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handjob prob
okay so i was wiv my boyf the other day and we had just finished watchin a film and we were in his bed and we started making out and i hadnt ever given him one before but i wanted to gie him a handjob..and so we were makng out and I just didnt know how to start it off...I put my hand down there..but like on top of his pants...cause I didnt really know what I was doing ad was really nervous and lol i could feel that he was hard...but i didnt really know what to do..i tried taking his hand and putting it on top of mine in attemp to have him show me what to do but he just put his arm back around me...i dont know what to do!!I know the basics of lke how to give him a handjob but i just dont know how to build up the courage to actually do it!!I mean i was rubbing him down there and i knew he was hard but it was all on top of his trackie pants!!help!!
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they're so much easier to give than one would think. but maybe i just think that because i'm so comfortable with my guy. we've been going out for over 2 years and are about to go off to college together. start out by rubbing him over the pants to get him hard then, if he's wearing anything other than sweats, stop making out for a second and undo his zipper and stuff. if you're so uncomfortable, it could help you if you knew he wanted you to do it. so just ask him. getting that positive feedback will be good reassurance. to start off underneath his boxers then, just rub it the same way you were doing over his pants and hold it and squeeze it. after getting used to just that, it's simple to just grab on and start going up and down.
now i'm assuming you know about guys cumming and everything so if he's about to, he needs to tell you if you dont have a plan to clean it up. that way you can either stop(but i'm sure he wont want you to stop) or get a handtowel to put under/around the end of it so he can just cum on that and WALA! you just gave your guy one heck of a time =]
while doing it, it sounds like you might feel pretty awkward so instead of just like..looking at each other, make out. that way all eyes will be closed. =]
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haha youre doing fine. just keep doing it over his pants for a little while. then maybe do it over just his boxers next time.. then maybe stick your hand down his pants and just touch like around it.. then eventually touch it.. and by then he will probably be asking you to do it. or if not because hes too shy/doesnt want to pressure you/whatever then you can just do it on your own. dont worry about it so much. either way he will like it. and dont be nervous about doing something wrong if it doesnt feel right to him then he will probably guide your hand or something. or while youre doing it ask him if it feels good.
xoxo good luck
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The person under me is right...actually that's exactly what i done and believe me, i was so nervous. but his reaction was perfect...he just put my hand down his pants haha just tell him your nervous i done that too! He should understand why you are. hope i helped!!
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just casually slip your hand down there a few times before you actually give him one.. that will loosen up your fearss
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