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I decided to make this to help people out if they need it. I've been told I'm a good advice giver. So we'll see. =) Feel Free To Ask Me Questions About Anything! Hope I help.




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Hi well my x boyfriend has been calling me for the past 3 weeks we change our # and some how he finds it , he follows me everywhere I go , and my boyfriend now hasn't let me out of his site.
What do I do?

Eck, stalker ex boyfriend..that sucks. At least your boyfriend i protecting you.. maybe you should confront this creepy guy and ask him what he's up to, and if its making you really uncomfortable tell him to stop and if he doesn't, let someone you trust know. Ex boyfriends shouldn't go psycho! lol, hope it helps though =) *amber*

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hey i really need help on this one..ive been with my b/f for 2 years and whenever i tell him to call at a certain time..he doesnt!!!! it gets me all worried that hes cheating on me since he has b4 .. and if say lyk call at 11 ..hell call at around 2 or even later and say he forgot to call or w/e or wasnt thinking bout it..but it also worryz me too cuz i wana kno hez ok and wen he dont call it makez me worry!! i mean, i kno all of his friendz and everything too.. i talked to him about this about a million timez and said everything i can possibly imagine to him about this and he keepz promising me he'll call wen hez supposed to but he doesnt!!

My friend is in the same situation with her boyfriend. Just because he doesn't call in time doesn't mean he's cheating on you. He might be busy.. you know, guys have lives too.. they don't revolve around us. And plus, phone isn't everything.. My boyfriend isn't really a phone person so we don't do much of that and everything has been fine with us for a while. Maybe he doesn't like the phone or something.. Maybe you should ask him that, and maybe if he doesn't you can't make him call you so I guess figure out another way to talk to eachother. Or you call him instead.. thats about all I can tell you. Hope it helps though *amber*

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well heres a situation i can never seem to get out of, people say im caring,honest, decent looking,and i would never treat anyone wrong.but sumhow people seem to go for people that are fake or jus dont give a shit.do u think that they really want that instead? bcuz i havent been able to find out for myself.

I know how that feels. I'm always the nice girl. And if you met someone smart i'm sure they would go for someone like you! Those are awesome qualities to have and really hard to find nowadays so I'm sure when you finally find that perosn who is smart enough to look past the fake, cocky people.. they will see how truely amazing of a person you are. I don't think anyone really wants a fake person.. its kind of like aluring to some people I suppose.. and they get sucked into it and by the time they see the truth in a person its too late and the damage is already done. But you are probably an amazing person and anyone who hasn't seen that has to be crazy. Once again, really good qualities, those are the kind of people I'm into. Hope it helps =) *Amber*

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hey, I'm 16 and a friend of mine, which is a boy is having a sorta "end of the year pool party" lol and he invited me. but im afraid to wear a bathing suit in front of anyone, becuz i have a scar on my stomach-from when i was a baby, i had to get surgery to live. but im really i guess you could say self-concience about it. and i dont like pple to see it. none of my friends know about it, and i really dont know what to do, if i wear a whole piece bathin suit pple will think im kinda dumb.. but i cant wear a bakini or everyone will see my scar.I want to tell my friends or w/e but they might think im discusting or sumthin, idk but its not my fault i have the scar. plus if any guys find out about it they wont like me.. what do i do? or what would you do in this situation? thanks alot.

The best advice I can give you is to either wear a whole piece or let people know. I probably would just tell people. Its nothing to be self conscious about, and..hey, its a story to tell. You should just be happy your alive you know? No one will think its disgusting, its just a scar and everyone has them. What makes you think that if guys find out they won't like you? I'm sure that wouldn't change anything. Scars don't really change peoples' minds. I have some noticeable scars, and no one cares. my friends do, and no one cares, my boyfriend does .. and i don't care, and neither does anyone else. Scars are no big deal.. but it can be fun to tell stories of how you got them, lol. Basically don't worry about it! People aren't gonna change their opinions of you because of a scar =) Hope it helps *amber*

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okay im 17 years old and after my last relationship( with a guy i fell in love with)i havent been able to find anyone that i can go out with and not think about and compare them to him what should i do

Of course you are going to compare everyone to someone you fell in love with, its natural and you can't really prevent it, sorry to say. I know how you feel though. You just have to ignore the comparisons and try things with other people, its the easiest way. When you love someone, you'll never forget about how it made you feel or how great it was. And you shouldn't want to forget something that made you truley happy. But the best advice i can give you is try to ignore th ecomparisions and, i guess you could say.. "experiment" with how things go with other guys... hope it helps *amber*

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When I get my period i get HORRIBLE cramp! Sometimes theres so bad i can't go to school or do anything all day! Do know some way to get relief ?

Midol.

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Whats the chance of a condom breaking?

The chances of the condom breaking would be minimal. Usually it is quite obvious when this occurs...The use of a lubricant during intercourse is recommended because it lowers friction, lessening the chances of a latex condom breaking...

When used correctly, latex condoms rarely break. Some important steps to follow to lower the chances of a condom breaking:

Take your time and do not rush sex
Use a latex condom during anal, vaginal, and oral sex. Use a new condom for every act of sex
Use only water-based lubricants such as K-Y jelly, Prepair, or Wet. Apply lubricants as needed. Water-based lubricants dry out quickly
When putting a condom on, pinch the reservoir tip so that there is no air bubble when you unroll the condom
Try using the female condom
Keep condoms stored at room temperature. Do not expose them to temperature extremes. The latex can weaken
Do not use condoms that have expired. Condoms have a certain shelf life as latex breaks down over time


Hope it helps. *amber*

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my boyfriend after 4 years of dating...that the whole thing was a bet to see how long he could play me!!! wtf is up with that?!?!?!

I seriously dout after being with someone for four years they would have been playing you the whole time, thats ridiculous. He prolly just said that to deny he had feelings for you. Fuck him -not literally-- and find someone else. Hope it helps. *amber*

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When after having sex and if the sperm ejaculated in, what kind of pills are good to take to avoid prenancy from happening?

You could use the morning after pill or that "abortion" pill they came out with. Um, yea. Hope it helps.. *amber*

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How long should u wait to know someone before you should kiss them??????

Just do it whenever it feels right.. theres no set amount of time to wait. You just do it. Hope it helps. *amber*

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when you ask a question but send it into a columists inbox can they see who asked the question??

Nope, never. Its always 100% confidential unless you tell the person who you are by yourself. Hope it helps *amber*

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where is the place to get face plated for a cell phone?

Stores in your local mall, ebay, or the place you bought your cell. Hope it helps =) *amber*

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how come when people smoke weed..there eyes get all red? why does it do that?

its the bodies natural reaction to the drug..

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hey i asked the question about being 13 and pregnant well i just found out im having twins!!! my question is wht do they do in a c-section people r tellin me in to tiny and might have to get a c-section, nd i just wanna no like is it more or less painful, and wht do they do! ill rate u, i need advice!! thnx

While its happening its less painful because they either give you something that will numb you so you don't feel anything or (sometimes your asleep). They cut an incision in you to deliver the babies, and the size will depend on how big the babies are. Afterwards they either stitch it closed or staple it.. it might hurt some after, and most likely you'll be left with a scar (at about your bikini line usually) but you don't really have to go through the pain of labor with those. If you wanna know more about C-sections do some research online and see what you find. Hope it helps =) *amber*

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ok i heard somewhere that their are 3 types of erections ppl can have like downwards straight out or almost straight up toward my chin. see and i go straight up almost is that normal? its been sorta eating at me for awhile i owe a lot to you guys for puting a lot of these questions to rest. thanks a million and 1!

Don't worry... you're normal. Nothin to worry about unless its going in a really crazy direction or something, haha. Hope it helps *amber*

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hey..! what are some good sights to get a welcome sign....scroll bar....cursor...and other stuff for your profile? thanx!

Try
http://www3.buddy4u.com/view/?u=xXx+HTML+xXx&redirect=true#effectstext

They have all kinds of stuff there.


Hope it helps =) *amber*

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I am a 15 year old female, and i have been having a lot of sex in the past two years. Im not pregnant but i havent had my period in 2 months i have been throwing up in the morning. Im not sure i dont want to tell my mom but i don't know what to do PLEASE HELP!

You say your not pregnant, but it definately sounds like it. How many times have you taken a pregnancy test? I'd say try it again and see what it says. If it still says your not after a few times you need to tell your mom about it so you can go to the doctors and see whats up. Hope it helps =) *amber*

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ok now on advicnators y is like some of the words underlined and u can clik on them?

They are just normal site links.. Unless your talking about random words being hyperlinked, then thats probably spyware on your computer that you need to get rid of. hope it helped =) *amber*

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im in 8th grade and i havent got mi period yet. what time am i supposed to get it?

Its different for everyone. Some people get it early: A friend of mine got hers when she was like 10, but I got mine when I was 12..Some people don't get it for a while : My mom, for example, didn't get hers til she was 17. It all depends on the way your body develops. And you should be happy you don't have it! Having your period just sucks. So consider yourself lucky. Hope it helps =) *amber*

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This might sound a lil weird.. but im 15 and i was wondering when is the best age to start having sex?

There is no age. You do it when you feel ready. But you definately shouldn't waste your virginity on someone. Sex is meaningful and you should save yourself for someone you truley care about and wait til your 100% you are ready for the responsibilites and risks. Some people say the longer you wait, the better it will be. Its always good to save yourself until marriage too, its a good moral to have. Hope it helps =) *amber*

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