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being a tease
The other night was my first kiss. I was hanging out with a group of my friends and everybody went home except me and this guy I've liked for a while. We sat in his car listening to music and talking for a while, and when I got out of the car, he commented that he didn't need to be home for 5 more minutes (we were just up the street from his house). I asked if that was an invitation, and he said that depended on whether I was interested or not. After a few more minutes of playful banter and me almost leaving again, he finally shut up and kissed me. This is with 2 minutes left on the clock. There was tongue involved, there was necking, it was very nice, but only two minutes long. When we broke for air I said to him "time's up" and he pulled me close and asked how late I wanted to make him.
I kissed him on the cheek, told him I needed to get home (I didn't, but it was his curfew and I didn't want to get him in trouble even if it meant more fun for me), and said I'd see him at school the next day.
I really like him, so I'm wondering if I came off as a tease there at the end, if that's a good thing, and if it isn't, how can I make sure he knows I didn't mean to brush him off?
17/f
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i think you came across as just the right amount of tease. for now at least lol. when you see him at school or whenever, give him the 'eye' and kinda flirt with him so he knows that you still like him and you enjoyed your night. if you can, start up a subtle conversation about it to get him thinking about the next time. andddd, when the next time comes (make SURE it does!) make out some more because well, making out it just fun. haha i think you're fine and you making the statement you did before leaving his car 'flirtily' probably made him think about you/it the whole rest of the night =]
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You didn't brush him off and you didn't seem like a tease. You just seemed playful (in my opinion). So, if you like him, I think he likes you, I think you should go for it and kiss him again.
Or tell him that you like him, that he was a good kisser, that you would like to continue what you started the other night, or ask him out.
Hope this helps!
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