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my ex is threatening me for sex
okay thank u all againe for the advice! But I need more help with this guy! As i said before that he is threatening me well its gotten worse! My ex bf is like really tall and he is wicked muscular and one time when i was going out with him he asked me to give him a handy and i said no cuz it was in public and he started yelling at me and giving me shit but i still didnt do it and he started touching me and i didnt like it so i tryed to get up and he didnt let me! I have gotten myself into a mess i dont no why i started dateing him but i did and im wicked scared that he is gonna rape me! He nos where i live and im usually outside alot so he could surprise me! He came to my house yesterday but i was luckily inside and pretended i wasnt home. I wanna tell my mom but i cant because well its a long story is there anything else i can do that doesnt include her?
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Dude, I know telling your mom sounds like the end of your world as you know it, but getting attacked would be way worse than anything she might do or say.
And let's put this into perspective. Let's say she was unhappy or mad or she punishes you. Eventually she'll get over it and you'll move on with life, pass through grades, graduate and move out. Whatever she does about you having had sex will be a temporary problem.
But being attacked? That's something that can stay with you and haunt you for years and years to come.
Besides, if you tell your mom you're afraid of what he might do to you, she'll be more concerned about keeping you safe from him than anything else.
Sex opens up really adult problems to deal with and you weren't ready for them. So now you need an adult. This is exactly what mothers are for. You won't regret telling her. She'll have answers to your problem that no one else will have.
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I was the victim of a rape and let me tell you, it is the scariest thing that could ever happen to you. EVEN IF its someone you know.
Please PLEASE get away from this guy fast. It is OK to tell your parents. YOu dont have to tell them everything, just explain that you liked this guy until he started asking for sexual favors and tell them that you are NOT ready for all that and that you need their help and protection. It may be hard to bring them into the picture but it will be the SAFEST way to get away from him.
This relationship can get TOXIC very quickly. PLEASE help yourself by getting help from your parents. I dont want you going through the things that I did. Its been 14 years since I was raped and It still haunts me everyday.
email me if you have any questions or need any support. Im here for you.
stephanie.ellick@gmail.com
steph 21/f/houston
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