theres this guy that likes me and i kinda like him too and im going to a party tomorrow night and i heard some rumors he was going to kiss me and this is my first kiss. im really nervous what happens after we kiss? like i just dont wanna do something stupid can something help me out and like how do you kiss. ah im soo nervous. thanks soo much.
Ashumms answered Friday May 18 2007, 7:50 pm: A good kiss comes naturally. If you take advice from anyone other than the person you're kissing, it's usually bad. Just go with the flow. Guys usually take the lead with a kiss, so just do what he does.
But if he starts with his entire tongue forced halfway down your throat, just pull back gently and then start kissing him softly on the lips before starting to french again.
If you're nervous about where to put your hands, you can either: put them on his shoulders, put them on his hips, stroke his cheek or neck, or clasp your hands behind his neck.
After the kiss, put your hands on his shoulders or waist and lean back; look him in the eyes and smile. Then you can say something like, 'that was nice,' 'you're a good kisser,' or 'I really liked that.'
ND143 answered Friday May 18 2007, 7:49 pm: first kisses are cracked up to be some huge romantic thing and they're not! you'd be extremely lucky to have a good first one actually lol. just be relaxed about it, like..oh whatever, no big deal. kiss your hand a few times to like..get yourself used to feeling something on your lips like that. dont be nervous because think about it..how many times has something touched your lips before? a LOT! i'd like to tell you its no big deal but i was nervous my first time too so i know where you're coming from =] position your lips as if you're whispering the word "who" and thats pretty much all you need to know. if its your very first kiss and his first time with you, chances are you wont start making out right away so i think you're fine. making out comes naturally after you've just kissed for a while. i dont know if you wanted more in depth than this but thats really the best i can do. hope i helped, and good luck ♥ [ ND143's advice column | Ask ND143 A Question ]
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