I smile,laugh,love,and live in the moment. I don't think lifes worth wasteing on a boring day. I am happy and with who I am. lifes about friends who hold on to you,the people who you love and return it. I don't believe in changing for anyone, i can say that everything happens for a reason and if its not a good ending,then its not over. I Love music, and interested in anything to do with style,makeup,and fashion. I also love heroes, south park, and family guy :]. I'm done with the fake people,i've basically dropped all who never cared. and i'm actually happy,i feel so much better ! I've been through it,the friends,family,and the whole finding yourself. And i think Marylous Coffee is bomb.I have the most amazing friends; and i'm so lucky to have those crazy bitches >:}.I'm obbsessed with Harry Potter
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I have good friends but a lot of my school either doesnt know me or thinks i am really shy. I'll admit I am shy when i first meet people, it takes me awhile to warm up to them. I consider myself to be pretty and think i am really outgoing and funny when i am myself. but people who dont know me think i am just silent, quiet, or shy. and even when i AM myself, im still not loud and obnoxious like others are, im just very relaxed, calm, and chill. thats just the way i am. but it makes me feel bad about myself because people say to me like you never talk, or your so quiet, and part of me accepts the fact that i am just a quiet person and want to say like yeah deal with it but the other part kind of wants to be like my other friends who are loud and obnoxious. these people that say this are usually guys too and i just dont get why it would bother people. like whoo cares if i talk a lot or not whats it to them? anything would be of big help, thanks (link)
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This is what i think on this:
if you want to change-you can!
one of the best books i've read on life is called "the secret". It states that thoughts become things. you really have to read it,it changed how i think and really helped me with my shy problem!
It takes time for everyone to come out of there shell. some longer than others- but it happens! If you think "I'm confident, I'm outgoing,I'm fun!" over and over- it'll eventually become you. Its about pushing your limits.Doing things you wouldn't normally do. What i think is-just do it;what do i have to loose? If not now,when?!Why NOT go up to the kid you like and say hi?(the worst that could happen is them thinking your weird-but psh-if they do then they're a waste of time anyways!you can move on-its not the end of the world.most guys like it when girls are confident like this anyways)Would you ever shout your friends name across the hall? or would you rather walk up to them to say hi? Its little things like that-start small. You absolutly HAVE to be sure with yourself. No confidence yet? fake it 'till you make it! Always smile! I can't stress enough about this.You affect the people around you. Trust me-i chanted in my head all day- "I AM outgoing! I AM confident!" and eventually i started feeling that way. Thoughts really do become things. You don't have to change who you are-but if you want to-whats stopping you? People will welcome your outgoingness. Your only labeled the "shy girl" because you believe this to be true. But you can break free from it. You can ALWAYS change! Start saying hi to people,smile,do things that make you feel good,new clothes, hobbies-anything! You don't have to accept something you don't want to be. Think "I REFUSE TO BE SHY!" Reeefuse it ! haha,i'm being so weird! but this just sounds so much like me 2 years ago.I hope you find this to help-really pick up that book,its amazing! good luck and hopefully you can become the person you want to be :]
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a lot of people i know do this thing in there AIM info or myspace and it says like for example:
i love you babe e
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Justin e
they always put an E there .. WHAT DOES IT MEAN???
i don't know if its like an inside joke thing or what haha someone tell me! soo many people have it so i don't think its a inside joke..
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it just means they put a picture or something there but you cant see it on your computer because you might have the old version of aim or its just the computer in general,i get it all the time (=
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i'm 16. my ex and i went out for 10 month. separated for four and then got back together for two weeks. I foudn out that he had turned into someone totally different/player. So anyway, he texts me again now two weeks after we break up. He was an ass to me. He was being so rude, i don't get it, it gets on my nerves. He said the most hurtful things, for example: I don't care that we aren't together anymore. He was my first real love, so ofcourse its gonna take a while for me to get over him. But wat the hel is his problem. Why does he have to be so freakin rude? what do you guys think? (link)
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guys usually do things like this when they don't want to show their true feelings. He could be wanting to "get back" at you. He could be trying to proove something of himself-that he doesn't need you. when in reality, he really was hurt. But instead of opening up to you about it he wants to act like a jerk for a cover up. Or,it could be that he really has become a completely different person. Maybe he finds love a waste of time now? All in all its his loss. Don't even care about what he thinks-he's not the same guy you used to know. I'd stop talking to him-and if he keeps bothering you just be like "honestly, what are you trying to proove?" First loves are hard to get over,and no matter how much you miss the way he used to be-its not going to get him back. He's probably lost himself. Players are really insecure anyways,so don't worry about it! You'll find a guy totally worth your time eventually. For now just ignore this guy who obviously is trying to frount and create a "player" status,hah ! good luck :]
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I'm 22/M, average looking, and only had 1 real relationship in my life
I live in Centerville now but graduate college in 4 months, and move to Akron
Names and Towns have been changed.
Cora lives in Town B where I move to. She's kind of a player, but she likes me (has kissed me when I visited last time, I know she likes me) and talks to me online quite a bit. Kind of a drama queen and pretty wild. But I'm really attracted to her and her personality.
Kris lives in current town A. She's the exact opposite, really shy, kind of a different lifestyle than me, but just super sweet and nice (very similar to my personality). Much easier for me to talk to in person than Cora.
Basically I like to party a little too, but I fall right in the middle of Wild Cora and Boring Kris. I don't want to move and have something fall apart with Cora and never have tried anything with Kris. I also don't want to fall for Kris and then move, plus I'm pretty sure I'll hurt Cora's feelings if I get into a relationship.
I also don't want to sit here idly. I'm 22 and have had one hap-hazzard relationship while my friends are already getting married. So I want to try something. It's just weird because I have feelings for both girls. What should I do/Who should I go for? (link)
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well what i would do is wait till you get to know them both better. Kris could be actually outgoing and fun if you got to know her more,and over time if you talked to Cora,you'd feel more comfortable and more outgoing with her. Its all about what you want in a relationship and trying to match up your interests with theres. Get to know them as friends first,don't rush into a serious relationship just yet! Though being a player isn't really the best thing to notice when you first meet a person,she could change. But be careful not to fall for her too soon,if she's the player you say,she's good at this. Loyalty and trust are both big factors to think about.Get to know them as friends first and base a strong friendship first.That way you can decide which one is more of a friend and which is more a girlfriend.And when you do choose either one-the one you down choose can still be a good friend. Don't say you like either of them yet,or lead them on(not saying you would,but eh,who knows :p). You might just find out that Cora's more down to earth,and Kris is more outgoing. But hay,you're single! Don't limit yourself to just two choices for finding love. I'd play it out as just being yourself and see which one sways you :}. Like you said-just try it out.go with the flow,no rush! You'll know which one to choose-or if its neither of them-eventually. sorry I couldn't give you much more of an answer! hopefully I helped, good luck!
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I'm 16 years old , Female . Well I fell in love at the age of 14 [ don't care if anyone thinks it's too young ] . Me and my first love Dated for a year and 3 months . We broke up summer of O8' June 1st , and best believe it was the hardest thing I thinkk i've had to go through . Well In November I started dating this guy named Jason , treats me better than any guy ever has ... Well I do love him and believe I am in love with him. Problem though , It's so hard getting over Justin [ first love ] & it sucks because i'm the first girl Jason [ current bf ] has ever been " in " love with . Y'all it's almost been a year since the break up with Justin & I really need to get over him but I know it takes time ... But I feel horrible bc I can't give my whole heart to Jason when I still feel as if Justin has some of it but I have all of Jason's heart ... It would'nt be that hard if Justin did'nt go to the same school abd I see him everyday . But Jason said he'd wait because i'm worth it but honestly no guy wants to stick around when ur stuck on someone else .. Help me get over Justin , I need to give my all , 100% to Jason , he's the greatest boyfriend i've had . (link)
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I know you feel like you could never let go of your first love-because,a first love is the first strong connection you've ever had with someone. But you've got to remember the reasons why you guys broke up-why you and justin will only ever be friends. If you and justin left some words unsaid-that might be the reasons you're getting these feelings. You're remembering the old times in the relationship. Its changed now though, and you have Jason to make new and better memories! :D Don't think about missing an old love,its dead and gone;replaced with a fresh new love thats true. No one can ever forget there first love,i mean, no one forgets there first expierience of anything for that matter. Its not that you're trying to get over Justin so much the person-but the fact he was your first love. Its easy;;just think that Jason is the first great guy who loves you with everything he has,and you feel the same way :D! I know it takes time-its happend to me as well. But you can get through with this! Everytime you think of Justin,switch your thoughts to Jason.:]
good luck!
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well so im 14, turning 15 really soon. i do not look my age at all. i look atleast 17. anyways theres this guy. i met him and he said he was 19, and i really started liking him and stuff, but later on i did find out that he really is 27, he has his reasons to lie about his age but i dont want to get into it. and i just found out his real age the other day, it shocked me to death the first day, second day pretty weird, but today im totally over it and still really like him. and we had a talk last night about us being together and me soon moving in with him when im able to move out. he still doesnt know that i know hes 27, he cant know i know, long story. but is it wrong to be in love with a 27 year old when your only 14 years old? =/ (link)
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look at this way:you have your WHOLE life ahead of you to find a guy you really like. I know you like him,but the fact a 27 year old can't stay in his own age range might say something about it. Don't get me wrong,he might be a reallllly nice guy,i don't deny that. But you have so many other options! I don't know why he lied, but age is a vital thing to lie about. If he lies to you about this, how do you know he doesn't also have kids and a wife? even if thats not the case, your almost HALF his age. Maybe, you could tell him you know how old he really is. See what he says? Remember, EVERY guy always puts on his best mask at first. Please,please,PLEASE don't consider moving in with him. You need to enjoy the life and be young! Don't rush things, and you shouldn't have to be tied down to someone trying to get you to move in with him-which he probably wants you to do to keep you to himself. I know,he could be a nice guy. I know it might be a good reason for him to lie for his age...for some unknown reason..but honestly, if he is that serious with you-if he was in LOVE with you-he wouldn't LIE to you. He's just spinning the web.Sorry that i'm like attacking you-but you can do so much better, good luck!
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14/f. I've kind of always secretly wanted to learn how to play the piano. I've never played an instrument and I'm just kind of scared. I want to learn to play beautiful songs like Bella's Lullaby from Twilight and amazing songs like that. How long would it take me to actually be at that level? Considering that I'm a complete beginner who never played piano before? (link)
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I got to say, taking lessions would porbably be the easiest way. Since everyone learns differently-i can't say how long it would take you. My sister and brother learned how to play right when they put they're fingers on the keys. me-i'm sort of intermediate. Its all about playing two DIFFERENT things at the same time. A harmony and a melody.That i find difficult,because my hands don't like to do different things. Timing is also importent. On one hand you could be playing very fast, and the other you could be playing very slow at the same time(really hard for me as well). I don't know why,my brother and sister can't explain why they can,and i can't explain why i can't.I guess its all in your head. Kind of like tapping your head and rubbing your belly,you know? Anyways- you don't have to know how to read music to play piano. Though that would be good-and it's 'probly the easiest thing to learn.But if you have a good ear for music it won't be so hard.Youtube has some videos on how to learn piano-haven't tryed them out yet cause i'm too lazy though :p.
Truth is if you're determined to play piano and practice-you will lean! It may take some time,but it shouldn't take longer than 2 months for you to start playing full songs! good luck :}
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Hi everybody. This is a question for any NAVY girfriends/wives....my boyfrined is in the NAVY, well, at basic and sea school right now, and I know that it's going to keep us physically apart for stretches of time. I love him and I miss him, and just to clarify, I'm not going to leave him because I don't get to see him. Okay, so my question is, how do you girls stay SANE while your boys are gone? How do you get through the seperation? I love and want to marry my current boyfriend, and I know that it's just going to get worse from here,as far as being apart from him because of his career in the NAVY....so how do you do it? (link)
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I've never had a boyfriend who was in the navy or anything,but if i did,i would think- each day he's gone,just means he's that much closer to being next to you. Write letters to eachother, maybe you could take pictures of eachother and send them in the letters with cute random and funny things. (like brushing your teeth, making dinner,blowing a kiss,anything!) If they have computers over there maybe you guys could get webcam :D Show your support for him of course (:. I've heard theres support groups online for navy wives/girlfriends!I'm sure theres forums online-google it :). I agree with the people under me-keep busy. Friends,hobbies,jobs,anything you can think of that you might enjoy. it'll be hard but it'll just be that much better when he comes back to you.don't worry-though your not with eachother physically,if your love is strong you can get through this (=. hope i helped some!
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yes i have been posting a lot about this situation, im sorry to keep doing this but i just dont know who to tell anymore..
this guy that i met a while ago yeah we talk online and ive seen him twice and ill probobly see him at my friend's in a few weekends but anyways, first he pressured me into sending him pictures which i didnt do. now he is pressuring me badly and keeps asking me to give him a bj. ive said, no sorry i dont think thats gonna happen , tons of times. but then he makes me feel so bad. and no i dont want to, and i wont. but its almost like i feel like this is sexual harrasment. the way he talks to me now..its like he doesnt even care about my feelings or what I want. its only what HE wants. he keeps on saying things like, yeah so just suck it. or, oh yeah your a good girl who doesnt give bjs, i forgot.
this is pissing me off and he is making me feel stupid and bad about myself, really bad. like im only good for one thing for him. i am being so pressured by him. and last night after I IMed him. [usually he IMs me but he hadnt talked to me since saturday night and i didnt know why] anyways after i kept saying sorry but i dont think so [in other words, no] yeah he was on for two hours today same time as me, never IMed me. why not. i know im paranoid but..ugh. i dont even know why i want him to talk to me. i wish i didnt care so much and could just get over him. he doesnt even treat me nice, at all. he orders me to do things for him. and then whenever i try to stick up for myself in a nice way, he just says k. or basically doesnt give a shit. or he just makes me feel dumb. like the whole picture thing? saturday night he was begging for pictures. and..i didnt know what to do..i said, would you be mad if i didnt send any..and he goes, um yeah kinda.
he is mean. doesnt even treat me fairly. i cant do this anymore. and then i have to deal with him going on and off with talking to me. i wonder why he does that..i know that he likes this other girl who lives in new york who is obsessed with him [seems like it] an writes on his wall I LOVE YOU. dont know what thats supposed to mean....
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you don't have to have us tell you what you already know- this guys is a JERK!
Honestly, next time he talks to you DISS him out!He's TRYING to manipulate you and trying to make you feel bad. I know exactly how you feel about making him feel bad-like besides the fact he wants things from you-besides him acting like this- he COULD possibly be a nice guy. But think about it-he's not to you. He's just trying to use you. You've tried saying "no,sorry"-which is very polite. But now you just have to say "oh really? well maybe you should go call up a hooker and leave me alone" Its okay to be rude to him. He's already making you feel umcomfortable and invading your space! I think the reason you want him to talk to you is maybe you've liked him before all of this-or at the beggining you would consider it-IF it weren't ALL he wanted from you. If he actually wanted a realtionship,then you MIGHT have hit it off. But this guy doesn't want a relationship-he wants his own weird little slave type thing from you-which is creepy. Its not even worth getting to know him. He's gone completely out of line and you've GOT to set him straight. He expects you to be vulnerable! Be strong and tell him to stop harrassing you. Its okay to be mean to him. he deserves it!Trust me,i've delt with guys like this before. Immature! Please don't waste your time on a guy like this anymore,you sound SO much better than that!Also creeps like this never want to be revealed. So if you start telling your friends about what he's doing he'll instatly get the picture and leave you alone. A creep never wants to be known as one :}
call him out! i know you can do it,haha good luck :D
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for my art project i have to design a tattoo sleeve. like, draw an arm and draw it on. i've decided to go with a japanese theme. not anime or whatever, like japanese, zen themed stuff. so far i have the symbols for peace love and happiness, an umbrella(which i'm gonna make along with clouds and rain falling onto it), and cherry blossoms. i need to turn it into like a collage, to fill a whole arm.. so any ideas? (link)
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when i think of japanese (and chinese) things i instantly think of dragons,symbols(the chinese and japanese letters) and fish. Those would make an awesome tattoo,especially the dragon! i also think of colors like red and gold. it soudns like a really fun project! maybe you could work off of that stuff? i'd do whatever reminds me of japan-an interpretation with your own swing on it ;D
good luck,hopefully i helped!
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hey i was wondering besides all the fancy things u can buy to make ur teeth whiter..how else around the house can you? i know something with peroxide? (link)
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I've heard and used baking soda to whiten my teeth
the down sides are...
to most people,it tastes HORRIBLE. i dont care though,haha i ignore the taste -it goes away fast anyways
you CANT use it everyday,and if you brush too hard it really hurts. I'd use it only twice a week, and not brushing too hard or near the gums.
Overall though, I haven't used it that long to notice a huge difference. What i use now is-i buy the crest whitening strips and only use one once in a while when they're staring to get yellow. and i leave them on for like an hour at a time- and i don't use them twice a day. you can make a 2 week kit last for 2 months-which is deffinatly worth it!
Not really the topic,but i heard that apple get rid of plaque and what not when you chomp into them-and oranges//apples supposidly save you from bad breath :]
anyways! hopefully i helped some,good luck! (=
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I've loved to sing my whole life and just recently I've sang in front of friends and they say im good but need to work on diction. but i want to know how to make my voice fall... and sometimes when i hit certain notes my throat feels weird and i wont hit them right. but the song im trying to make my voice fall is "Put Your Record On." thank you! xoxo F/13 (link)
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well as for diction, go down the alphabet unnunciating each letter. like
A- "ah aye"
B-"buh buh"
C-"cuh cuh"
^all the way down. but REALLLY emphasize them-my dad who took voice/sings told me this :D.
and as for the other thing-sorry i have no clue,alls i can think of is practice ;O.i'll try to ask him more about that and singing if you want me to-just drop one in the inbox~!(its something i love to do to :])
good luck!hope this helped*
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i'm 16 years old & i have had acne since i was about 11. it has gotten better throughout the years but i still have bad outbreaks, especially around my period. my face is naturally oily, and even if i wash it so much that it's stiff, dry, & peeling, the oil still seeps through and my face looks as if i havent washed it at all all day. i was my face every night and every morning with usually clean & clear products and they are okay, but do not fully help. i have tried proactive, st. ives, & differin, and all did not work. does anyone know of any solutions to eliminate the pimples and my extremely oily skin?
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you'll probably get different answers from everyone,because everyone is different. In my case, a product will work for me for about a month until i have to get a new one due to my face getting too used to the product. My skin is naturally really oily thanks to being italian AND portugese(sp?). I usually use a variety of products-try a scrub in the morning. i've been using nuetragena pink grapefruit. once i used clearisel utlra daily face cleanser-worked great! until a month later. haha. i went to my doctors and she told me that a dermatologist will just perscribe the same thing they would,or a pill which really isn't too great for you. She gave me 5% Benzol Peroxide cream-best part?its free! you put in on your acne everynight and wash it off in the morning. It really works great for oily skin because though it never drys the skin out-it get rid of the oil. You best bet would be going to your doctor next time you get a physical and asking about you acne. They'll decide what you'll need. Good luck~!
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Ill try to make it as short as possible.
I've always been a hopeless romantic. I'm 17 years old and a few weeks ago i met the perfect guy...or so i thought. he was exactly my type and seemed to be completely into me. he acted so sweet and treated me just like a girlfriend. we went out a few times, and were together in school. everyone was talking about us being together, which i didn't really like because technically he never asked me to be his girlfriend. i was really falling for him and i think it showed, because it was hard to say no whenever he wanted to hang out. and the thing is, i know better. ive had my heart broken before by the same type of charmer and i really tried not putting all my feelings into this new guy. thing is i dont like to play games. i always treat people right and dont believe in hurting someone or making them jealous just to make them want me. i dont do that, and i thought he didnt either because we talked about it. i thought we were the same type of person, but hes a guy...and they lie...
so in the past few days he stopped being so sweet, and showing less interest in me, and just forgetting about me, but then randomly showing up like he cares and giving interest. he became randomly cold and then sweet. I'm really confused and kind of hurt. did he really lose interest or is he playing games? he randomly shows interest and then doesn't, when he was always sweet in the beginning. and i cant say anything because he never actually asked me to be his girlfriend. still he expects me to call him and always let him know what I'm doing. what happened? and if he has moved on y is he still showing interest??? can anyone make sense of this???? (link)
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trust me, i'm going through the same thing.Its like one day he'll be really flirty with you,the next? not even a single glance. What i've found out about me and this kind of boy, is once a player,always a player. nothing more. it hurts, because they make you fall for them and then throw you out. You don't need someone like that; and you obviously don't have too much in common with him, seeing as you're not the time of person to play games.which is good! When you find a good someone,they'll treat you like gold. Do you think he's seeing other girls? Trust your instinct. He'll try to make you wait until he needs you. Move on, don't give him any excuse to come back to you either. You shouldn't have to wait for anybody. Some one who's really into you;doesn't ignore you for days. Don't call him. Don't look at him as much in school. Once you start ignoring him,he'll probably come to you. But you still can't fall for him then,he just wants you to be "there". Soon he'll know to leave you alone. He'll fade, trust me. Most players like this put on their best faces at first, to get you hooked;then slowly will change. In my opinion, you have to get to know the person for awhile before you say you like them. It helps with filtering out players. If a guy gets physical(sp?) early in a relationship, thats a red light as well. Bottom line, i think you should drop him like he wasn't even importent.If anyone asks,just say YOU lost interest. It'll burn his player status that he trys to keep. Players are insecure. they feel like they need to be a player to be cool. If you drop one of them, they'll try to get you back. Leave him! good luck,you'll get through this!
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15f doees anyone know w here to find a sweater like this:
http://cn1.kaboodle.com/hi/img/2/0/0/b9/a/AAAAAqiGI_AAAAAAALmqoA.jpg
ivee been looking for something like that for a long time and it was in hollister like a while ago and i never got the chance to get it.
thannkss! :)) (link)
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try stores like forever21, charlette russe(sp?), h&m, and even the gap! they should have some in those styles, good luck :D!
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So does anybody have any suggestions for teeth whitners, like the pros and cons of the prodeuct. thanks it would be really helpful! (link)
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after i got my braces off i started using crest whitening stips, NOT the trays or the dissolving kinds,just the 2 week packet. they aren't lieing when they say your teeth get whiter with in 3 days! i saw a big difference, i loved it!
the cons? i'm not so sure, i guess, its that you have to keep up with it day and night for 30 minutes each time you use it. its also expensive,40 bucks mannn! i would also recommend getting the crest "vive" whitening tooth paste,its kind of small but it works really well.
as for sensitive teeth? i've never had them, but you could always the fluoride mouth rinse from Listerine (its the purple kind)
hope i helped ;}
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so i am a senior in HS, applying to colleges and all that stuff .. and i'm already freaking out about leaving home and especially about making new friends!! like what happens if i dont make new friends at college i am a really shy person and it's hard for me to adjust to new things and i am so scared i wont be able to do it !! how can i make the whole making new friends thing easier ?? (link)
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think of this as a new begining!
the plus side is, you don't know anyone and they don't know you. you're all mature and won't judge the small stuff anymore.it'll be much easier to meet new people since you all have something in common, i mean, your going to that school for a reason :]. things may be hard at first, much like the begining of high school, but they have much more activities that you can do in college!join anything that interests you, i garentee you'll click with at least someone !
It's also a chance to change yourself. You don't have to be that shy girl anymore! the first step is to "Fake it until you make it";and when i say this, i mean to fake your confidence* until you start feeling so confident, you won't need to fake it anymore. To have confidence is to be outgoing, always smiling and open to makeing conversations with anyone :].Outgoing; as in not just asking one question to a person and then slowly nodding your head after they answer, then looking down at your assignment. You MUST keep the conversation going until it ends in a pleasent way; not awkward and silent!
You WILL have to PUSH yourself out of your shell, but being shy is just not an option. Theres no sign that says you can't start a conversation and talk to a total stranger in your class. They'll like how you approached them first as well, because believe it or not, they feel the same way as you :].
Adjusting takes time,but you're all in the same boat.Change all nerves on the first day into excitement! instead of saying "i'm so nervous,what if i make no friends?!" think "I'm so excited and i WILL make friends!" believing in yourself is the key,as corny as it sounds :P
all in all you should embrace this as an opportunity to change yourself to the person you want to be! it'll take time, but it's so worth it in the end :]
good luck! :D
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i'm not a whore,
i'm just confused.
i like 5 boys.
but, i'm scared of commitment.
there's a pro and con to each one of them.
and i can narrow it down to two,
but still.
i'm confused.
help?
1. con; he has a gf.
pro; he flirts and is really sweet, & i've been crushing on him a yearrr.
2. con; we're super close, so it'd be awkward between us if we broke up, and i'm not sure how he feels, so it would be weird if i told him.
pro; he's really religious, amazing personality, his sister thinks the world of him, and i'm attracted to both personality anddd looks.
3. con; he's a senior, so about to graduate and go to the navy.
pro; he's really nice, i can tell he likes me, we flirt a lot and are going to homecoming together.
4. con; he's at college so who knows what could happen with him and other chicks, they have co-ed dorms, and hes my ex.
pro; i miss him, he was my first kiss, and i love it when he's around. his hugs, our playfulness, etc.
5. con; possibly screwed a pig and all his friends hate me, plus he flirts with like a jillion other girls.
pro; he's really nice to me, and walks me to like every class.
if i narrowed it down, it would be 2 and 3.
oh, and i'm a sophomore.
help?!
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thanks. that would be great.
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as i was reading this,2 and 3 really stood out.
these are the reasons why you SHOULDN'T date the other ones.
1)if he has a girl friend now,and is flirting with you,who's to say if you guys do go out, he wont do the same to you? he could also be talked to other girls besides you,so he would be best left as a friend :}
4)like you said,because he's at college he has a lot opportunitys to cheat on you and you wouldn't have a clue ! Also, unless you reall made a mistake of letting an ex go,they should be left an ex.
5)everything about five screams player, and screwed a pig? hahaha, what?! sorry..anywho the downside is his buddys, cause if they don't accept you then he must act different around them;;so that shows he might not be the person you think he is.
i can see why you wouldn't want to go out with 2, but i'd say at least give it a shot. 3 does seem amazing, but you won't be seeing him for awhile and it'll be that much harder letting him go into the army =/. besides if you do go out with 2 and then break up, it's only going to be awkward if you make it so. and if you ever give it a shot, you'll both either think "this is weird, lets be friends" or "i like this, letsss stay together :]"
I'd say see how it goes with 2 and 3, whichever one you click with more and feel most comfortable around in a relationship (=. the rest,haha,keep as friends :P
good luck gurll~!
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can bananas be eaten brown? (link)
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they'd be mushy and wouldn't taste good at all >.<
but you can use them to make banana bread,when its easier to mash them up. just as long as,when they turn brown, put them in the freezer until you make the banana bread. haha yeah,hope i helpped :P
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Okay so I have this sharp breath taking pain in my left breast. I don't know what it could be. I mean is it a sign of my period, or is it a sign of breast canser or what.
What should i do , i would rather wait for my parents to be my last resort.
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well instead of saying anything embarrissing,
just say "mom(or dad), i have a pain inside my chest" it sounds more serious,which you should be taking it, and it wont make things as awkward.
also explain how it hurts and when(and if it hurts when you breathe, press on it).
it honestly could mean your period is coming, because i had a pain in my left chest, and then i got it. it went away afterwards.
it could also be you slept on your shoulder wrong, leaving a really tense muscle in your chest.
all in all its best to tell your parents and get it checked out, because i'm sure there are many more possibilities than what i listed* hope i helped :D !
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