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Sexual orientation


Question Posted Wednesday July 8 2009, 2:04 pm

Iam 22 male from India. I was attracted to both men and women. But i was attracted more towards men than women. I had sex experience with 1 or 2 guys too. I havent taken any steps to have fun with girls so far. It is true that my mind is fond of seeking a girlfriend to have intimate friendship or love. I would like to get married with a girl and to lead a pleasant life with her and my children. Iam not interested in continuing my gay relation. I was in a confused state of mind. I really want to know where i was in my sexual orientation. If I get married with a girl,can I able to satisfy her sexual need and other needs ..?Kindly guide me whether I can marry a girl or lead my life single. Note: I was attracted to some girls but never had a courage to express my love to them. I dont know why...

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dearcandore answered Thursday July 9 2009, 11:40 am:
I've personally known men who have left the gay lifestyle behind altogether and have become (over time) happily married men. Exodus is a group that assists people who want to leave homosexuality. Check out this website www.exodus-international.org

They have all kinds of resources and stories. The more information you have, the easier it will be for you to decide what you want to do in the future. You can't have a fulfilling relationship with a woman until you are completely honest with yourself about who your are and who you want to be. The resources you'll find at Exodus can help you figure those things out. Good Luck to you.

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anonymous99 answered Wednesday July 8 2009, 9:15 pm:
Well just remember, there are THREE sexual orientations, not two. There is "straight"(heterosexual), "gay"(homosexual) and "bi"(bisexual).

There are plenty of bisexual men who have had experiences with other men, and later in their life got married and had children with a woman.
Having had sex with another man doesn't mean you can't satisfy a woman.


So my answer to you is this: Whether you choose to live a single life or get married is your choice. If they don't accept who you are and what you have done in the past they don't deserve you.
You can live your life how you want, and if you wish, go get married and have kids!

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