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when i'm with a group of people, i get really shy and i never know what to say. when i'm around just a few people i'm really loud & outgoing. like tonight, after my soccer game we went out to dinner with the team. everyone was laughing and screaming, but i was really shy and not "hyper" as they called it. and those kids are my friends so it's not because i didnt know them. i tried speaking up and being outgoing, but the more i tried to like fit in, the shyer i got. it was so weird. but then again, in school the teachers all yell at me because i never shut up. how come i'm shy around certain people but REALLY loud others? oh, and don't say i don't feel comfortable around them because i do. and how do i step out of my shy zone and become outgoing (to the people i'm shy with.) what are some things to bring up in a conversation and stuff? i really dount know why im like this.
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Hey,
Well I used to have that same exact problem. But then I realized that noone can change your feelings but you. And even if your comfort level is at the point where you are comfort but you still feel shy, all you can do is deal with it because it come's naturally. Believe me it happens to me to, but like see I started having this problem when I had to leave all my middle school friends because I moved and it broke my heart. Now im only like really hyper around lil groups of ppl now big groups. I guess I just dont like all that attention from people. But its all good because I have my close friends im crazy n hyper around, but like my soccer team for school cuz I play varsity, I just made captain an that made me open up to everyone an made me just act crazy an have no doubts about the way I would be acting! But some girls have different maturity level's an you might be more matured then them!! Cause that is what my mom says about me!
-Stephanie-
*Hope I helped*
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I was shaving my legs last night and I got to the back of my upper legs (between the back of my knee and my butt) and it hurt for some reason. It felt like a sore that you've scratched so much its like raw. Well it wasn't really hurting when I went to sleep but all today during school its hurt like when I sat at my desk and stuff and I don't even know what it is and it swelled up. It basically looks like a sore that you've scratched so much and now its in the form of a bump. But I've never scratched there or anything... (link)
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Hey,
I think in my opinion it mean's you been shaving to much, that is all I can think of. Or either you got raizor burn....
-Stephanie
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my friends and i can never think of things to do on the weekends. seeing movies is alright, but once youve seen the one or two good ones its pointless to go again, and the same goes for shopping i mean you can only go so many times and not see the same things and run out of money. what are some things that a bunch of 14 and 15 year old girls can do? (link)
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Hey!
In my own opinion some thing's I would enjoy doing when I was that age was...
-Go Four Wheeling
-Play Flashlight tag at night
-Go to a fun party
-Have a get together at your house
-Do each other's makeup an wear crazy clothes and go out to eat at mcdonalds!
-Go bike riding
-Make a cd, then Go wash your parents car...((brownie points))!
-Go Swimming
-Take pictures
-Make cute posters to put in each other's rooms, or get like a big like umm thumb tack board you know an like make a collage of pictures...
-Go tan out back of your house
-Go the the gas station get bubbalicious and eat one big pack each person an prank call people!
I tryed lol..Couldn't member all of my past memories but there is some!!
-Stephanie
*hope i helped*
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Iam babysitting this 15 year old Autistic kid from 10:00pm untill 2:30 while his mom goes to a bar and iam only 17 and i've never done anything like this before what should I do? (link)
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Hey,
Ok this isn't very informationable. But um if your asking what kinda thing's you could do like to keep the kid occupied..?
-Stephanie
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Late last year I mustered up the courage to see a gynocologist because my period is unhealthily sporadic. One of the questions they asked before the check up was "Are you sexually active?" At 15, I don't think it's appropriate to have a partner. However, I would like to know if they ask you the question because the office needs to know if your hymen is broken... or if it has to do with something else. In my case, my hymen is already broken, but I haven't had sex with a partner yet. What should I answer in the future? (link)
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Hey Sweetie,
Well usually your hymen is broke due to like bije riding, tampon usage etc. But their isn't really any way to find out if your a virgin because your hymen is broke because now-days it is usually caused by other things. But I wouldn't think they would ask you that but on the other hand they might just to wonder why it is broken! Hope I helped!
-Stephanie
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Well a couple of days ago i had sex with my boyfriend and now when i pee it stings and i have a little blood come out thats pink not that its like my period what do you think it means? (link)
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Hun,
You have a UTI also known as Urinary Tract Infection. All you can really do is go to the doctor if not just wait it out usually like 5days. But usually think about using the bathroom before you have sex, or after one of the two!
-Stephanie
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Ok so i got this friend i have known for like 4 years now. I been on messenger talking to her mom alot. Her and her mom are always arguing. Then her mom says she thinks that my friend is cutting herself in the bathroom and all this. Then her mom said that she has caught her doing some thing on the webcam. And then her mom says she is talking bout moving with this 21 year old she met over the internet bout a month or so ago. And she hasnt had time to really get to know this person. What is something i can do or say to her that will help her cause i am getting really concerned as far as her and i am not one to get concerned hardly but i am real concerned as far as her. (link)
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Hey Sweetie,
I think it isn't your position to get invovled in a mother daughter situation.
I think it is her moms responsibilty to control where and when her daughter get's on the computer and what kind of access she has. And if she can't control that then I don't feel it has anything to do with you.
And how would your friend feel like if she found out her mom was telling you this kind of stuff. It's like you don't know whether to believe it or not, or if you should ask or not. Either way someone will be hated either her mom or you, in my opinion but honestly I don't know.
All I know is it is very dangerous to meet someone online, an if her mom is that freaked out they can catch the guy or w/e if it's that serious.
But I have a friend who's sister was killed by someone over an internet relationship. And believe me it is scary so, just leave it up to her mom, an exsplain to her mom that she should talk to he daughter about it!
*Hope I helped*
-Stephanie-
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omg..i need to no how to be close with guys but still be me and not some plastic whore! i am 13 and a girl. (link)
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Hey Sweetie,
You don't need to know anything about being close with guys but to just be you. Don't try to be something your not, because that scares the hell out of boy's believe it or not. Just be you act the way you would infront of any other boy you met as in *friend* wise. If they don't accept you than that is their loss not your's because if all else fail's at least you know you were being true to yourself an not just by someone else's expectation's!
Stephanie-
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hey im 15/f. so theres this guy i have liked for a really long time. we'll call him george we always seem to flirt and have a good time. i had one of my guy friends see if he liked me because i really want to go out with him. he does like me which i was totally thrilled by. he hasn't had a girlfriend like at all this year, and he said the reason why is because he doesn't know how to "treat" a girl right, and he like doesn't know what to do. he just doesn't want one. i dont want to pressure him into going out with me but we both like each other so why cant we be together?? i can teach him.. haha plezz give me some advice on how to show him like that i care more, and i really like him i try to flirt, but is there any way i can like really "real" him in. make him want me...? i'll rate 5 for good answers!! thanks
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Hey Sweetie,
HaHa Boys...Boys...Boys, they are probably more diffucult to figure out than girl's.
You can't techniqually make him "like" you. I mean as he already stated he doesn't know how to treat a girl that kinda mean's he doesn't have the confidence to progress anything with a girl right now, and that may not be the top thing right now he want's or need's!
Best bet is to hang out with him, tell him you don't wanna go an do stuff as a couple but as friends. It is always good to be his friends before pursuing anything to the next level.
Be sure to not bring anything else up about yall being together, because you may...scare him away believe it or not. But who knows if all else fails, then maybe he just isn't ready for a girl figure in his life...
-Stephanie-
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hey im 15/f. I was wondering if there is anything to help with like energy boost. I know that there are energy drinks but those dont really work for me. See im always like falling asleep during school or whatever im doing. I'm always tired i have no energy and i just dont want to do anything. I dont eat breakfast because i never really have time. I get enough sleep. I'm just always tired like i can sleep an entire day. But still be tired. And i have no motivation to do anything. Even sometimes when i eat breakfast it doesn't help. Is there anything i can do to help me increase my energy level and not be so tired? Plezz help thanks.
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Hey,
Well I know for me like eating breakfast in the morning helps ALOT because before i'd be incredily tired in the morning, then I started eating breakfast and it motivates me to keep going. I know Cofee can give you sugar an that is good, also red bull. But cofee or cappucino ppl usually drink because it gives them energy boosts. If not try and chew gum. But HOneStly if your problem is that serious I would consult a doctor because they have prescribed pills for that kinda stuff! Hope I helped somewhat!
-Stephanie-
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recently my friend had a bonfire with about 17 ppl. and we were all drinking. her dad knew about it though. well the cops came and her dad got a ticket for minors in possession of alcohol. is there an estimate on how much it will be for the ticket? (link)
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Hey, I know someone who has been in this same predicamen and this is what happened with the whole M.I.P situation plus, she had to do like community service and stuff. But anywho....
Possession of Alcohol by a Minor is now $400.00 for the first offense, $600.00 for the second offense, and a Class B misdemeanor for the third offense.
A driver's license can be suspended for 30 days on the first MIP. Driving with a Suspended DL is a Class B misdemeanor with further loss of driver’s license.
-Stephanie-
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ok im not sure what colors of makeup to use with my face. I have:
blue/grey eyes
lightly tanned skin
dark brown hair
and somewhat chubby cheeks
what colors are good for like my eyes? I want to look natural, but with a little bit of color(nothing too dramatic)
thanks...websites would be nice too( if awavilable...wonth elp rating) i rate high
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Hey Sweetie,
Ok im not BIG on makeup but I do know enough to get by on that subject, haha due to prom and etc. Well since your have like blue/grey eyes, you would want to either go with a just natural light brown. It would look really natural considering you have lightly tanned skin and dark brown hair. I have green eyes like woah an it shows alot an when I wear brown natural looking eye makeup it looks beautiful. Now on the other hand with color you couldn't really put a color into the brown it would be impossible to mix it, I wouldn't see how it would work unless you had like light blue or light grey or light white makeup that is probably the only colors you could mix. But from my point of view you should use brown. It would look pretty!
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my friend has a verizon camera phone and she doesnt ahve internet access or text messageing.. the thing is, we took a really cute picture of us and i really want it but i dont know how we could get it.. anything that you think we could do?? (link)
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Hey there! Well I can't say I know ALOT about phone's because really I don't. But I do know that in order to like transfer a picture from your *cell phone* to your computer or whatever, you MUST have internet access on your phone because you have to email it to an email address! So if all else fails just call verizon tell them you want to add internet, then download your items, then call and cancel internet. That is what my daddy did for um ringtones I believe and it didn't cost anything, but on the other hand I have nextel. But try that and let me know how it all works out!!
-Stephanie-
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My boyfriend is the best person I have ever met he loves church, Me, and his family and I love is personalitiy but he is not all that cut i mean he's cute but not sexy the thing i hate most about him is his eyes and lips there big big but i dont want to break up with him because his mom just died and he need someone to talk to more than ever now cause he is goin through a lot what should I do signed CONFUSED. (link)
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Hey Sweetie,
Ok this is a pretty crazy posting.
So you say your boyfriend is the "Best person you have ever met", But you are not very fond of his personal appearance. I think at this time, you shouldn't break his heart! Exspecially by look's. That is like someone saying "Oh she is the best person I have ever met but on the other hand I don't like her choice of clothing and how it fit's her body image". Just put yourself in his position. How does he feel about you, and does he Love you? That is what you should ask yourself, an if he does than you should keep him for good. Because the good boys don't come a dime a dozen believe me it took me a while to find what I have an believe me i'd never let it go for some asshole out their who just wants to use girls.. Because believe it or not their is alot of them out there!!
-Stephanie-
*Hope I helped somewhat*
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ok so, my dad is a complete jack ass, according to me, he is completly insane and its driving me crazy.....thats my dad
my mom is sick, she has manic depression, she bought a bottle of perscription drugs and hid the EMPTY bottle, so this gave my jack ass of a faher the idea that she was on drugs! she said she was giving them to her one friend who is the same way as her, manic depression, he just doesnt choose to go to the doctors.....thats my mom
well they have been argeing since before i was born, i recently found out,
it drives me nuts and my dad, i think and my mom does too, is a total NUTCASE!!!!! he bitches at everything and he even spit on my mom once, another ime, this was like 4 years ago, he pinned her down cuz he got mad. i called him mental! he was like yea yea yea you think whatever the hell you want and go on keep letting your damn mother put things into your head, i said that she doesnt but he wont believe me. they argue about everything, you name it they fight about it, we even went to counciling once, they dragged me and my sister ino it!,THEY FOUGHT ABOUT THAT WHEN WE GOT OUT OF OUR SESSIONS!!! its crazy. my mom is thinking about me her and my sister are gonna move out in a couple of months, im happy, the only problem is that i dont want her to be alone, in a single way, because she is sick. knowing that i know that when we move, im gonna be the one taking care of both my sister and my mom. which i am kinda used to but i dont know i just dont want to have all the stress of getting me AND my sister AND my mom up in the morning, and then coming home from school and cleaning the house and everything!! so my questions are, should i worry? and, Do you think that its a good idea for them to get a divorce? and how do i help my mom and me and my sister deal with my moms sickness once we move out? please dont tell me to suck it up, im only 14 years old and my grandmoher said i shouldnt have to deal with all this and that i have grown 2 years in only 6 months!! help me please there is just sooooo much stress!!
sorry its long but *ill rate 5's for n e one with a good answer
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Hey Sweetie,
Honestly, you shouldn't be in the confliction your parent's are having. I think it is ridiculous how some adult's drag their children into everything.
As result to your problem, I think honestly that if your parent's have been arguing THIS long you should tell them how much you love them both an how you would feel if they weren't together ((only if you don't want them to split up)). But honestly if it has got to the point that your mom hides stuff from your dad then that is definetly how you know their love is starting to fade, also if your dad has touched your mom in any way than your definetly know it's not a good relationship. On the other hand I don't think you should be held responsible for your sister and mother, your mom should stand up an do something intead of letting you or your sister go down hill in school or something because your busy revolving your life around her and your fathers marrige.
If ya want my advice you should definetly try seeking someone's attention an exsplain to them what happened the last time you all tryed going to classes for your "Mother and Father's" personal problems toward each other.
Keep your head up baby girl I promice everything will be better in the end, an if it's not better than you know its not the end!!
-Stephanie-
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