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Age: 15
Member Since: December 25, 2003
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Last Update: December 21, 2004
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I like this guy named Joey and he is an 8th grader and I am a 6th grader and I really like him but I don't know what to do! People are like ask him out but I don't know what to say what should I do? (link)
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Become his friend first, then if you really think something's possible then ask him out. What have you got to lose?
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i am really good friends with this guy. i never really thought about it, but he comes up to me one day and tells me that he likes me. now, dont get me wrong, but hes a really nice guy and i will feel really bad about saying no when he asks me out. worst of all, my neighbors are his aunt, uncle, and cousins. im basically in a loose-loose situation. what do i do?
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Why would you say yes to him if you don't like him? Plus I don't think he'd be so excited over the fact that he got rejected to tell his aunt, uncle, and cousins. Do you really think he'd be like "A GIRL REJECTED ME!! ISN'T THAT GREAT??".. no.. so just say 'no' if you really don't want to go out with him.
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at the dance s i always rejected this guy i know, but now i like him and he probably wont ask me. he has a girlfriend now, he went out with her to make me jealous, so he doesnt like her. what should i do? (link)
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Play along, make HIM jealous. Or better yet, just flat out tell him how you feel. If he's gone through the trouble of making you jealous then why not tell him?
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i went to camp with this guy and i slowely fell in love with him. i liked him for three years and now we rarely talk anymore. im not sure if i like him in a crush way, i like him more as a brother. i miss us talking. i dont want to go up to him and start randomly talking, i'd look like an idiot.what should i do??? (link)
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Think about it.. looking like an idiot would only last a couple minutes.. but knowing a friendship is still intact lasts a lifetime. So.. talk to him.. why toss a friendship away over embarrasy?
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I like this boy named Robert. The only problem is he doesn't know. How can I tell him? The next problem is he doesn't know my name. I think I'm cursed. What should I do? (link)
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Slip him a note in his locker at school (if you're still in grade school). Or make friends with one of his friends then ask them to bring the topic of 'you' up.
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i really like this guy. he's been really weird lately and says that he wont go out with anyone until hes in tenth grade. he did like me for a week, but he wont answer any of my friends about me. i want to stop liking him, but i just cant! i really like him! what should i do? (link)
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Just respect his wishes and wait until he's in 10th grade. But buddy with him until that time!! But not too close as to be considered a best friend though.
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There's this guy at school i like and he likes me. the problem is he has a girlfriend. he never liked her, but shes madly in love with him. i recently heard from his friend that he's dumping his girlfriend for me. but last week his girlfriend's friend yelled at me during PE and LA. If he does ask me out what should i say? either way i'm hurting someone. i really like this guy, though. should i say yes or no? (link)
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There's nothing you can do if he dumps her for you. Plus if his girlfriend hates you, then why should you care what she feels/says? She obviously doesn't care for you! So just go with what your heart desires, which is probably a 'yes' to if he asks you out!
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I'm not incredibly popular at school but I do have a best friend who I've known all my life even though she just moved to my school. Now she's making new friends and she even has a boyfriend. I was supposed to go to a pizza place with her and some of the kids in my class but my mom wanted me to come over to her house for the weekend so I didn't go with them. Now I'm worried that since she's made so many new friends, she'll just drop me. Do you think that'll happen?,
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It depends how good of a friend she is. If she really cares for you she won't ditch you, and if she does.. then forget her, there are other better friends out there for you who won't leave you.
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I like this girl, but i dont know if she likes me. People say that we would be a great couple, and people also say that she does liek me. But if i ask her out and she says no, then i would be so embarressed. Mainly because we have been friends for a while and she might not see me the same way.. What do i do?
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Someone born when someone dies..
Someone laughs when someone cries..
If you love someone let them know..
For they may leave tomorrow..
And never ever know...
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I AM CURRENTLY DATING A GUY THAT IS IN LUV WITH ME. I DONT KNOW IF I LUV HIM, I FEEL WEIRD AROUND HIM. IN A GOOD WAY. ITS LIKE NUTHING ELSE MATTERS. HE SAYS HE LUVS ME MORE AND MORE EVERY DAY... AM I IN LUV?? (link)
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Yes..
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my friend thinks it's funny that she's not doing her homework. Every time we try to talk to her, she doesn't listen. She's failing and i don't know wht to do. (link)
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Tell her that this isn't a laughing matter. If she continues to not do her homework, she might fail the class and be held back. Then she'd be in school forever!! Ahh!
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Well basically I'm really out of shape. I don't play any sports i don't take dance classes or things like that. And i would like to stay in shape even though it's really hard for me. Does any body know any excersises that i could do over a couple of minutes to keep me in shape? (link)
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Do you really expect just "over a couple of minutes" that you can stay in shape? Then you're horribly mistaken. It takes longer then just minutes, maybe days or weeks. Try jogging for half an hour, roller blading, skating , biking, swimming.
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I often feel really lonely. Most of my friends have changed, and I don't know who are my real friends anymore. Some of my friends became really snobbish since they entered college.. And they act much differently towards me. It's like I annoy them, like i'm not cool enough. Also none of them ever have time for me.. Sometimes, I tell them to invite me when they do things together, yet they never even think of me.
Since two years, I also met a really nice guy named Kevin. He really is my best friend, but since a few months he's been completely ignoring me. He is always talking to his online girlfriend. When he can't talk to her he calls me and complains how boring things are without her. I feel like I'm a "last resort" thing to him.
How can I know who's my real friend and who isn't? (link)
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That sounds almost similar to what I'm going through also. Well seriously, if your "friends" keep forgetting you, then they're not your friends at all. People change, especially when there's a big change, like college. There's nothing much you can do with them because they don't seem to care, so why don't you just try making some new friends? Ones that actually care.
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OK, Here's the deal. I kind of dated a guy a while back and when we stopped talking, I turned to his ex-girlfriend and found out a lot of stuff about him. It took so long to get over him and I can finally say that I AM OVER HIM for sure. Anway, his ex and I became confidants and we talked trash about him to each other all the time (ya know like girls do) and in a way, I really think that she's to be credited for me getting over him. Well, we were talking one night and I knew that the two of them had slept together when they were dating (they went out for like 2yrs.) and I told her that I was glad that I hadn't slept with him. He was her first and the only guy that she has slept with. She found out not too long ago that she has cervical cancer...she told me this and continued to inform me that her doctor had told her it was from HPV (the std). Ofcourse, she and I are both convinced that this guy is responsible for giving it to her (after all, he is the only guy that she has ever slept with). That's not my only problem: he has no idea that she has cancer and she is sooo scared to tell him. He and I share a mutual friend and that friend just happens to be my best friend (the two of them on the other hand hardly ever talk). So here's where the advice comes in, "our" friend knows about the cancer thing with the girl (he knows her too) and he has been on MY back about it ever since he found out (an accident by the way)...he wants me to tell the guy that he is carrying HPV and that his ex has cancer. I KNOW that he needs to know but why should I have to tell him??? I haven't even seen the guy in six months, he's dating someone now and chances are they're sleeping together. I would hate for someone else to get a venerial disease just because this guy is the selfish slug of a man that he is but i don't know what to do....PLEASE HELP! (link)
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Well really, would you want what happened to his ex to happen to anyone else? You should just tell him yourself, after all, it benefits others as well. Think of it as not doing it for him, but for every woman is he is going to sleep with.
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I'm about as butch as the next girl. I don't shave anything, I hate make up, I have a mean left hook, I don't take any crap on the street. My husband is a sweetheart, I found a rare gem in him, but his bull dyke best friend hates me. I have tried EVERYTHING to befriend her. I have tried ignoring her, I don't know what else to do. She HATES me. She tells total strangers what a seething bitch I am (well, I am) and she has tried to break us up many times. She has even threatened me with physical violence. I don't tell him who to be friends with or not, but she just won't let up. It's making him take a 2nd look at his friendship with her, and I'm afraid he's going to leave her behind. What can I do? I think she may be jealous of me. Does she want him, or me, or both of us. She has a history of sleeping with his other girlfriends, but I'm not bi. I'm letting him sort this one out for himself, but I feel kinda bad about it.
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Have your hustband talk to her. Have him ask her why she's treating you like that. There really is nothing you can do if you just want to let him sort this one out.
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what do you do when u fall for you best friend? i know it sounds like the CLASSIC relationship question.. but i really dont know what to do! i have been best friends with this guy for 3 months.. that mite not sound like a long time... but we have grown really close in that time! i like him as more than a friend now and when he starts to talk about who i like... i dont know what to say! he says im shy.. and well i agree.. lol cause im not the foward type to just come out and tell someone that i like them... i dont want to ruin our friend ship by telling him how i feel, but what if he likes me 2 and he wants me to make the first move?? please someone help me.. (link)
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Give little signs that show you like him. Or better yet, the classic "lets watch a scary movie and at a scary part grab onto him" technique. Ask him who HE likes too, if he doesn't give you a straight answer then tell him exactly what he tells you when you don't give HIM a straight answer!
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Dildo sword fights are all right arn't they. I'm playing with my cousin ryan. Jon and Adrienne (link)
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It's all right if you want to um.. play with your cousins.. I guess.. o_o
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There is this guy in one of my classes, and I'm not sure but I think hi MIGHT like me. he's on tha honor role but he's not a nerd. HE's actually kinda cute, but we've only really talked once. we were on a field trip and he just came over and started talking to me. Later I decide to eat lunch with him and he asked if I wanted his oreos. I know that sounds like a question a friend would ask but the way he said it was so sweet a kind (not like other people). So I'm confused. Does he like me or doesn't he. Kinda sounds like a question Shakspere would ask (to be or not to be? That is the question.)
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There's no way to tell just from that. You have to get to know him, talk to him more. Then look for signs of affection.
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Everytime I am on center stage, for playing an instrument, singing, acting, auditions, giving a speech in front of my class, whatever.... I get soooo nervous. My feet shake, my hands shake so hard it's hard to hold papers or instruments steady and they get really cold. Sometimes I get this nervous twitch above my lip. I don't know any way to get rid of it! And I can't just avoid the stage, because even though I get nervous, I really want to perform. Ugh.
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Just calm down and picture yourself performing by yourself. Imagine you are in a room by yourself just performing, don't be nervous. Picture there being no audience, just relax. Or picture everyone in their underwear!
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I have been married to a man I consider my soul mate for eighteen years. We have a 5 year daughter. My father died about a year ago. My husband loved him more than his own father (who is a selfish, egotistical, non-caring male). The loss touched us all greatly. I turned to taking care of my mom (my father's dying wish) and my daughter. I didn't realize that my husband had turned to drugs. On Feb 17, 2003 he was arrested and sentenced to 15 years. His tenative release date is Oct 2013. On Valentine's day (3 days before his arrest) his present to me was a broken leg. I still love this man. He seems to have changed since he has been in jail from the letters that he sends. Ironically it will be Valentine's day before I can see him. He was never violent during the times previous to my father's death. But he built a persona of me in his mind that he seems to hang on to. 10 years is a long time to wait. I have been told by others that he will be a harder person when he gets out. I had returned to school and will get my degree in Spring of 2005. I am not sure if I should remain married to him or not. I am afraid that all the lovely words he is writing is because he is afraid of abandonment. There are a lot of other details too numerous to mention but pertinent to the situation. But because of what he has done I have lost my home, my transportation, and my life. Should I give him a second chance or not? (link)
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It really is all up to you. Whether you think he deserves a second chance or not, if you truly do love him, you'll give him another chance. If you think you might have a hard time with him still in your life, then don't give him that chance. Take a deep breath, relax, and think whether or not he would be better in your life. What positive and negative influences will he have on you, your mother, and your daughter if he is still in your life once he is released. It shouldn't be an instant decision, but you'll eventually come to a decision. :)
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