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Q: I'm trying to figure out how to get CUSTOM colors on AIM. I know how to get to the color chart with all of the squares and you just pick a color, but on the very bottom there's a button that says DEFINE CUSTOM COLORS. But it won't let me click on it. How do I get that to work? Thanks!

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you can..by downlaoding a program called applesuace. try searching it on google. im not quite sure how to get it. but my friends has it. hope that helps =)

Q: My birthday is coming up soon and I was just wondering if anybody had any ideas on what we could do for fun...I'm turning 14 if that helps at all!! =) I rate for good ideas!! =)

signed,
Birthday Girl

well, happy birthday! you can try maybe with a few friends getting your naisl done..and then maybe sleepover. or if there are any good movies out, go see a movie. also, go someplace like cool or something like for example, in newyork-new york city. something people dont go to everyday. good luck =) and have a good birthday

Q: 15.f.ma Ok .. well .. i kinda have a problem .. well i guess every girl wants attention .. from a guy.. well.. i have the attention of.. four guys.. four different ages.. each of them very cute.. i flirt with them .. each.. and i think im getting to attatched .. i really have no clue what to do .. one of the guys is gone all summer to his dads in Virgina Beach.. but we talk online all the time..and the other 3 live near me.. i hang out with all of them .. but i dont no what to do.. im afraid that i might be leading them on .. and i dont wanna do that what should i try??

x0xoKerry

ok well first off, you gotta pick one guy. pick the one you have the most fun with, the one you feel msot comfortable around, and the one you like more. then go for him..maybe just start to lose the flirting with the other three. like whne your hanging out, jsut act normal..but dont do a big chanbge thats noticale. make a good choise, hope i've helped. and good luck =)

Q: Well, my bestfriend and i have been best friends for 8 years *I'm going to be a junior* and we've been tennis doubles partners since 8th grade. This summer she's been slacking off and I've been working out everyday. I play tennis atleast 3x a week but i'm starting to play more, and the days i'm not playing i'm reading a book on it or running! I really want to get better and I'm working really hard. But she really isn't. She's played tennis 3x this entire summer! Sometimes she skips tennis practice for work *understandable but she's just afraid to ask to get off an hour early even though she's done it once before and they were fine with it*, but tomorrow she's missing it for a party for some girl she just met! And practice are over at 7- and i doubt the party is even started by then. My friend, who's a year younger then me but also is working hard this year has asked me to be her doubles partner for a tournament coming up. I was like heck yes! I really would rather play with her because I know we'd do really well and my other friend isn't even trying! What to do?

well, try talking to your bestfriend that doesnt really seem interested in tennis anymore. and see what she says. jsut have a nice talk, maybe she has lost intrest in tennis. also, tell her its ok if she doesnt want to..that you will find another partner. good luck =)

Q: How do i make my myspace look pretty..like with colors in what not? like where do I get the links and stuff? thanks..i'll rate high!

thanks
steph

hey, its pretty easy. all you have to do is click here--> http://www.strikefile.com/myspace/editor.htm and fill out the information. when your done click 'generate my code' and paste it anywhere on your myspace like for example under 'interest'

Q: Hi i need to teach a dog not to dig. Does anyone here have any suggestions? Please help. I rate 5's 4 good answers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

one good idea i read in a trainng book, is to everytime he or she digs..you squirt water at him or her with a spray bottle and say no. but make sure you always say the same word..sometiems saying no and sometimes sayign down will confuse the dog. good luck :)

Q: 15/f

Hey i'm 5'4 and 135-140 pounds. I'm not really chubby hust a little cause i have a 36c chest. I wanna tone my stomach up so instead of a tankini when i go to the beach in auguest i can wear a bikini. i already run 2 miles a day, what else can i do? is there enough time?
-thanks!

there is a enough time. all you must do, is keep up the running, any junk food you eat, cut down on it. or stuff liek that..like if you were usually to have two slices of pizza..only have one today. exercise regualry. a good way to toen your stoamche is to do crunches every night before you go to bed. if you drink a lot of soda, you mgiht want to cut down on that. diet soda is still bad for you though, although it has less caloris it has a lot of checmicals so its really not any better. good luck =)