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okay. so I have this abnormally large unhealthy obsession with the jonas brothers. like massive! like every other word in my vocabulary is jonas related. and well I have a couple of friends that like them, then a couple that don't. well I talk a lot about the jonas brothers I can't help it. and my friends are telling me to shutup cause im annoying and stuff lately I've just been feeling like an outkast like I don't fit in anywhere. can someone please help me! thanks in advance (link)
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Oh, I know that feeling. I am a huuuuuuuge NY Islanders hockey fan. Just an extremely big fan. I can't even tell you how much I love them lol. I used to talk about them all of the time. Obsessively. Whether it was to someone who actually cared or not, I'd just keep nagging about how much I loved the Islanders and how they played. But then I grew to realize that when you talk obsessively about one thing over and over, it gets to be repetitive and annoying. So whenever I had that urge to just say something, anything, about hockey or the Islanders, I'd literally have to stop myself and be like, "Jackie, do not say it!"
Whenever you feel that urge to say something about the Jonas Brothers, just tell yourself to shush and talk about something else. Bite your tongue if you need to ! You'll stop eventually, just like I did. And even though I'm not talking 24/7 about my obsession, that doesn't mean I'm not thinking about it.
You can still talk about them, you just need to take it to a minimum. Try and come up with a list of topics that you can talk about with people. Then when you are just about to bring up the Jonas Brothers, remember the list you made of things to chat about.
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we say it, we mean it in different ways. their are many different reasons to why we love something or someone. can i get your guys input on what i love you to a significant other means (boyfriend and girlfirend) (husabnd or wife) NOT friend to friend or anything.
also what bascially love means to you.
please think hard and answer both questions thank you. (link)
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If I said "I love you" to my boyfriend, it would mean that I have a lot of true passionate feelings for him. Not only that, but I trust him and can be loyal to him as well. Many people misread "love" and use it and have no idea what it really means. You can't really LOVE somebody you met 10 days ago. You may have love FOR someone, but you can't be spot-on in love with them.
To me, love means that someone has feelings for me. Feelings of passion, heart, loyalty, confidence and trust. It means this person would never do anything to hurt me in any way, shape or form.
I hope this helped
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i was my face with a bar of soap then i use neutrogena acne stress control. i still get little pimples and im thinkning it might be from the soap because ive tried alot of different things and none of them really clear up my face completely, yet ive always did the soap and water before the scrub. so should i not use soap first? is it bad for my skin? any advice would begreat. (link)
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I would not recommend using soap. It is said that using soap dries out your skin so much that your face produces more oil, hence more breaking out. I'd say just use a gentle face wash. Make sure not to go too rough on your skin. Use your hands or a wash cloth and be delicate.
Like the poster below, I would also say get Differin (dermatologist prescripted, I believe), because it does work. And if you do get it, make sure you follow the tube of when to apply.
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For love we use the symbol a heart usually. For peace its the peace sign. What would be a symbol for trust, loyalty, faithful or honest. Websites help too. (link)
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If you've ever owned a Claddagh ring, they say that the symbol for loyalty is a crown, friendship is hands and ofcourse love is a heart.
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So my boyfriend want to take me on my first date on thursday, and wants me to choose what to do...
i have no idea lol
help me!!!
me 18, him 20
thanksss! (link)
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A typical, but always nice idea for a date is the movies.
Ofcourse you can try other not-so-typical things like maybe:
-the zoo
-the mall
-mini-golfing
-bowling
-go karting
-or just invite him over for dinner and play some board games or watch movies on the couch
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a girl sang this part:
hands on my hips bitches in my face
then in another part a guy says:
coochie on my body this girl is so thick
HELP MEEE (link)
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Try typing in the lyrics on google or letssingit.com.
If you try letssingit.com, type in the lyrics in the box, and beside it, click on the dropdown box and click "lyrics".
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15/F
I've never kissed a guy but over half the kids I know have already lost their virginity or gotten way close to losing it. And they're all like "YOUVE never kissed a guy? youre gonna end up like the 40 year old virgin, oh i know this guy for you" or whatever
And I 'pleasure' myself and stuff but just doing that, I feel SOOO guilty like I cant leave my room after.
And theres this guy that wants to do stuff with me and I really like him, and I talked to my mom about how I dont think hes that good of a person to hang around and she told me how my sister lost her virginity to a guy when she was my age.. which didnt really help.
But I reallly wanna do SOMETHING with a guy to know how it feels.. but at the same time I dont because I like being special, and feeling proud, and seeing peoples reactions when I tell them.
I just don't know what to do :[
this is highschool and its hard (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. I wanted my first kiss to be with someone I really liked and someone who gave me butterflies every time I saw him. I waited for my (now) boyfriend to ask me out and I even made him wait like 2 and half weeks to actually kiss him. My theory is, you have a first for everything. Do you really want your first [kiss] to be with someone you don't have a lot of feelings for? It may seem like the first kiss is no biggie, but the thing is, the first should still be special. And for me it was. I think the same should apply to you and many other girls who feel the way you do.
Who cares what people have to say? If they didn't wait for someone they cared about, then that sucks for them. I gave my first kiss to someone who DESERVED it. I'm not just going to let any random guy have it. It was special to me and should be for other girls as well.
Teens let middle/high school really get to them. Yes, we entered a bigger school with older kids, who are having sex. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't wait for a committed relationship to do the same. Fitting into the crowd is so dragged out. Be yourself and do what you believe is right. And if that means waiting for the perfect person who you believe is the right guy, then so be it.
Wait. Patience is truly a virtue. Don't take yourself for granted and try and become like every other girl who thinks Abercrombie is the only clothes line out there, kisses and hooks up with every guy she knows. Be yourself and be unique, it really pays off. And my guy finds it quite attractive.
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how do i make a boy go crzy through a kiss or makeout? (link)
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I'm pretty sure that when you're ending the kiss, biting his bottom lip (GENTLY!!), is quite a turn-on.
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k my mother met this guy some time through a friend but i never met him. while we were in memphis she was going to go out to the club with him and spend the night at his house and she didnt even ask me if i was ok with it ( i was going to stay with my cousins). then the next night she was going to stay over there again but i got sick so she didnt go. and now he is coming into town and staying at our house and im not ok with it at all. i mean she divorced my dad when i was six and i cannot have some strang man sleeping in my house. i'm not ready to meet him yet at all so i volunteered to sleep at my grandmas but my mother said she was going to have him sleep in his truck after i suggested it. my question is if she says they are just friends why is he going to be sleeping in our house. and why do i feel like i cant trust a man in my house at night. ( i tend to stay up until they leave then go to sleep) i hope you can help because i know this question probably made no sense i am just so uncomfortable right now (link)
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My parents divorced when I was about 5 or 6 as well. When I was young and after the divroce, my dad starting dating this lady who seemed nice at the time. Ofcourse I was young and thought everyone was nice. Well, he is still dating the same woman after 10 or so years and she (my now step-mom) is my worst nightmare, I'll tell you. Literally, Wicked Witch of the West. Now, I restrict my mom from dating men because I don't want a step-dad who reminds me of the male version of my step-mom. Wouldn't that be rough.
See, I believe the reason kids are so skeptical of their parents dating other people is because no one else is good enough for them. For example, maybe you think no one else is good enough for your mom except your dad.
I love my mom (and I'm sure you do, also) and I don't want to see her get hurt. I mean, she had her chance to get any man on the block when I was very young and thought everyone was magnificent. But, now that I'm older, I'm going to pick out the bad things in every guy she brings home.
I think you need to try and realize how your mom feels. She probably feels lonely and needs someone to sustain her. You should talk to your mom about your feelings and I'm sure she'll hear you out. I understand how you feel completely and know where you're coming from, and I think it's something that you and her can work out and set aside so you won't have to worry.
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im very inexperienced when it comes to boyfriends, ive only had one which lasted only a week. so can you please tell me what are some cute things to do or say to your boyfriend? (link)
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With my boyfriend, I usually have him come over my house or vice versa ot have dinner and then we just relax on the couch and watch some tv or a movie. It's really nice and comforting. We also occasionally go to the movies (typical couple thing) and then after the movie, we just relax at the theatre and talk for awhile. I've also gone to the mall with him, mini golfing and go karting, and bowling, all which was fun.
When I want to say something cute (and I'm not too much of a mushy gushy person) I'll usually randomly text him and say "know what I like?" and then he'll say something like "what?" or maybe he'll guess a few things and then I just say "I kinda like you ;]". He likes that.
Or when you first see him in school or somewhere just be like, "hey, good-looking" (or somewhere along those lines) with that smile that girls can make with their eyes.
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so the guy im talking to wants to have sex and idk. like im scared of the possibilities of getting pregnant and it hurting and i have no idea what to do!! please help (link)
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Do not have sex with him. You should want to only have sex with someone you are in a committed relationship with and you love. My advice? Don't do it and wait awhile. Perhaps until you develop a relationship and love him.
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Well, I'm 14, and recently, I discussed with my dad if I could have a boyfriend, and he said he guessed so. I'm glad I can finally go out and all, it's just that only one person has asked me out this year, and I had to turn them down... so... yeah... it's not like I'm ugly or annoying, I'm not actually sure why a lot of people don't ask me out. Maybe I'm not flirty enough? I dunno. Can I have some tips on how to flirt with boys? I'm pretty quiet, but I'm outgoing if I get to know someone a little... does that make sense? Ok, well let's just leave it at I'm pretty quiet. And I'm more for boys asking me out, not the other way around... so... yeah...again. Anyone? (link)
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I know that it may seem like you need a boyfriend. But, the thing is, you're much better off without one. Unfortunately, this generation of teen girls come off as desperate and fake. You don't want to be one of those girls who is willing to do anything to get a boy on her hands.
I waited 16 years to get my first kiss and boyfriend (pitiful, to some, perhaps) but it was more than worth it. Why did I wait so long? Because not just any random guy can have the privilige to say he's going out with me. Sounds conceited? It's not. Every girl should want to say the same exact thing. There's no rush to get a boyfriend, because you want a guy who you've liked for awhile and who was well worth the wait.
When I was in 7th and 8th grade, a guy would ask a girl out and she wouldn't even like him and she'd say yes. You don't want to be like that.
Flirting on the other hand can be a piece of cake. I usually smiled and laughed a lot. It's always a good idea to be bubbly in front of the guy you like. It also helped to be funny and make him laugh. Try not to be too loud and obnoxious, guys hate that.
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so i have this boyfriend but everybody knoes him ngirls just come to him and flirt and he does it beck what do i do? I want to get pay back bt don't know how to he mess up evrytime and i don't like this girl that got him introuble and he gave her a hug when i was not in front of him and i told him to stay away what do i do (link)
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First--the payback idea is not good. At all. I mean, do you really want to get payback because your boyfriend hugged a girl you're not fond of? If you want to keep and maintain your relationship, just talk it out with him.
Some people have more jealousy issues (like me) than others. Now I can't point the finger and say you're one of those people, but if you are, just take it easy and try to relax. I know that if my boyfriend was hugging some random girl that I didn't like, I wouldn't be too happy either, but I also know that I can talk to him about it and that he'd respect my feelings and maybe refrain from hugging her.
The best option here is to talk to him about it. And if you really like him, I suggest not trying to get payback in any way, shape or form.
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Okay, look me and my boyfriend are doing pretty good..."i guess" like we haven't argued or anything like that. But anyways! My boyfriend is really sweet and funny, but sometimes he frustrated me. He does this thing where he'll be all over me one day and the next day he will ingore me completely. But he stays ingoreing...sometimes a little and sometimes a lot. But over the summer we would have long night conversations like I love you and I miss you and things like that, and when we would hang out he would love being with me...but now that school has started he really hasn't been himself. Like I said he hangs out with his friends and doesn't pay much attention with me, but there was this one day where I hung out with his family at Chuckie Cheese (his lil sis bday) and he was all over me...its like at school he's different, and when it's just us he's different again...and I hate it..idk what to do with him...but breaking up ISNT an option...cause it not that serious (link)
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Well, what I would do is tell him. Be like "why do you act so different at school then at home?" or when he's "all over you" just be like, "why are you acting different?"
In school, he probably wants to seem like a tough guy in front of his friends which is why he's not really compassionate towards you.
It's just a guy thing.
If he ignores you, don't put up with that. Tell him. Mention how you don't like when he ignores you because it makes you feel like he doesn't want to be around you (or whatever your reason may be). Just let him know how you feel and be honest.
If your not honest with each other, then your relationship will only regress. If you have something to tell him, I'm sure he's more then happy to listen.
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Do girls think magicians are hotter than guitarist,drummers and jocks?
Some find them creepy while some find them hot.
What is your take on this?
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I think magicians are kind of creepy. I don't love jocks, drummers or jocks, but I think I'd rather date one of those than a magician just because it is a tad nerdy lol.
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im a pretty outgoing and open person.
but im only open if im ased about it.
example one:my cousins girlfriend and i were talking about drinking and i wanted to tell her about the weekend before when i had drank but i didnt say anything till she asked me if ive gotten drunk before.
example two.
whenever i need to talk to my best friend i never say i need to talk to you about this guy. i just stop talking and wait for her to notice i need to talk.
idk why i do that but i wish i didnt. maybe im fighting for attention with my best friend idk. what can i do to stop and dont just say "stop" cause its not that easy (link)
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Some things you may feel a little uncomfortable talking about or initiating. Or sometimes that you may feel awkward by just jumping into a conversation. That's completely normal.
I think if you want to talk about something, like in example 2, just say, "I need to talk to you" because people can't be guessing and reading your mind to know if you need to talk to them. If you have something to say, don't hide behind anything and don't be afraid to say it.
People don't know if you have/need to say something unless you initiate the fact that you have to say something. Your friend won't always play guessing games, so you should have enough comfort and trust in her to just say it.
If you want to say something, just say it, unless it uncomforts you that much that you don't want to say it until someone asks you. But you can rely on someone to play guessing games with you.
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I love texting this boy but when we text we have nothing to talk about it is really annoying...
but when we talk in person our conversation is actually good but when we text we dont talk like that how can i get the conversation more fun and less boring... (link)
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I was the same way. But what I did was just come up with random topics to talk about. Like school, family, friends, or something totally out-of-the-blue. That's what I did to this guy I liked and he ended up being my boyfriend. He says that he likes my originality when we talk.
And don't worry about him thinking you're weird, he won't. Usually to start up a conversation, I just say "guess what" or "oh my gosh, guesss whaaat!" and then make him guess a little bit (which is like being flirty through text !).
Long story short--talk about anything (and I mean anything) you feel like (especially something you think will have a good conversation about) talking about.
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14/f
hey my name is claire,
Okay so I really like this guy, we call each other our "bestest friends" and last night we hung out for the first time and he asked for my number so i gave it to him then i got his. Now when he texts me i'm afraid the conversation is going to be boring like
Him: hey
me: Heyy
him: whats up?
Me: nm bored you?
him: sameee haha
me: coool
...and then its just going to be awkward and boring. i don't want him to think i'm a boring person. so like what could i say to make the conversation go on for like EVER. you know like when you have those late night texts staying up all night texting the one you like? I want to do soemthing like that so like what could i say to make the conversation last long and have him interested in me? Thanks (link)
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When I started talking to my friend who I liked (who is now my boyfriend) over text, I would always try and be fun and good to talk to.
Like he'd text me, and, yeah, we'd have the normal conversation to start off like you, but then I said something completely out-of-the-blue to talk about. It could be something silly like how good ice-pops are or something you saw on TV. I always would be random and fun (because he was no fun if it wasn't for me). He really liked that I could be funny, original and bring up different topics every conversation we had.
Have fun and don't worry about what he'll think, in the end, he'll probably want to talk to you more and on a daily basis. If he's not going to be a good conversation-starter, you have to be, so bring up anything that you think would be a good, long and fun conversation.
I usually say things like, "guess what", "oh my gosh, know what?", "know what I like?" and then he'll say, "what?", and then you can go completely random from there.
Hope I helped ! Good luck !
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Okay, so I have long-ish bangs that I sometimes let go clear across my forehead or sometimes I sweep them off to the side. But the only problem is, they are giving me acne wherever they touch! Seriously, just about the only acne on my face is on the line that the bangs touch my face (pretty much draw a straight line across from my eyebrows). I would pull them back more often, but I have sort of a strange hairline that is a bit too high and a bit too angled for my liking. And my nose is slightly less than delicate. So I don't really feel good about drawing attention to those features in order to let my face heal. How can I solve both of my problems? Tell me what you think! Oh, I have an oval face, if that helps. (link)
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For your bang problem, I can try to help as much as possible:
1. Some people don't wash their hair every night, and that's fine if your hair can handle not being washed daily. If you don't wash your hair every night, I would suggest doing so. Or if you don't really like to or would not rather, what you can do is wash your bangs simply in the sink (preferably shampoo, no conditioner) before you go out.
2. Wash your face at least 2 times a day. Once in the morning, to wash away the oil that builds up durning the night and once at night to nix the oil and/or make-up used during the day. Try some rubbing alcohol on a cotton ball after washing your face or even an astringent.
3. Not having bangs makes wonders of your face. It really helps the acne problem. Even though you feel you have an odd hairline--no one else even notices, I'm sure. The oils from your hair builds up on your face and produces acne, so when your hair isn't on your face, it reduces the risk of you getting acne.
I'm not too sure I understand your nose problem. If it's delicate as in you get acne easily, then definitely wash it alongside of the alcohol method I mentioned earlier. You might also want to try a good acne cream like Rapid Clear Acne Eliminating Spot Gel by Neutrogena. It helps prevent breakouts and heals current breakouts as well.
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16/f
I have never been kissed before. I have been dating my boyfriend michael for a week now and he knows that i haven't kissed before. He told my friend he tried to kiss me twice and i just didn't notice. Then today after we hugged, i stood there waiting and he never did and he told my friend "I tried to but she won't do it!!" I mean, i stood there waiting but he never did. Is this my fault? I'm just not sure what to do. I mean, i want to kiss him but i'm not really sure how and i get scared at the last minute.
What do i do?
Is it my fault?
How?
Please help! My name is lauren. Thanks! (link)
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I know your exact feelings.
If you want to kiss him, it will happen in the right moment.
Like I knew I didn't want my first kiss to be in school, so I waited for my boyfriend to come to my house one day and he was being picked up and we were just casually laying down and we were getting up and I got up first was my face was about 7 or 8 inches from his, and then when he got up, bam! it happened.
But you may feel differently, if you want to kiss him in school, you can try hugging him, but before you let go of him completely, get closer to his face and then (hopefully) he'll get the hint and go in for it.
Is it your fault? Absolutely not
Try it. You might just want to make the first move...and if you do, I think he might find that attractive because of your confidence.
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