Kendra is a young woman working as a professional in Toronto. She's a cat lover, a bookworm and has always had a deeply rooted interest in people, love and what happens when the former attempts the later.
She's been in three long term relationships, lost her mother when she was 16 and has lived through her father's alcoholism and drug abuse. She's a college graduate in journalism and art, has a quirky personality and has acquired some realistic yet romantic beliefs about love and relationships.
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Hello, I'm a 19 year old female and I am wondering when breasts are supposed to stop growing. I am currently a 32A; however, my mother is a 42C and all the other women in my family have pretty decent sized breasts. I know that breast growth is partly hereditary, so I'm just wondering what gives? Thanks all in advance :) (link)
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They're going to stop developing around now for you. You may get an extra boost. If you've not noticed any noticeable weight gain over the past year or so, then you're probably due for one, and with that may come some more breastage.
Once you hit your 20s, you're not likely going to be as thin as you were in high school. I'm 5'2" and I was 107lbs when I was 18. I'm 26 and almost 120lbs now. My breasts are definitely plumper than they were and I'm now a 36A rather than a 34A. As for my friends, they're all the same too. More oomph when they got into their 20s.
However, don't expect any miracles. If you're angling for a C, I wouldn't hold my breath. There's an outside chance you might get a cup size bigger, but you'd be better off learning to love the small girls. Look at the benefits: cute bras, little sagging (Which starts in your 20s if they're big), no jiggling around, easy to run, you look thinner...
In any case, breasts change during pregnancy. Big chests can deflate, small chests can grow, nipples change colour and size. And as you age, the droop and when you gain and lose weight they alter shape and size.
No point getting too focused on them. It's not like women with amazing looking breasts keep them looking that way for long.
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OK. so.
i started having sex in february of this year.
i had a period in march..the first week of march.
it is july 14th and i have not had my period since then.
every time i ever have had sex we have used a condom with spermicide. none have ever broke, 100% sure about that.
i am getting more and more freaked out, and i bet that's delaying it more.
i have been feeling really bloated and huge the past week or so. and i thought i felt slight cramps 3 days ago ..i really hoped my period would start. nothing.
is there a possibility that some sperm MAY have leaked?? how likely is that to happen? my and my boyfriend are always very careful about any contact we have that could result in pregnancy. washing hands frequently and before/after/ or whatever.
should i go see a doctor?
i am also pretty sure that i have hypothyroidism.. it runs in my family and i have ALL the symptoms. i went to a local clinic and they said that i was just fine and i didn't know what i was talking about.
i live in a really small town and if i got a pregnancy test someone would end up telling my parents.(who don't know i'm sexually active).so i'm just sitting here, waiting, and freaking out. if anyone could give me any advice or help it would be GREATLY appreciated!!!!!!!
Thanks! (link)
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I'm going to be frank. You could be pregnant. Condoms and spermicide is really smart to use, especially together because they offer good protection against STDs and pregnancy. But... nothing is 100% effective. As they say in Jurassic Park, life finds a way. Some people have to be the small percentage of failure rates and you might be one of them.
Please see a doctor immediately. Get a physical and relay all your symptoms. Ask for a pregnancy test as well and talk about your concerns for the medical condition that runs in your family. Ask to be tested for it as well.
If you are pregnant you could be too far along for an abortion (if you wanted one- no judgements here), but the more time you give yourself to figure out what you want to do, the better off you'll be in make the right choice for yourself. Don't delay.
While you're waiting for the doctor's appointment, and you want answers sooner, if there is a way you can get out of town for the day, go to a different pharmacy and get a test, you can take it in a restaurant bathroom (It only takes a couple minutes) and throw the package away in a plastic bag in a public trash can.
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When performing foreplay with the clothes on, can you get pregnant?? (link)
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No. You cannot get pregnant through touching, which is all you're really capable of if you're clothed. To get pregnant you have to have sexual intercourse. The only way this would not be true is if the male has ejaculated and one of you has for some reason and in some way taken the semen and rubbed it or inserted it into your vagina.
Sperm cannot travel through two sets of clothing. It dies very shortly after it leaves the body if not delivered into another body, as well. Once it dries, it's toast. It may seep a little through dude's underwear, but it's not going to seep through his pants and then your pants and then your underwear. Fat chance.
Again, you can only get pregnant if the semen comes into contact with your vagina, in which case it doesn't dry, doesn't die and it can swim to your uterus, where there may or may not be an egg to fertilize.
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okay thank u all againe for the advice! But I need more help with this guy! As i said before that he is threatening me well its gotten worse! My ex bf is like really tall and he is wicked muscular and one time when i was going out with him he asked me to give him a handy and i said no cuz it was in public and he started yelling at me and giving me shit but i still didnt do it and he started touching me and i didnt like it so i tryed to get up and he didnt let me! I have gotten myself into a mess i dont no why i started dateing him but i did and im wicked scared that he is gonna rape me! He nos where i live and im usually outside alot so he could surprise me! He came to my house yesterday but i was luckily inside and pretended i wasnt home. I wanna tell my mom but i cant because well its a long story is there anything else i can do that doesnt include her? (link)
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Dude, I know telling your mom sounds like the end of your world as you know it, but getting attacked would be way worse than anything she might do or say.
And let's put this into perspective. Let's say she was unhappy or mad or she punishes you. Eventually she'll get over it and you'll move on with life, pass through grades, graduate and move out. Whatever she does about you having had sex will be a temporary problem.
But being attacked? That's something that can stay with you and haunt you for years and years to come.
Besides, if you tell your mom you're afraid of what he might do to you, she'll be more concerned about keeping you safe from him than anything else.
Sex opens up really adult problems to deal with and you weren't ready for them. So now you need an adult. This is exactly what mothers are for. You won't regret telling her. She'll have answers to your problem that no one else will have.
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yeah.....
feel kinda wierd asking that. But do they? Cause im a bit self cousious about that cuz my boyfriend wants to finger me nd i agrred but thats the only thing that worries me.
Personal experiances? Boys POV (point of veiw)?
Plzz dont tell me im too young for this...
~Olie =/
14/f && 14/m (15 in aug) (link)
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The best thing is not to do anything sexual unless your comfortable with your body. You're not going to enjoy it if you're worried. And the WHOLE point of being fingered is for YOU to enjoy it, not him. Great if he loves it, but it's supposed to be about your pleasure first and foremost.
So before going ahead decide if you're ready for your genitals to be touched by this boy, just the way you are.
And for the record, any time a boyfriend doesn't appreciate your body the way it is, it's time to make him an ex-boyfriend. So don't worry about him being pleased or bothered by your pubic hair. It's YOUR hair and YOUR body. Anyone who wants to be with you has to be fine with it or hit the road.
As a final note, if you've never masturbated before, I would recommend giving that a go before your boyfriend fingers you. It's going to be very hard to show him what to do if you don't know what to do.
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can the gyno remove my hymen? will it hurt? i can't wear tampons because i think its like completely blocking the hole because it won't go in i tried lube and different positions and everything... (link)
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The answer below me is great and I want to add one thing: You hymen is not COMPLETELY blocking your vagina off, I promise. Know how I know? Because if it was, how would the blood come out when you menstruate?
There is an opening. It may be small, it may actually be shaped in a way that's preventing tampon insertion. It may be thick. But It's not totally covering you up.
Your gynecologist can examine you to see if your hymen is in fact the cause of your problems and advise you what to do about it.
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i'm going to the gyno and while i'm there if i ask to help put in a tampon will she help? i've been trying to for years and i think something might be in the way (link)
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I'm sure your gyno will help. She is an expert on female genitalia and no doubt she's heard it all before and seen it all before.
When you're trying to insert a tampon, make sure you're inserting it lower down (spread your lower outer labia with your fingers) and angle the tampon towards your back. Bending your knees and leaning forward helps and having an applicator makes it much easier. Also try inserting a full finger in your vagina first to have an accurate gauge of where the tampon needs to go.
It can be tricky at first, but once you get it, it should feel so natural you won't even feel it.
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I am 20 yrs old. I was the victim of a raping at a very young age. After being checked out by the hospital, it really made me scared and uncomfortable. that was when I was 6, now im 20 and still have never been to an OBGYN. my mother never took me to one, and since ive lived on my own for the last 2 years, i havent taken myself either. I am really scared and uncomfortable and really dont know how much it will cost. Does anyone have any advice for me?
scaredy cat (link)
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I too hate the pap smear and went through great anxiety with it. Here are the things I have found made the experience MUCH easier and less scary.
- Have the speculum lubricated for easier entry.
- Don't use the stirrups. Cross your ankles together and flop your knees down at the sides.
- Help the doctor guide the speculum in with your hands so you know exactly what is happening and you feel like you're choosing the entry and it's not happening to you against your will.
- Wear something familiar and comfortable over the gown, like a sweater you like.
- Inform your doctor about your sexual trauma so that he or she will be sensitive to your needs.
- Imagine you're on the toilet and relax as though you were having a bowel movement. Seriously. It really works. This imagery relaxes the right muscles, allowing for much smoother access of the speculum.
I don't know how much it costs because I'm Canadian and we don't pay for our healthcare. But as for your fears, it's totally normal to feel that way, you're not alone, and your doctor should be perfectly willing to work with your fears and concerns to make it more comfortable for you.
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First i want to say thank you to everyone who gave me advice to my last question! But i have more. So as i said before i had sex and im a thirteen year old female. But the guy i did it with is telling everybody. Now all kinds of guys are comeing and asking me for sex and of couarse im saying no but they make fun of me to and just wont leave me alone! What can I do to make them stop? Also the guy i did have sex with is asking for more and he knows he hurt me already from breaking up with me but just doesnt seem to care and now hes threatening me. He is very intiminating and im really nervouse! What am i gonna do? (link)
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If I were you, I would make it loud and clear that your sexual experience has made you want to wait for someone worthwhile before you do it again, and that it'd going to be a long time before that happens.
If he won't leave you alone, tell him it wasn't very good sex and that if he wants a chance with any other girl, he'll shut up about it before you tell ALL the girls how awful it was.
As well, confide in your mother and see what she has to say. You really need her moral support right now.
Now this part is not fair, because girls always lose out in these situations, but I would advise having no more boyfriends for a couple years. Give this plenty of time to blow over. Eventually people will stop talking about it.
In the meantime, find something meaningful to do with your time that makes you feel good and builds your self esteem back up. Do you like art? Sports? Academics? Do you have any hobbies or interests? This is the perfect time for you to focus your attention elsewhere. It'll help take your mind off the jerks you go to school with and will help you figure out who you are-- because you need to know you are not what these pervert boys think you are.
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So, my bf and I were lying on the bed side by side facing each other and we were hugging etc. with our clothes on and he had an orgasm and I don't know if he had ejaculated. If he had so, could sperm go through clothes? He had boxers and a pair of jeans and I had underwear and shorts.
Then I went to the bathroom and I found that my underwear was wet with discharge. Could it be sperm or just discharge as I was sexually aroused? (link)
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When you say your underwear was wet, were your shorts too? Because if you were sexually aroused, odds are the wetness in your underwear was you. I'm guessing you would have noticed a big wet splotch on your shorts, right? The odds of his semen soaking through his underwear, jeans, your shorts and managed to get your underwear wet is... well, I don't know of any male that can create that much semen.
If it were somehow possible to generate that much semen, for that tiny amount of sperm that would finally arrive at your labia (because most would be held back from all those clothes), it would then have to travel up your vagina (after getting past the pubic hair) and into your uterus and get to the right fallopian tube.
When you have intercourse, the semen is delivered right near your cervix and there's plenty of it. So compare the two and note the differences.
And when men orgasm, that typically means they ejaculated. They mostly go hand in hand.
My breasts hurt before my period too. I once thought I was pregnant because of sore breasts and a late period when I was 19. I'd had sex and was on the pill. Turns out it was just stress.
Again, if you wind up a week late, make a doctor's appointment. If you're sexually active, you can ask for a physical. See about getting the pill and discuss your concerns about having a regular period. I still highly doubt you're pregnant, though. Hang in there.
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Hi, it's me again, the one I asked about my late period and you replied. I'm worrying about my period because still didn't come, is 3 days late now. When I touch my breast hurts me.
As I sad before, I didn't have sex, my bf just touched my vagina with my clothes on even he had clothes on. If he had an orgasm, sperm couldn't enter my vagina through clothes right? If I worry, it will delay more right? What can I do to not worry about it??
Sorry for asking the second time, but I'm worried. I would appreciate if you reply!!
Thanks. (link)
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The odds of you getting pregnant fully clothed is slim to none. If he orgasmed, it would have to go through his clothes and then through your clothes. If all your boyfriend did is touch your vagina, it'd be a miracle, to be honest, for you to get pregnant.
If you're over a week late, make an appointment with your doctor. Talk about what's going on in your life, any stress. You may want to consider the birth control pill, and you could talk to your doctor about that as well. Even if you're not sexually active, you would at least have a period that you can rely on.
And since you experience so much stress over being a couple days late, the pill could alleviate that anxiety for you.
Going back to your late period, under the circumstances, I'd bet the farm that you're not pregnant. Sperm isn't powerful enough to go through two separate people's clothing. Two pairs of pants AND underwear and no penis-vagina contact? Not likely.
Aerobic exercise can sometimes bring on your period. Makes things flow a little faster. Give it a try. In any case, a good work out could help you with your stress.
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What can I do?! We have been together for 6 years now, and I still have a really hard time understanding his sexual behavior. First of all, we are in our early 20s, and we usually end up having sex about twice a month. We are in our peak years, and we have sex twice a month! That wouldn't be so weird to me, if I didn't know he had such a huge sexual appetite. By that, I mean, he watches porn ALL THE TIME. He "sneaks" it, but I know he does it (which is no big deal). He has CDs and CDs full of it. Another thing, he is addicted to women, I guess. Strippers - he's ALWAYS going to the strip club. When we're hanging out with our friends, he sometimes sounds like a dirty sex pig with some of his little remarks and comments. This is what's driving me crazy - Why isn't he like that with the one girl he SHOULD be like that with? I am a girl that takes care of her body and I try REALLY hard to stay fit and eat right. I try to look like the women he's told me he found attractive and still be my own woman. I want him to be satisfied with me, of course. Sometimes I feel like his friends are more interested in me than my own man, and honestly, that feels really crappy.
The other night, we were laying in bed, and he thought I was sleeping, because he kept changing the channel to this softcore porn (well, it's the best he could get on the TV!) and trying to be all sneaky about it. I really don't care if he watches porn (and I've made this clear to him before), so I don't know why he felt he had to sneak, but anyway, he kept checking back to that channel. I rolled over and he quickly turned it back. This made me really upset. He has a girl right beside him wearing practically nothing, that would put out in a second (it's true!) and he'd rather sneak watching porn? Softcore to boot?!?! It starts making me feel like there is something wrong with me, and makes me feel like I'm unattractive. I almost feel like I need to go out to the bar just to get reassurance that I'm desirable (no, I know that isn't the right thing to do, and I'm not doing that). I can't figure it out. I haven't put on any weight, I've kept tone and fit, I have nice womanly curve (decent sized boobs, nice hips and butt, slim waist), I style my hair the way he likes, sometimes walk around in barely nothing, and I'm still unappealing?
I am an open-minded girl that loves sex, and my fiancé acts like sex with me is so unimportant. It doesn't feel very good. He knows I'm open to weird kinky things too so it can't be that I refuse "good" sex. I don't know how to go about fixing this. When I've spoken to him about it, he says that I'm just complaining, or "We don't HAVE to have sex all the time!" Well, trust me, we are FAR from all the time. I asked him if there was something I wasn't doing or some way to improve my looks/attractiveness but he says everything is fine between us and I'm just being a cunt at this point. I don't know what his issue is, but it's frustrating the hell out of me. I think he'd rather just jerk off to some crappy porno than have crazy, kinky sex with the love of his life. If that's what he wants then I NEED to KNOW so I can figure some way to cope with this. Does that make ANY sense?
How do I bring this issue up with him without starting a fight? Like I said, it's completely fine if he wants to watch porn or go to a strip club every once in awhile but I feel so unwanted at this point. He knows I'm always horny and ready to go at it but he'd rather not have sex with me. I'm confused and unhappy. I just want things to be normal. What do I do? What am I doing wrong? Please, please help me. (link)
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I am so sorry. I'm going to tell you something that is going to hurt and you're not going to want to hear it, but I think it's important that I say this.
Do not marry this man. He has a porn addiction. It's an addiction. He's displaying addict behaviour (hiding it, defensiveness).
And he's calling you terrible names, not listening to your needs, and lowering your self esteem.
His behaviour is not natural, normal or healthy. It will never improve unless HE wants to improve it. There is literally nothing you can do because this isn't about you. It's never about the girlfriend.
Dude, he's seeking cheap sexual gratification from women he pays, and from women he can't even interact with in videos.
Imagine a lifetime of this, because it's never going to get better. These problems only get worse. You're in your early 20s? You can find someone else, easy.
I know it's hard to start over when you've been with the same guy your whole adult life, but is this crappy excuse of a love life and sex life what you want? Because this is what he is offering, this and only this. You cannot change him, you cannot get through to him (I mean, he's just going to turn it around on you and call you names), and you cannot live this way.
In a good relationship, the hard times come from forces outside the actual relationship (a lost job, a death in the family, renovating a home, in laws). In a bad relationship, the problems are happening from within (addictions, anger, name calling, abuse, infidelity, withholding sex, bad communication).
You're in a bad relationship. Save yourself. Call off the engagement and get the hell out of dodge. You're definitely not the first woman who's gone through this exact situation. I promise you, when these end up in marriage, they ALWAYS end in divorce.
Sometimes we think we love someone when really we're only staying because we need to justify the emotional investment we've made in someone, we need to feel like we haven't wasted all this time. Please, please hear what I'm saying.
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In the beginning (like the first four years) I was very into the idea of living together. Now, not so much! Things have changed like my daughter (22) had baby and they live with me right now. I don't want that to change until she is ready to make it completely on her own. I see that my boyfriend might someone who wants to be in control and I am not willing to give up that position. I know he wouldn't be comfortable with my daughter and the baby living with us. I have been married four times before and I am not so good at relationships if they are too close and now I've decided that living together is not the best choice. How do I tell him that I've changed my mind? (link)
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Well, first off he's not going to be happy, so be prepared for disappointment.
I would not bring up the control thing. Rather, tell him your priorities have changed and you really feel the need to focus on your daughter and grandchild right now.
Also tell him that you realize that you may not be interested in living together anymore because you're happier in relationships where you have your own place.
Acknowledge his feelings about this and also be prepared for him to want to end the relationship over this issue. Apologize for leading him to believe this was the direction you wanted for your relationship to go in, but you've changed as a person these past few years.
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I'm married and have only been that way about a month or so.
My "husband" is a SERIOUS neutral party.
He rarely speaks, he rarely gets up and goes anywhere aside from work, and more and more I'm finding out just how different we are.
When we got together he put on a jolly good show, but now that he's got the girl...the show's over folks...
Here is my complication.
I live in the states with him.
My BEST FRIEND, is in love with me and has proposed to me countless amounts of times (and still begs me to move overseas to be with him).
He says, if I get there I won't have to worry about where we live or whatever because he will have it taken care of. He says he KNOWS we're meant to be together and that he can make me the happiest woman in the world. I want to be happy.
I love my best friend, and he knows far more about me than anyone on this earth. He's literally prince charming. (Tall, dark, handsome, kind.)
We have the same tastes and have had our fair share of healthy disagreements.
My "husband" (quotations used to emphasis emotional absence) is insanely jealous? Upset? With the fact that we, being my best friend and I, get along so well. He keeps telling me that he wants me to stop talking to my best friend.
It's now been about 2 months since I've seen my best friend. My "husband" wouldn't let my best friend come to the wedding! This is the longest we've ever been without one another. I miss him a lot.
WHAT DO I DO?!
Annulment?
Divorce?
Just Deal?
My "husband" and I have tried to talk it out, and by try I mean...
I express my feelings as he walks around the house cleaning up or whatever. He then says "I don't give a shit anymore!" or "Whatever! Go do your own thing then!" He's even called me selfish on more than one occasion!
...Help?
If there is any.. (link)
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Why didn't you accept your best friend's proposals when he made them? I don't think you're in love with him, but rather you see him as an out to your marriage.
My advice is to see a marriage counsellor. You've made a lifetime commitment to someone and you need to try your hardest to make this choice work for you.
My guess is you didn't see a pre-marital counsellor before getting married. You and your husband have unresolved issues hurting your marriage. You need them laid out on the table and discussed openly.
1. his jealousy
2. your male best friend who is in love with you
3. the lack of romance and emotions
Your husband is rightly seeing this best friend of yours as a threat to his marriage. And it is a threat, isn't it? This man loves you and wants you to leave your husband. So you can see why your husband would not be keen on the friendship.
Seriously, talk this over with a therapist. No marriage, no matter how short, should be cast aside because of poor communication.
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i'm 21 weeks pregnant 25 years old and have two other children my husband works for his mother at her resturaunt from 7 in the morning till 4 or 5 at night he dose everything while she walks around doing nothing we live at her home so she pays him 50 to 100 a week because we have to buy all our own things including food , soap , and colthing etc she is an alcholic and throws tantrums regularly yelling and screaming i dont think it's right in front of my children but what can i do ??? my husband's sister is trying to get us to move all the way to las vegas but thats over 600 miles away what to do?? (link)
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I would move, whatever it takes. Living with a screaming alcoholic is bad for your pregnancy and bad for your children and bad for your marriage.
If your husband can find work in Vegas, it might be a good idea to move there and start over. Even if it is 600 miles away, it would be worth leaving your situation.
See what your sister in law is offering exactly and really consider what you have to gain from leaving and what you have to lose by staying.
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im 17 pretty short and skinny.. i have a nice butt and a flat stomach but i have no boobs im like 32b.. do you think theres any chance they will get bigger lol. (link)
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They will likely get a wee bit bigger. You're still at your teenage weight and when you hit around 19-22 you'll probably put on a few more pounds. Your breasts could fill out a bit more then.
Try not to think about it. Just like a watched pot doesn't boil, watched breasts don't grow.
I'm 26 and when I was your age I was very small-chested. I'm still small now, but there's more oomph to them because I'm not an uber skinny teen girl now.
Do what us other small breasted women have learned to do: enjoy the cute bras that only come in smaller sizes, find clothes that show off your other great assets and take comfort that small breasts don't sag like the big ones do. I know some big-chested women my age and theirs are already drooped. Mine are high up like they were 10 years ago and have kept the same shape. Size isn't everything.
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Im a female and only thirteen but has had sex for the first time with someone i thought i really liked and i thought he really liked me back. But like after we did he told everybody lies and stuff like saying I was gonna cry and stuff. I will admit it hurt really really badly but i wasn't gonna cry. Also he broke up with me and now it feels like i have the weight of the world on my shoulders because i know he is gonna tell everybody but i feel really guilty because of my mom and i wanna tell her but shes all i have and I dont wanna hurt her. So should I tell her? and if i do how can I? (link)
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Yes, do tell your mom. She's been there, done that and has experience in the world that you don't have. She probably wants nothing more than to help you.
Try telling her by letting her know first that you're really hurting and you need her. Then let her know what happened.
She may or may not react poorly, but try and keep things on topic by telling her you need her advice and comfort and help.
I'm sorry this happened. Not all boys are like this, but a lot of very young boys are. Next time try to wait till you feel like you're both in love, not like, and you truly trust him. Don't beat yourself up for having sex. Just try in the future to be more selective about who you share yourself with. Loving relationships tend to give you better results.
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ok so basically this is how it went.
I got off my period, a week later I was having sex with my fiance. He pulled out and came on my vagina, not in it but on it. I rubbed it a litle. Later on, during the week I believe I've been ovulating, I had sex with him and he pulled out and ejaculated on me and I rubbed it in me. I am 23 years old, have my own house and we're gettin married soon, so please don't lecture me (no offence). I just want to know, even though he didn't come in me but I still rubbed and fingered the sperm in me during my ovulation time, can I still get pregnant like if he did come in me? (link)
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You can get pregnant from this. There is sperm in pre-ejaculate, which seeps out of the penis during sex.
I would recommend against what you're doing, which seems to be trying to get pregnant on the sly. Now, obviously your fiance is taking weak measures to prevent a pregnancy, but it still speaks to him not wanting to procreate.
Marriage is not forever these days. Don't put your commitment in jeopardy by getting pregnant before you're both ready.
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I supposed to have my period today, but I didn't get it. All I know is that during the ovulation I was very worried because of exams. My breast hurt me a bit...when my period is due to they hurt me. Is it possible that my period is due to??
I didn't have sex, my bf only touched my vagina and breast (we had clothes on, so sperm couldn't get into my vagina if he had an orgasm right?)
What could it be? It is only late by 1 day. (link)
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One day late? Nothing to worry about. Your body is not always going to operate like clockwork.
Things can throw it off like stress, medications, dietary changes, new exercise plans... don't worry about it.
If you didn't have sex, pregnancy is not the cause. Just relax, maybe take a hot bubble bath. Ease your mind. It'll come.
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17/f
okay so i had sex in april. it was a huge mistake i was lik blacked out drunk. anyways we had sex for about 5 min then put a condom on after that. he never "finished" though because i had to leave after lk 5 more min. so i didnt think anything of it. i got my period in may. but i havent had it since. its now july.. i normally get my periods at the very end of the month or at the very beginning. im extremly scared but about a week ago i took a preg test and it came out negative? but im still scared becasue why else would i be missing my periods? is there any reason? i have been excersing a lot, but i always have its nothing new. is there any other reason that i could be missing my periods? could i be preg even though the test was negative?! ive been freaking out about it. my sister told me not to worry because it was negative but i still have my doubts!! (link)
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If you got your period, you're not pregnant. The false pregnancy test should be telling the truth in this case.
Stress can cause missed periods. If I were you, I'd go to the doctor and tell him or her that you're missing periods. They'll likely do another pregnancy test, but they'll also look for other reasons it's not coming.
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