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do boys find it gross to finger someone with a hairy....
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feel kinda wierd asking that. But do they? Cause im a bit self cousious about that cuz my boyfriend wants to finger me nd i agrred but thats the only thing that worries me.
Personal experiances? Boys POV (point of veiw)?
Plzz dont tell me im too young for this...
~Olie =/
14/f && 14/m (15 in aug)
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The best thing is not to do anything sexual unless your comfortable with your body. You're not going to enjoy it if you're worried. And the WHOLE point of being fingered is for YOU to enjoy it, not him. Great if he loves it, but it's supposed to be about your pleasure first and foremost.
So before going ahead decide if you're ready for your genitals to be touched by this boy, just the way you are.
And for the record, any time a boyfriend doesn't appreciate your body the way it is, it's time to make him an ex-boyfriend. So don't worry about him being pleased or bothered by your pubic hair. It's YOUR hair and YOUR body. Anyone who wants to be with you has to be fine with it or hit the road.
As a final note, if you've never masturbated before, I would recommend giving that a go before your boyfriend fingers you. It's going to be very hard to show him what to do if you don't know what to do.
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I was actually fourteen my first time being fingered so I'm not going to tell you you're to young. The truth is, there is no right age. My first time I didn't shave down there but guy the didn't mind, he actually preferred it. Then again different guys prefer different things. Some like it bald. You can't go wrong with trimming though. I suggest a very low trim.
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Well, as a guy, I can say that any mature male will have no problem at all. It's natural. If we were meant to be bald there, wouldn't it be in our genes?
And Serena is right, most mentally mature guys actually prefer there to be some hair.
If you do want to get rid of some/all of it though, you can easily trim with scissors. Or a razor...Or waxing...Or one of those pads they advertise on TV that removes hair...
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At your age, boys can be a little immature and some might find it "gross."
But in all actuality, a hairy vagina is natural and as you get older, most men don't mind it at all. In fact a lot of men prefer it.
If you are very worried about it, you can easily trim the hair with a pair of scissors.
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