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Q: How many people here look to get more than one answer to their question(s) or try to get as many as they can. And lets say you get only one answer and that answer is the right one do you wait and see if you get any more responses or are you happy with just that one you got.
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More than one answer is always a good thing, but sometimes people dont know the answer to my questions...so better one answer than none at all.
I used to know a columnist who was really good at giving advice however she left the site :[ I dont think just because they didnt help you once out of five times means to never ask for advice again...nobodys perfect :]
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Q: Okay, the only jeans that I have...ripped tremendously. They were the only jeans I had. So, I told my mom about it and she said that it would be about 2 months before she can be able to get me a new pair of jeans. What the heck am I gonna do for two months with no pants...in the winter. My mom also said that she talked to our school guidance councelor, and she said that the counselor was rude about it. So I don't know what to do. I'm screwed!
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I would go to a thrift store or a slavation army. Their jeans / pants are really cheap. Ask your mom to just go with you one day and if you try hard enough [look everywhere in the store]...you can get cute stuff for like $5.
If your mom doesn't want to, I suggest trying to find a quick babysitting job or mowing the lawn type of thing...from your neighbors, friends, etc.
Good luck.
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Q: how can you message on advicenators...if u can?? thanks
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You can message someone in the form of asking a question, but thats not allowed...you get banned for it. Their setting up personal message boards but I dont know if that's just for paid account users. But no, no way to send a personal message. For now anyways. You can always use email if they have their email address on their column.
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Q: I really like one of my brother's best friends but I'm thirteen - a girl - and he just turned sixteen, and to him I'm probably just some little, immature kid,I'm in 8th grade and he's in 10th. My friends always tease me about it too because he's not hot but he's not ugly either he's just cute. But I don't really care about his looks, I only like him for his personality. Anyway, I want to tell my brother or him that like him but I'm afraid he'll just laugh at me or make fun of me. What should I do?!? You're a guy, what would you do if some little thirteen year old asked you out when you were sixteen?
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1) I'm not a guy
2) Your brother would never let you date his friend
3) If this guy would date you, it's probably because he wants to get laid.
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Q: i might be able to finagle some backstage passes through a friend of a friend and my question is, would i still have to buy tickets, or do backstage passes include entry to the concert?
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That all depends on the venue your going to. I would check with the place first to make sure. Usually if someone has backstage passes - they probably bought tickets first. So that probably means you'll have to buy tickets too.
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Q: My friend is in LOVE with the band Relient K. And They are comming to cleveland, on may 7th. I want to get her tickets, but I don't know the age limit and if we would be able to go without a parent.
Someone tell me about teh cleveld HOB rules?
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House of Blues is generally for anyone 21 and older. They do have all-age shows though and I'm pretty sure its all ages since a lot of RK's fans are younger than 21.
On their website it doesnt have age information about the show, but you should call and ask just to make sure --> 216.523.BLUE
Oh and the cleveland show is actually scheduled for May 3rd (it says so on their myspace) :]
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Q: ok well ima a girl and a couple days ago i went to my aunts house and she has a son and he's my cousin.were both 14. well we kinda like each other alot and i guess we just set aside that we were cousins. well we ended up sleeping next to each other and he was touching me, like my boobs and butt and all that stuff. and well the next day we ended up making out like the whole day..and the thing is i liked it alot and i know it's wrong to like your cousin but i can't help it. why does it have to be so wrong? we both love each other and we have ever since we were little kids, we practically grew up together. i just don't know what to do, he kept asking me things like are you a virgin, do you wanna live with me when you grow up? and im just so confused on what to do, i don't want to end up having sex with my cousin, but then again, what if i do?, and what if i like it??! please help me. i need all the advice i can get.
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I dont know about it being legal, it probably isint in the US. My parents are first cousins, but they are from Iraq so over there its completley legal. My parents had four kids too, including me...and were perfectly normal. So the whole "your kids will turn out messed up" is probably not true.
If it's a distant cousin, I dont see anything wrong with it. But this wouldent go so well with the family dont you think? I know you cant help who you like, but I wouldent keep getting involved with your cousin. It would bring too many family issues.
Maybe you guys are just intrested in finding love. Wanting to be in relationship. Stuff like that. And theres a lot of people you can be in a relationship with, so I think you should talk to your cousin and break this whole making out thing.
It's for the better. You'll find someone else to like soon, so will he.
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Q: I have a motorola razor v3m it is a camera/mp3/video phone. When I try to put music on it by plugging it in to the computer it doesn't find it as a storage device so I can't put music onto it. So does anyone know how to make my computer find it? thanks in advance
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Question, is your mp3 player Itunes or V Cast Music? Im looking through Motorola FAQ and I almost have it but if you could just give me that information I can edit my question and tell you as soon as I figure it out. :]
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Q: I need so much help right now.
I'm on maternity leave, and my husband is out of work due to a hand injury. He spent money that he shouldn't have, and now we're broke.
Rent is due today, and I'm several hundred dollars short. The phone bill and electric bill are both overdue. Our fridge is empty except for condiments. My parents have been feeding our daughter, but we both haven't been eating. Our cars have no gas, and we can't afford more.
All the food banks in my area told me they're out of food and vouchers due to the holidays, and they don't know when they'll have more.
Someone please help me. We're hungry and we can't pay our bills.
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I dont know if you've heard about WIC (women infants and children) but its a program that gives you free food if qualified. I think you would definatley be accepted into the program since you are pregnant and have another child.
http://www.fns.usda.gov/wic/
They deliever the food to you and you get to pick the foods.
Good luck.
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Q: most of the time when i pee it was this weird odor and when the next person comes in they can even sumtimes smell it why do i have this odor when i pee ? and how can i fix it ??
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Well everyone has it, haha. I suggest having air freshner in the bathroom so you can spray some everytime you go to the bathroom. Regular perfume works too :]
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Q: I have a cousin who's 15. Her birthday is coming up and she loves to read. She's into fantasy books, adventure and romance type books. Is there any books or series you would recomend. PLEASE help! I have absolutely no clue what to get her.
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Romance Novels - Author Nicholas Sparks books are definatley romantic, his books "the Notebook" and "Message in a bottle" were made into movies.
Fantasy/Adventure - Harry Potter
I also suggest a Barnes & Noble gift card, or Borders gift card. That way she can get whatever book she wants and you know she'll like it because she picked it out :]
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Q: okay me and my boyfriend have been dating along time and for christmas im giving him something and a letter to go with it . but i dont no wht i could write in the letter like wht would he like to read in a letter?
PLZ HELP
thank you so much
Dianna
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Well what you write should come from your heart. You shouldent have other people tell you what to say because then it's not from you and it wont be genuine. Just think about your relationship, things you've done in the past with him, special dates/occasions, the good times..."Remember when..." I love you, You mean so much to me, I hope were together forever, etc. And if it's a letter from you...he'll like whatever it says so dont worry too much about it. =)
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Q: I like to wear band tees but that looks rather plain. Is there any way to spice up an outfit while I'm wearing these tshirts? I really like supporting the bands but I dont want to look plain or boring.
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Well what I do is wear my accessories that I usually wear with my "normal" outfits....long bead neckalaces, bracelets, etc. It makes you look like a cute band tshirt girl haha. I also put pins on my shirt, but only one or two because too many on looks cluttered. And shoes...try ballet flats that really stand out :]
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Q: I was wondering if anyone had any tips on getting a thinner face, so that your cheekbones can really be seen. I'm about average weight but on my cheeks and face I have a little fat, maybe baby fat, that I would really like to get rid of. Any suggestions would be very appreciated =]
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There's no way to lose weight just in your face, if you'd like to see a thinner face...you'd have to start a diet and lose everywhere else and your body will eventually get to losing weight in your face. When I started losing weight, I lost 10 lbs & everyone could tell my face was getting smaller. So if you have a thin body I wouldent start a diet just to hope your body starts taking fat from your face.
Hope I helped :]
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Q: does anyone have any tricks or know anything about helping the bags under your eyes? mine are really big.
thanks
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If they have been always big, and are really serious. I would try Hylexin for Serious Dark Circles/Puffiness. A tube retails for about $95 but you could get it on ebay for a cheaper price. This stuff really works, I've tried it.
www.hylexin.com for more information :]
If Hylexin is too expensive for you, there is Nulexin which is a cheaper version of the same thing.
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Q: I love music, but I'm sort of getting sick of the same old bands. I like pretty much anything, but I like emo, screamo, acoustic, and like softrock or powerpop you knowww. But I'll listen to anything. Does anyone know of some really good bands/songs ? THANKS!!!!
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I suggest going to these bands spaces :
Hellogoodbye
Armor for Sleep
Silverstein
Cute is what we aim for
Jack's Mannequin
The Spill Canvas
Mashlin
Hopefully I helped, I know how you feel...I hate listening to the same stuff over and over again. I need to find new bands too :]
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Q: I am new to this site well ma friend told me about it and I love giving advice to people, but noe one likes to visit ma site can you halp me on getting people to ask me questions that way I can answer them.
I also wanted to ask you something and see if you can help me on solving it, here it goes I have a little sister she is 13years old and she has a boyfriend that is in high school and she loves him a lot but I am 14 and I am also in high school and I don't trust him or her because she has a journal and she writes all her stuff in it like her secrets, and she sees him alone some of the time and they were upstairs and I was downstairs and I don't even know if they already had the s word. I want to let you know that the worse thing is ma parents don't know that ma sister is going out with that boy and she tells me if i tell them she is going to hate me. I am a female
I NEED ADVICE!
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To tell you the truth, rarley ever does a columnist get questions to their inbox. It's a once-in-a-while thing. To get noticed - You need to answer lots of questions on the main question page - http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php - to get your name out there. Also how good your advice is will also make someone want to ask you questions. Again, nobody really gets questions straight to their inbox. If you asked everyone else on the site, they would say the same thing. So just answer lots of questions and maybe one day you'll get one personally asked just for you to answer :]
And for your problem, think about this...If you had a boyfriend, would you want her to tell your parents? If not...then I wouldent say anything. I would just talk to her, bring up the subject of sex...and how to be careful {condoms, etc.) Educate her about the consequences of sex like pregnancy. All you can do is talk to her about it and hope she'll make the right choices. If she doesnt listen to you and you think she'll make big mistakes...you could tell your parents if you want to...She would get mad but eventually she would get over it. It's your choice on what you want to do, but first I think you should just talk to her. Good luck :]
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Q: whats a mosh pit?how do you start one?{at concerts)
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A mosh pit is where guys [and brave girls] start pushing eachother, shoving, stepping on eachother, hitting, punching, etc. to mostly rock music. It can get really violent so I advise against it. And they usually just start out by themselves once the music gets going and all you do is start getting physical. I think it's pointless to hurt people for "fun". I see guys & girls walk out of mosh pits with bloody faces.
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Q: is there any way to put music in your comlumn?
thnks :]
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Yes with HTML, I even had the codes for it and they worked for my column. But music is not aloud in columns...
http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=37
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Q: What exactly is this myspace virus.?what does it do? how can you tell if youve got it?
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If you see bulletins posted by you when you didn't post them, this means you have it. Tom advises just to change your password.
The bulletins are not just about sex, mostly advertisers trying to get you to click on their websites.
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Gender: Female Member Since: August 11, 2004 Answers: 2243 Last Update: November 9, 2020 Visitors: 124727
Main Categories:
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