there are these hot oil treatments for your hair for like 7 dollars. get those like once a month
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If your gonna say something about skin cancer don't answer or I'll rate you bad.
alright. tommorow I'm going to the tanning salon.
I've been there once before. =] [the tanning bed kind] However I have a few questions.
~ How long do you stay in for?
~ What do you wear in there?
~ Please include some additional information if you want a five.
~ Is it alright to go bowling afterward?
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okay
-maybe 20 minutes (thats how long i do)
- im a girl n i wear just underwear because you really dont want to have tan lines
- wear some self tanner with sun activation before you go in there...it works more
- yeah thats fine... bring some deoderant tho because you may be sweaty
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hi i just recently lost my friends over a stupid mistake that i made and i don't what to do and everyone in the school has friends, except me, what should i do? thx (link)
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well try n fix the miustake thats the best thing you can do. act like yourself. dont try n be someone ur not. i have a friend like that now. she told one of my embarrassing moments to the school. n now she needs to appologize and act normal not fkake and cool. dont worry things will change!
good luck. keep me posted!
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