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Location: minnesota
Age: 17
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to guys really like big boobs of just perky boobs how much do they like to see and do they like to see you bra straps how can i be way sexy but not asking for it? (link)
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WELL! my boyfriend HATES big boobs. he says they're creepy. it makes me feel better too to know that he's not oohing and aahing over big breasted girls. he says mine are the perfect size and hes like, obsessed with them. i'm technically a 34A but i guess they look bigger than that? or so i'm told. they definitly look small but probably like a small B or something. anyways..i've come to realize that guys are into shape as well as size. like you can have real round, perky ones or ones that are big but more droopy. when i wear a bra, i have cleavage and they look real round. so maybe thats why. i dont think size matters that much, granted, i'm not a guy but whatEVER! if the guy has a girl down to her bra or less, he'll be happy either way =] haha k bye
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hey im a 14/f and yeah i know your thinking wow she is young to be hving sex!! but i dont want to have real sex or anyhting and neather does my boyfriend but we want to have oral sex , How do you do that please help and one more question what kind of noises should i make to turn him on ?? (link)
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uhh..girls dont usually make noise when they're doing it to him. if he's doing it to you, then sure. but no one should tellll you what to do. if you seriously are asking that, you dont know enough about physical relationships to even THINK about having one. no one plans what noises to make to turn their guy on. its supposed to just be natural.
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okay so i was wiv my boyf the other day and we had just finished watchin a film and we were in his bed and we started making out and i hadnt ever given him one before but i wanted to gie him a handjob..and so we were makng out and I just didnt know how to start it off...I put my hand down there..but like on top of his pants...cause I didnt really know what I was doing ad was really nervous and lol i could feel that he was hard...but i didnt really know what to do..i tried taking his hand and putting it on top of mine in attemp to have him show me what to do but he just put his arm back around me...i dont know what to do!!I know the basics of lke how to give him a handjob but i just dont know how to build up the courage to actually do it!!I mean i was rubbing him down there and i knew he was hard but it was all on top of his trackie pants!!help!! (link)
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they're so much easier to give than one would think. but maybe i just think that because i'm so comfortable with my guy. we've been going out for over 2 years and are about to go off to college together. start out by rubbing him over the pants to get him hard then, if he's wearing anything other than sweats, stop making out for a second and undo his zipper and stuff. if you're so uncomfortable, it could help you if you knew he wanted you to do it. so just ask him. getting that positive feedback will be good reassurance. to start off underneath his boxers then, just rub it the same way you were doing over his pants and hold it and squeeze it. after getting used to just that, it's simple to just grab on and start going up and down.
now i'm assuming you know about guys cumming and everything so if he's about to, he needs to tell you if you dont have a plan to clean it up. that way you can either stop(but i'm sure he wont want you to stop) or get a handtowel to put under/around the end of it so he can just cum on that and WALA! you just gave your guy one heck of a time =]
while doing it, it sounds like you might feel pretty awkward so instead of just like..looking at each other, make out. that way all eyes will be closed. =]
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any ways to get rid of a hickey...!!! that works!
its not like a really bad hickey..its not black..just dots (link)
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stick a frozen spoon on it. it lightened up mine =]
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14/f
theres this guy that likes me and i kinda like him too and im going to a party tomorrow night and i heard some rumors he was going to kiss me and this is my first kiss. im really nervous what happens after we kiss? like i just dont wanna do something stupid can something help me out and like how do you kiss. ah im soo nervous. thanks soo much. (link)
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first kisses are cracked up to be some huge romantic thing and they're not! you'd be extremely lucky to have a good first one actually lol. just be relaxed about it, like..oh whatever, no big deal. kiss your hand a few times to like..get yourself used to feeling something on your lips like that. dont be nervous because think about it..how many times has something touched your lips before? a LOT! i'd like to tell you its no big deal but i was nervous my first time too so i know where you're coming from =] position your lips as if you're whispering the word "who" and thats pretty much all you need to know. if its your very first kiss and his first time with you, chances are you wont start making out right away so i think you're fine. making out comes naturally after you've just kissed for a while. i dont know if you wanted more in depth than this but thats really the best i can do. hope i helped, and good luck ♥
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The other night was my first kiss. I was hanging out with a group of my friends and everybody went home except me and this guy I've liked for a while. We sat in his car listening to music and talking for a while, and when I got out of the car, he commented that he didn't need to be home for 5 more minutes (we were just up the street from his house). I asked if that was an invitation, and he said that depended on whether I was interested or not. After a few more minutes of playful banter and me almost leaving again, he finally shut up and kissed me. This is with 2 minutes left on the clock. There was tongue involved, there was necking, it was very nice, but only two minutes long. When we broke for air I said to him "time's up" and he pulled me close and asked how late I wanted to make him.
I kissed him on the cheek, told him I needed to get home (I didn't, but it was his curfew and I didn't want to get him in trouble even if it meant more fun for me), and said I'd see him at school the next day.
I really like him, so I'm wondering if I came off as a tease there at the end, if that's a good thing, and if it isn't, how can I make sure he knows I didn't mean to brush him off?
17/f (link)
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i think you came across as just the right amount of tease. for now at least lol. when you see him at school or whenever, give him the 'eye' and kinda flirt with him so he knows that you still like him and you enjoyed your night. if you can, start up a subtle conversation about it to get him thinking about the next time. andddd, when the next time comes (make SURE it does!) make out some more because well, making out it just fun. haha i think you're fine and you making the statement you did before leaving his car 'flirtily' probably made him think about you/it the whole rest of the night =]
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Ok, so i met a girl at a concert on saturday and we danced a little bit and hooked up. the thing is i dont know much about her at all. all i know is that she goes to a catholic school near me, and her name. she lives a little far away, but she gave me her number. should i bother to stay in touch? (link)
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it would be an EXTREMELY dick move for you not to call her since you guys hooked up. if you decided you don't want to put time into a relationship with her being a little to far away, the you need to at LEAST call and tell her that. i've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for almost two and a half years and he lived over 700 miles away. so trust me lol, it CAN be done! and especially since it sounds like she lives a LOT closer to you than my bf does to me lol. go for it
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i liked this guy for a long time and now im kinda over him. my friend likes him now and im all defensive. i cant talk to her cause i have a boyfriend. but idk if i like my boyfriend, but i just started going out w/ him today so i cant break up with him yet.. i went out with him cause we're friends and hes nice and hes like in love with me. i just dont feel the chemistry. this is my first boyfriend. im a wreck. i cant eat, think straight, etc.
xclueless (link)
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first of all. your new boyfriend is NOT in love with you. second..you dont sound like you should be dating this guy and you shouldnt be waiting a certain length of time so it's "okay" to break up with him. if you're not feeling it, do it now so he's less hurt, and just explain to him that it was a mistake and you're just better off as friends. and you must still like this other guy or you wouldnt be on here asking what to do. dont make your friend feel shitty because she likes him too. theres obviously something about him that's so great since you both like him. she cant help it! if you had and the guy had a thing for a while and now he's seemed to move on, then just let it go..let her have a turn. if you and him never had a thing and you would LIKE to, do NOTTTTT turn it in to a competition with your friend. just be chill about it. if he picks you, fine. if he picks her, fine. boys are NOT worth losing a friend. i went through the same exact thing and looking back on it, me and my friend were so immature. just stay away from fighting.
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how do i get used to walking in heels? i need to wear heels for a wedding and i'm not used to wearing high heeled shoes and i always walk crooked-like and weird, lol thank you! (link)
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it'll be really uncomfortable but wear them around your house for 2-3 days before the wedding. if you usually wear sweats around the house like me, still wear them, just put heels on. you can sit down and stuff..just keep them on. don't kick them off while watching tv. it's all about getting used to. whenever i get new tennis shoes, i use this idea & they're broke in in no time lol =]
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16/f so i have a really really slutty reputation at my highschool... i don't know why... the worst thing i've done with anyone at school was make-out and dry hump (but he had a girlfriend... which i didn't know about at the time) but then another thing is that a couple times i've come back to school from a weekend or something and i have hickies and stuff... but i don't think anyone notices. so... a bunch of guys think i'm a total slut... and i was wondering if there's anything i can do to show them that i'm not... (link)
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what kind of clothes do you wear? and do you flirt with guys a lot? make sexual refrences in a joking matter? think about that stuff..and maybe people have been seeing the hickies. try to just not get them. i understand its totally fun. try on the back of your neck kinda..like more underneath your ear. it's way easier to hide. wear scarfs too, thats good. OH! and put a frozen spoon to it every morning. it'll go away in no time. it seems very weird to me that people actually think you're a slut when all you've done is made out. i dont know how you can get them to change their minds about you, just watch what you do and ESPECIALLYYY the way you dress. that can give people the wrong impression
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Me and my boyfriend have been haveing sex for awhile and he never used a condom because I was getting put on birth control. Therefore I know its not a condom but I just started my birth control and he started saying it burnt when he had to pee after we had sex and now I am having it and the burning last for awhile. What could it be?? (link)
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birth control doesnt start working solid for 3 months and its not accurate all the time. you can DEFINITLY get pregnant if he's not using a condom. and even if he was..you can still get pregnant. i dont know about this burning thing. could be an std? get it checked. but wow. use a condom.
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alright, this might be kind of a stupid question, but i just need advice.
i`m not comfortable wearing tampons, i don`t know why. i`ve tried, and i just don`t like it. eventually, it`ll be practical, sure, but for right now, i`m sticking with pads. i got my period in 6th grade, when i was 12, in december. i`m not in 7th grade and 13.
last summer, i didn`t go to the pool or anything when i was swimming, but i had my period when my whole family went to a waterpark, so i wore a tampon that day, but i didn`t like it, and it didn`t even do anything because my period stopped that day. so i don`t even know how well a tampon works for me, or if it would work well enough while swimming.
anyways, i hate having people ask me to go to the pool when i have my period and won`t go. so, if i wore a tampon, would i be able to go? or would it still be a good idea to just stay out of the water for that day? what if i`m going to a waterpark or something when i have it, should i wear a tampon then?
these might seem like stupid questions, but i wasn`t really sure. thanks in advance :D (link)
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i've heard from numerous people and my friends mom who is a specialist in this area..that the pearl tampons are bad for you. so i would avoid those. but yeah, find one that fits right and make sure you get it far enough up because if its not, that's when you feel it and it's really uncomfortable. and just like the girl below me, DONT let your period hold you back! definitly definitly go hang out with friends and family at a pool or waterpark even if you have your period. put a tampon in and forget about. then go have fun =]
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Me and my boyfriend were fooling around and I gave him a hickey...his parents don't have a problem with it and mine would.So my mom came to my school for a parent teacher meeting and she saw Casey walk by and she saw the hickey,but in the interveiw the teacher said I was doing a lot better and they think it's because of a certin young man in my life whose a very good influence.Well,he is and ya but anyways when my mom confronted me with me dad about this I said it was't me and I'd talk to him about it.So I pretended to break up with him to my mom and then I pretended to get back together now they're not gonna let me hang with him anymore I don't think...what should I do ??????? and if we can't see eachother I dout our relationship will work but I really really love him and he loves me.(p.s. the hickey was on his neck and we're both 13) (link)
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freeze a spoon, and put it on his hickey. tell your mom that his friend and him were screwin around and he pinched his neck really hard and it made it look like a hickey. but you didnt believe him and you thought someone else gave it to him so you broke up with him. but you talked to the friend that "pinched him" and you realize you made the mistake in breaking up with him. somehow get your parents to believe that and hopefully they'll let you hang out with him. oh and one more thing..you can't possibly love him when you're in what? 8th grade? that's like saying you guys love each other the same way your PARENTS love each other, and that's just ridiculous. i know what you're feeling cuz i've been there too. you "love" him, you're just not "in love" with him. dont keep convincing yourself that you are because you will most definitly get your heart broken that way.
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So this might be the wrong category, but whatever.
I HATE having hair "down there", but I'm scared to shave it or anything cause I don't wanna mess up, or cause like rashes and that sorta stuff, and I am NOT having some stranger do it. So how do i shave it? and what should i know? (link)
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if you've never shaved before, its probably really long so before you take a razor to it, i suggest you just cut off the majority of it with one or two snips of a scissors. that way when the blade gets down there, it cant get caught in the mess. make sure you use soap or shaving cream really good down there to smoothen things out first (it will help reduce bumps a little) and right after you get out of the shower, use a moisturizing lotion right away.. it really does make a difference. expect to get razor burn the first few times..it'll probably be uncomfortable and maybe hurt a little but i swear it goes away as you learn how to do it better and your body gets more used to it. sure, it's your decision whether you do it or not but i say go for it! hmm..i'm assuming you're a girl and almost all girls do. if you arent ready for it now, i could pretty much bet that you would be in a year lol
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this is a little weird, but what percentage of people do you think shave "down there"? would you suggest it (link)
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if you've never shaved before, its probably really long so before you take a razor to it, i suggest you just cut off the majority of it with one or two snips of a scissors. that way when the blade gets down there, it cant get caught in the mess. make sure you use soap or shaving cream really good down there to smoothen things out first (it will help reduce bumps a little) and right after you get out of the shower, use a moisturizing lotion right away.. it really does make a difference. expect to get razor burn the first few times..it'll probably be uncomfortable and maybe hurt a little but i swear it goes away as you learn how to do it better and your body gets more used to it. sure, it's your decision whether you do it or not but i say go for it! hmm..i'm assuming you're a girl and almost all girls do. if you arent ready for it now, i could pretty much bet that you would be in a year lol
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f/15/5' 6"/ 124 lbs
i eat a lot of junk foods haha.
if i were to eat:
breakfast: cereal and low fat milk
lunch: an apple, water, and fat free yogurt
snack: water and a grapefruit
dinner: lean meat, broccoli, water
and run for 30 minutes a day
would i see a difference in my body within a couple of months as in losing a small amount of weight and toning my legs?
i want to do it as healthfully as possible
thanks! (link)
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115lbs is the required weight for a girl who's 5'3" so you being 3 inches taller than that, i'd say you're actually under the required amount for your height. not that thats bad..as long as, like you said, you only want to lose a SMALL amount of weight. i'm glad to hear that you want to be really healthy about this but i think you need to eat more because what you suggested for eating, you're not getting enough of all the food groups and you're hardly eating a lunch at all! there's not NEARLY enough calories in that diet for you to be running 30 minutes a day. i'd say do what you're doing, just eat a bit more. honestly..because the less you eat, the slower your metabalism gets, meaning you gain weight a lot easier. but do that, and i'm sure you'll see toner legs =]
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ok my thighs are kinda fat when im standing but when i sit down they get like elephanormous!! they are huge!! my question is how can i get them smaller or skinnier please help me i wanna be a cheerleader next year and it isnt cute wearing a tiny skirt with fat thighs nad how do u get rid of love handles caz that also isnt cute with a tiny shirt!
please help and thanx in advance (link)
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well first of all..i'm sure you have fat in your legs. everyoneee does. every normal person at least lol and i had the same concern. like when i would sit down my legs would get huge but my dad helped me realize that not all of that is fat; it's loose muscle and it happens to everyone. i look at my danceline friends who are really in shape and have super toned thighs and when they sit down it looks like they have fatter legs too. i'm not saying not to work out because it would be good for you (and i should really be taking my own advice here lol) but don't stress too much because you have a LOT more muscle in your legs than you're realizing. trust me. loose muscle is probably 75-80% of it =]
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My birthday is June 5th. and I want to celebrate it this weekend because I cant do it next. At this moment in time, I'm "physically handicapped". I'm getting surgery the 6th, but I want to celebrate before I'm on bedrest for like 3 weeks. I'll be turning 14, any ideas on what I can do? Or is it too late of notice? thanks in advance! (link)
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aww, i'm sorry to hear you're "physically handicapped" and need surgery the day after your birthday :-/ thats definitly a sucky situation. but i feel for you and definitly think you need a good birthday! its kinda a little late to plan anything huge and spectacular but i'm sure you realize that. just get a ton of people over! put up some fun (but not cheesy) decorations, have good FOOD! thats a huge one, people love good food, mm beveragessssssss (keep it safe *wink*) and i dono..do you have a bon fire pit? cuz those are fun, otherwise just getting a bunch of people togehter will be fun in itself. you'll find stuff to do, just hanging around in the yard, inside or whatever and just talking. the thing is..anything is better then sittin at home by yourself on your birthday. its like the lonliest feeling in the world. sorry i probly wasnt much of a help, its late and ive ran out of brain cells for the night :-/
happy early birthday :]
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ok so im sorry if this seems like a stupid question but it's really bugging me. anyways im 16/f and i have a problem with my body image! i wear size 4 usually in american eagle jeans but just recently i've been able to wear size 2. for some reason i keep thinking that wearing a size 4 is overweight or something. i guess it's because i hear all the time that celebreties should be size 2 or something. can someone please help me get over this cause i think about it all the time!! i rate 5s!! (link)
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okay well first of all, i'm not body image braniac. i've struggled with it PLENTY myself but i've learned to just totally ignore this whole, celebrity wanna be thing. cuz seriously. those people like arent even real. they have their personal trainers and chefs and yadda yadda yadda..in the real world, you are skinny minny. anyone would die to be your size! especially since you're 16! its not like you're some little 13 year old middle schooler who hasnt developed and hit puberty. you're lucky you're thin but please. do me and yourself a favor. just try to realize that there is NOTHING wrong with a size four. all the pressure to be thin is crazy. our society is getting WAY out of hand! you're a lucky girl. the only thing i can say is to continue eating healthy and start if you arent. not to lose weight or anything but if you're concerned about this, eating healthy will make you feel better about yourself :] good luck girl, i hope things get better for you
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so i was wondering how do i get FADES to save on AIM. copying and pasting them doesnt work (link)
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wow. that girls answer below me seriously sucks. although...i do like pickles. a lot. hmm sorry i dont have an answer for you, i dont even know what a fade is :]
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