my boyfriend recently moved about 3 hours away. he comes back and visits every two weeks. and his next visit is on his birthday. i got him a nice shirt from abercrombie, a necklace, cologne and a little build a bear i made for him. i have everything i need i just need a cute way to give it to him i dont want to just be like oh here you go-his birthday is on april fools day if that helps any
Wow you know how to pick presents! I think it would be cute if you told him you couldnt hang out. Then you check with his family members (if you have that relationship with them) and set up a place to suprise him. It doesn't have to be like the movies, fancy resturant, and all. It can be as simple as a park or something. Make sure he's completely suprised! :) I hope that helped, any questions or feedback please let me know!
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Hey i'm 16 i've had my period for about 4 years but only recently started to use tampons. i know that they aren't suppose to hurt when they're in right, but i've had a tampon in all day so my flow is a lot slower that usual and my new tampon is kind of uncomfortable. should i take it out or give it time to absorb some and see if it gets better?
If it hurts, I would take it out. They don't need time to absorb, I would recomend getting a new type of tampon. Everybody is different, so you need to find one that fits you! I hope I helped at all! :) I love feedback good and bad!
Love,
Molly
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How can you be friends again? When you haven't seem them for long time and you don't know what to talk about anymore. I need your help please is tonight that I'm going to see my best friend Raymond that i haven't seem him for a long time and i don't know what to talk about with him.
If you were good friends once, I can almost promise you that you will have some things to talk about. Memories, what your doing now, ect. If you aren't as good of friends as you once were, don't feel discouraged, people change. Good Luck! I hope I helped at all! I love feedback good and bad!
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i have curly hair and i'm really sick of itt. sometimes i think its cute, but other times i feel like its just frizzy and not attractive. what are some cute styles i could use? please don't suggest straightening it, because it takes a long, long time & with my straightener, it doens't work that well. i already know the basic hair styles so please suggest some good ones =] thankyouu
Oh do I know how you feel! I have really curly hair, but anyways! Basic hair styles, I really like to put my hair in a half pony tail, it's really pretty and it's out of your face. You can also put clips in your hair like pulling it back. I recomend just playing with it, I'm not sure what your hair looks like, but if it's like mine I play around with it alot. You should get some clips, bobby pins, ect and just test a bunch of different styles, don't be afraid to do even the silly ones! Get to know your hair ;)! Haha Good luck! I hope I helped! I love feedback good and bad!
Love,
Molly
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16/F,this girl who use to bully me so badly in 5th grade continues to gossip and say all of this crap about me in high school. Because of her actions, I've had a low self-esteem.
I could care less about what she says or thinks about me cause her opinions don't matter to me at all. Usually, I'll just ignore her and I won't let it bother me. I was willing to forget about the past and forgive her but she just refuses. I think that she is really immature for holding a grudge against me for so long. My best friend told me that she could be jealous or she needs to pick on someone to make herself feel better. But, I'm wondering what is her problem and why do you think she continues to do this?
A lot of people deal with almost this same exact problem including me. People are so cruel, and very immature. It sounds like this girl is just doing this because she is so bored with her own life she needs to stick her nose into somebody elses. You can talk to her, and be like "I'm not sure what your problem is but I'm really sick of all this crap, we are 16 not 10 and I've tried to be nice to you, I just think it's stupid that your gossiping nobody in there life needs extra drama they've already gotten enough" But personally I would just completely ignore her, hopefully she will relize it doesn't make you upset and she will sadly go on to the next person. See bullys like to pick on people that it gets to, it's almost like they enjoy seeing people hurt. So if you just don't let it bother you then I hope they will move on and leave you alone. If you want to stick up for yourself you most certainly can, but if you just want to ignore it and have them move on maybe even quicker thats fine too! Your best friend was right, they are probably jealous of you, you seem like a very nice girl!Don't ever have a low self-esteem because of these people, there sad pathetic people who I sometimes feel bad for because they don't have anything going for themselves! Good Luck! I hope I helped at all!
I love feedback good and bad!
Love,
Molly
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my mom gave me a couple of options for my first car.
1. one is that she would buy me a car for $3,000 and i would have to pay her back half of that. her friend has a red honda civic with a sunroof and is willing to sell it to us for that price.
2. another option is for her to give me her current car (an infinite with a sunroof that's 5 years old). this may not be true, but i think she may make me buy it from her for $1,500.
3. the kind of car i want is a convertible bug (volkswagon) or a bug with a sunroof. in the newspaper, they're as cheap as $7,000.
what should i do: option 1, 2, or 3? i don't want to pay for car insurance on a car that isn't the volkswagon i want (basically, i'm going to get a bug whether it's now or in a few years).
thanks.
Well I suggest you save up for the bug. I want that same car, but when I checked out the prices for a brand new one, it was 27,000$. There very pricey when you buy them brand new! You might want to check out what these $7,000 bugs look like, just so you don't save up and they are not at all what you expected! As far as the other cars go it seems like you would just be buying a car to get around, so if they both work, then I would go with the infinite because it's the least expesive. I think you should save up for your dream car, because that is the car your going to want to drive. Well Good luck! I hope I helped at all! I love feedback good and bad!
Love,
Molly
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I lost my cell phone and I've tried calling my number but the phone was turned off. I have verizon. Is there a way to locate where my phone is somehow?
No there isn't. I lost my phone just recentally, actually somebody ended up stealing it and using up alot of my minutes. So it's important to tell your parents, because they will call verizon and shut the phone down temporarily and then if you find it in a month or two then they will turn it back on for you, but if you don't then it will be shut down permantly and you have to purchase a new phone I bieleve and reactvate it. So I really hope you find it! Make sure if you haven't told your parents tell them already, because I choose not to tell my parents and it had been a month and the phone bill was huge they were furious, but if I would have told them they could have shut it off and there wouldn't even be a phone bill! Thats kind of confusing but I hope you got my drift! Good Luck I really hope you find it! I love feedback good and bad!
Love,
Molly
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does anybody know any LACROSSE STicCK TRICKS?
these are the ones i know so far..
*catch it on the other side
*hit it on the handle part, and catch it
*and throw it, make a circle around it, aand catch it
*throw it, put the stick between your legs and catch it
anyone know anymore?? websites are good too
Well last year when I played lacrosse there was some other *drills* thats just what our coach called them, you throw it up and then it it with the shaft and try to catch it. Then there is throw it switch hands and catch it with the other. You can throw it and then move your hand that you throw with to your other side of your body! I know that sounds confusing but there really good for hand eye cordination! I hope I helped at all! Good Luck! I love feedback good and bad!
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my birthdayy is in late august. i don't really feel like having a party, and i want to do something fun maybe with just my best friend or a couple people. what are some suggestions? thankyouu! sorry if its in the wrong category.
I know how you feel, sometimes I just want to spend time with just one person not through a big party! Theres lots of things you guys can do, some of them cost money some don't so heres a list!
-pinic
-go camping
-go to a water park for the day
-go to a fun park
-have a movie marthalon
-swim
-go tubing, water skiing ect.
-go to the mall
-go out to a fancy resturant for dinner and get dressed up
-go to a non fancy resturant and get dressed up
-dancing
I hope I helped at all! Good Luck! And Happy Early Birthday! I love feedback good and bad! :)
Love,
Molly
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i want to dye my hair like avril lavignes here:
http://cdn.news.aol.com/aolnews_photos/07/06/20060716124909990005
how do you do it?
Aww I really like that look! Anyways, you should deff go to a salon. Remember it won't ever look exactly like the picture, but it might look similar. They will probably dye your hair underneath. Then they will leave the top your natural color. I really wouldn't recomend doing it yourself, it's very hard to do if your not really experienced in cosmetolgy. I mean you can try, if you really want to then just buy from the store a much darker hair color than yours then pin the top layer of your hair up and then dye the underneath and get it away from your scalp area! Good Luck! I hope I helped at all! I love feedback good and bad!
Love,
Molly
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Okay, heres the deal! My period is three days late, (which i could care less about) BUT, i am leaving for vacation on the 25th, then i'm coming back the 28th. Since its only three days, i dont care about that, but next month, i'm leaving on the 17th, and coming back a week later. Now, my quistion is, since i dont want to have my period next month, during the time i'm on vacation, is there any way to lessen the time that i have my period. Like foods that i could eat, or excersise's i could do? Any help would really be appreciated!!!!
Awww. Man I hate periods, but yes there is somethings you could do, but sadly it will come when it comes.But it never hurts to try! Try to stay away from sugary foods, drink tons of water, and run! Those will probably help a little but theres not much you really can do! Just like eat less carbs, and more fruit, vegtables. Try really hard to stay away from bread. And run, do crunches! I hope this helps! Poor girl, on your vacation! I recomend extended relief midol, really helps it last up to like 6 hours so you take it in the morning then your good for like the rest of the day! So Good luck!
I love feedback good and bad!
Love,
Molly
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Ages of children: (boy)6 (girl)8
My age:14
Entertianing? Cooking?(breakfast and lunch)
any ideas?
Oh you've got your hands full but babysitting can be really fun with that age! Play lots of games, don't be afraid to use your imagination!
Breakfast
-toast
-eggs
-cereal
=basic simple meal
Lunch
-peanut butter
-jelly
-turkey slices
-cut fruit
-vegtables
-lots of water
=healthy but good lunch
Entertaining
-barbies
-tag (night,tv,freeze ect.)
-hide and go seek
-house
- crafts
-walks
-volleyball
-soccer (basically any sports)
Good Luck! Have an awesome time babysitting! I hope I helped! I love feedback good and bad!
Love,
Molly
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whats with this we got more bounce in california. is that like a song? if so, by who?
Yea, I love that song! :) The artist is Soul Kid #1! The album is Americanized and the tital of the song is (More Bounce In) California! Hope I helped! I love feedback good and bad! :)
Love,
Molly
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okay . well i`m tihnking about dying my hair brown . i don`t want it to dark or to light . about like regular? and i`1m going to get carmel highlights . do you know any hairdye that you could do at home [ my nieghbor is at school for cosmetology so she`s going to do it ] that will work really good
I've dyed my hair at home and in a salon. My hair looked much better when somebody did it, perfessional hair stylist have really good dye, but when I did it at home it turned out pretty good. It's a really big mess, so be sure you have somebody who is experienced. Don't dye your hair anything to shocking, but yeah I think if your neighbor does it you should be great! I hope it works out! Good Luck! I love feedback good and bad! :)
Love,
Molly
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i need to lose weight but i dont want to invole any one and i would like to keep it fairly private from my friends and family. any suggestions? they would be LOVED
Alright. Keeping it private shouldn't be a problem. Just don't make it public that your working out or anything. What I recomend, is laying of the high carbs foods. Pasta, and breads, be sure to watch what fluids your drinking. Soda has ALOT of sugar, so try to stick to water. I recomend crunches, about 100 a day, throughout the day, you don't need to do them all at once. Also I love to run, but I know for some people they just hate it, but if you like to run that is wonderful exersise it really gets your heart going and gives strength to your legs. If you think like all of this is to much, just take it one day at a time. Maybe walk one day, do maybe 50 crunches. Try to challenge yourself everyday. Don't do away completly with all sugary things because your just going to crave them more. Just try to eat less of them. Everyday take a little more away. Loosing weight is all about you, only you know what is right for you. So if your having trouble with any of this, than just follow what you feel like doing! Good Luck! I love feedback good and bad! I hope I helped at all! :)
Love,
Molly
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hey guyss
so i have exactly 10 days to loose as much weight as possible and tone up my stomach
im meeting my boyfriends friends and we're all hanging out at this theme park where we're prolly going to hang out at the water park for most of the time and i need to lessen all this flubber by then!
if it helps... im 16 and im 5'' yes im pretty short lol
and i weigh 107 lbs...soo any advice on this would be great...thanks so mucch
Well it seems like you don't need to loose any weight, your almost to skinny! But if you really feel like getting toned that I recomend eatting less high calorie foods. Don't stop eatting all together, just try to stay away from foods like pasta,and breads. Do at least 100 crunches a day. Try in the ten days to get yourself into a schedule, then every day try to get maybe 10 more crunches than you did before. Be sure to keep yourself hydrated, I don't know where you live but here in this summer heat it is important to drink lots of water! :D Good Luck! Remember your in perfect weight right now, you don't need to loose!
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I need some really good truths && dares. both all girls and mixed groups. Daers that are apropriate for teenagers would be good., and any kind of truths
thankxx
Haha I love that game! Well you could dare somebody to put an ice cube in there bra until it melts. Run around the house screaming "...." or you could go with ever so classic put the bra in the freezer. Heres a list of some fun ones! :) Enjoy!
-put a admirer letter in a mailbox
-prank call somebody (that could get bad)
-talk in a british accent for ... long
Hope I helped! Have fun!
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When I wore my bathingsuit today, I notice you could see some of my pubic hair when my bathingsuit was a little out of place. I have been thinking of shaving it, just like a little, where I need to, but I am scared due do bumps, and a rash or something. Can a razor shave off a long piece of hair? Should I even shave there?
Well hmm. I had a similar problem, and I know it's kind of werid but shaving for me does cause bumps. But if you trim with sissors and than shave you should be fine. If you ever want to stop you can. I don't know if I would. Waxing is much better but much more painful. Good Luck!
Love,
Molly
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I'm 14.
To make a really long story shorter, my bff...Jane. Has an abusive boyfriend, also, she's only 13, which makes it even more weird. She's going out with a 15 year old.
And she says I'm the only one she told.
She says he doesn't like beat her up, he just hits her a lot..
I never noticed, but recently she's been wearing long sleeves. Because she's actually BRUISED.
But, Jane says she really has it under control, and doesn't want to break up with him because she apparently realllly likes him. And she says he likes her, but..
I said if I were her I would break up with him.
Then she said something like that I didn't know what love was, so I couldn't say that.
I've never really been in this kind of situation before.
Do I tell an adult?
If you were me..what would you...do?
ugh, I'm kind of confused.
And I want to help my friend.
Oh man. This guy, has so serious issues, and your friend Jane seems like she needs to get help. That is not love and don't ever think that. You need to tell somebody, if this guy is hitting her on a regular basis think about what he is capable of when she gets mad and wants to fight back. It's a terrible situation I know, your friend might be upset at first, but it is for the best you tell an adult. It's up to you about which adult you choose, maybe your mom, or a school counsiler. I wish you the best of luck! I hope I helped at all. I love feedback good and bad.
Love,
Molly
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Right now I have the sunsilk shampoo, the dark blue one that's for when your hair gets poofy when it dries. That's not a major problem for me, so I don't want to get it next time. I want to get the purple one, that straightens "unwanted kinks or waves" (lol thats what it said) So I was wondering if anyone has that and if it workd good because my hair isn't actually wavy, but it kind of is. idk I don't know how to explain it. It's just retarted. I guess you could call them kinks, wtv that is lol. Sooo does it work good?
thanks
I've used that, and my hair is naturally like very very curly! So it didn't get rid of all my curls, it deffainatly helped a little but no shampoo can make your hair completely straight. So if you have some kinks or waves I'm sure it will help your hair. Mine felt very smooth after. I hope I helped at all! Good Luck! I love feedback good and bad!
Love,
Molly
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