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hey, I'm 16 and a friend of mine, which is a boy is having a sorta "end of the year pool party" lol and he invited me. but im afraid to wear a bathing suit in front of anyone, becuz i have a scar on my stomach-from when i was a baby, i had to get surgery to live. but im really i guess you could say self-concience about it. and i dont like pple to see it. none of my friends know about it, and i really dont know what to do, if i wear a whole piece bathin suit pple will think im kinda dumb.. but i cant wear a bakini or everyone will see my scar.I want to tell my friends or w/e but they might think im discusting or sumthin, idk but its not my fault i have the scar. plus if any guys find out about it they wont like me.. what do i do? or what would you do in this situation? thanks alot.
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The best advice I can give you is to either wear a whole piece or let people know. I probably would just tell people. Its nothing to be self conscious about, and..hey, its a story to tell. You should just be happy your alive you know? No one will think its disgusting, its just a scar and everyone has them. What makes you think that if guys find out they won't like you? I'm sure that wouldn't change anything. Scars don't really change peoples' minds. I have some noticeable scars, and no one cares. my friends do, and no one cares, my boyfriend does .. and i don't care, and neither does anyone else. Scars are no big deal.. but it can be fun to tell stories of how you got them, lol. Basically don't worry about it! People aren't gonna change their opinions of you because of a scar =) Hope it helps *amber*
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