ok so basically this is how it went.
I got off my period, a week later I was having sex with my fiance. He pulled out and came on my vagina, not in it but on it. I rubbed it a litle. Later on, during the week I believe I've been ovulating, I had sex with him and he pulled out and ejaculated on me and I rubbed it in me. I am 23 years old, have my own house and we're gettin married soon, so please don't lecture me (no offence). I just want to know, even though he didn't come in me but I still rubbed and fingered the sperm in me during my ovulation time, can I still get pregnant like if he did come in me?
I would recommend against what you're doing, which seems to be trying to get pregnant on the sly. Now, obviously your fiance is taking weak measures to prevent a pregnancy, but it still speaks to him not wanting to procreate.
Michele answered Monday July 6 2009, 11:15 pm: Yes. I think you are saying that you had some of the sperm on your fingers, and you placed your fingers inside your vagina. Then yes, I believe that you could get pregnant that way.
So if you guys are smart enough that he ejaculates OUTSIDE of your vagina. (which is not foolproof, but it works most of the time) then don't be foolish and insert the sperm back inside with your fingers.
Unless of course, you want to get pregnant.
But sounds like your boyfriend does not, because it is infinitly more pleasurable for him to ejaculate inside you. So if he is taking precautions to ejaculate outside. You should respect that, and try not to get any sperm inside of you. Getting pregnant should be a mutual decision.
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Cux answered Monday July 6 2009, 11:14 pm: Sex means pregnancy.
With a condom or without.
On your period or not.
Came inside you or not.
Came outside you or not.
Does this make sense? The only way to prevent pregnancy FOR SURE is completely abstain from sex. So, any time you have sex, you risk getting pregnant.
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