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ughh love problems
i liked this guy for a long time and now im kinda over him. my friend likes him now and im all defensive. i cant talk to her cause i have a boyfriend. but idk if i like my boyfriend, but i just started going out w/ him today so i cant break up with him yet.. i went out with him cause we're friends and hes nice and hes like in love with me. i just dont feel the chemistry. this is my first boyfriend. im a wreck. i cant eat, think straight, etc.
xclueless
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first of all. your new boyfriend is NOT in love with you. second..you dont sound like you should be dating this guy and you shouldnt be waiting a certain length of time so it's "okay" to break up with him. if you're not feeling it, do it now so he's less hurt, and just explain to him that it was a mistake and you're just better off as friends. and you must still like this other guy or you wouldnt be on here asking what to do. dont make your friend feel shitty because she likes him too. theres obviously something about him that's so great since you both like him. she cant help it! if you had and the guy had a thing for a while and now he's seemed to move on, then just let it go..let her have a turn. if you and him never had a thing and you would LIKE to, do NOTTTTT turn it in to a competition with your friend. just be chill about it. if he picks you, fine. if he picks her, fine. boys are NOT worth losing a friend. i went through the same exact thing and looking back on it, me and my friend were so immature. just stay away from fighting.
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