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Hi i need something to say (quite frankly im a little scared) to this girl who keeps telling everyone in school that im a lesbian..which im not! i wanna be a total bitch and say something to her face that will make people go "OOooh!" or give me something to tell her off with!! All i have so far is "Grr". Haha, helP!

wow same problem here!! and i hate hate hate it. I mean i dont know why people assume these things. I am sorry. I dont know wut to do myself... if you findout tell me please!

-beccers_boo

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um im 13 i just start my period last month and my mom told me that period come ever month or 28 days and it last about 4- a week but this month i still didnt have em yet is that a porb? also i got a friend she is 15 she told me that she have her ever half year or few month is that a big porblems im so scard now i dont like to bening a girl now :(

Dont worry... calm down. After i got my eriod i didnt get it back again for 3 months... till my birthday big shock. But its perfectly normal it just means that you haev an eregular period... most people do at first. Heres how it goes. If you started in the middel of the motnh... some month soon it will be at the begning of the month. If you started at begening it goes to mddel and middel to end. At least in my experience. Just always carry some extra pads or something in your back pack.
hope i helped

-beccers_boo

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I have sung since I was about 6 or 7 years old. I have never been too bad at it but I have always lacked in confidence. I can sing fine on my own when no one is around to hear me, but when it comes to singing in front of people, I can't. My friend and I have to sing a verse from a song together for a christmas concert. My friend always has a sore throat so she is generally out of tune and she tends to start laughing. I then have to stop singing because I am too nervous to sing alone. How can I over come this fear of singing in front of people, so that if my friend laughs in the concert, I can just carry on?

Okay ihave the same fear... but you just need to NOT look at the audience because then you get siked out. I had stage fright a while ago... but i loved being in plays etc. Well like 2 years ago i got the lead ... All you have to do is look past the crowd... also if she starts laughing DONT LAUGH ovbiously. Someimtes you just need to close your eyes and imagine your at home.

hope i helped a bit

-beccers_boo

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I use Mary Kay indigo eyeliner (it looks like black. There was no black when I got it). When I use it, I put it on the bottom of my eye, on like the inside part (it's hard to explain). Well when I get to school or wherever I am going, the eyeliner has already worn off! Is it because I use it on the inside and it's kind of wet near my eye? Or is it the brand of eyeliner? If it's the brand, could you give me some suggestions of really good eyeliners? Thanks

Its the brand!! I dont have different kinds but i would definitly try water proff.. becuase i had the sae problem.. and dont use the liquid liener either.
hope i helped

-beccers_boo

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I was recently terminated from a company. In my job search I've been saying I'm currently still employed. I've received an offer from another company and during the background check it has been revealed that I am no longer employed. Onmy application it says NOT to contact my current employer. So how did they find out? Was it a social security report? If so, what does this social security report state? Finally, how do I handle this so they don't recind the offer?

Thank you

Well i would jsut tell them the truth... that is basicaly the only thing that can get you out of further mess. I mean you already lied once... if you do it again and they find out... BIG MESS.

hope i helped

-beccers_boo

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i just started the pill about a month ago. do you think if me and my bf do it without a condom and he pulls out we'd be ok?

The pill... the condom... and pulling out... yes i think all of those thigns combined will definitly slim the chances. But make sure he is going to pull out... you really need to trust your partner to do this. i dont thik there is much more you can do besides a cap.. ( you know wut that is right??? ) and take the morning after pill...

-beccers_boo

hope i helped.

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Alright, my girlfriend just ended her period and we were thinking of sex. I tried to get a condom but with no luck. Now I checked up on it and people say after a period, there is no egg. So I thought, even without a condom, if we had sex and I,"Pulled out early." If there is a chance of pregnancy.

yes a very very very slim chance... but only really because you are pulling out. be careful

-beccaboo

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im 16 and i havent had a period since febuary this year..i dont know why when i was three months late i took a pregnancy test but it was negative..at the same time i lost my virginaty when i got drunk could that be the reaosn why?i dont want to go to the docters cos my mum wll find out she a frend of the docter,i cant tell school cos my mum will find out.i dont want to tell my mum coz she wud be so hurt that i hadnt told her...plese reply quick..

Not all pregnency tests are accurate all the time i would say by three differnt brands and try them all... if yo uare still unsure after that then visit your doctor.

-beccaboo

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I am 14, in ninth grade, and I am female.

Okay, first I'm going to give a little backround information.

I had a boyfriend that tried to cheat on me with his ex girlfriend. I knew that I couldn't trust him ever again, so I broke up with him yesterday. Don't worry, I feel really good about it.

Well, a few days ago, I found out from one of my friends that another friend of mine, Ricky, likes me. At first, I wasn't sure I could trust the friend that told me, T.J., because T.J. is weird like that. Then, my best friend Megan told me yesterday that Ricky has liked me for a long time.

My question is, is it okay to go ahead and date Ricky so soon after dumping my previous boyfriend?

~ClarinetKtM

yea of course it is.that is only if you like ricky back. If your ex boyfriend cares abotu you dating so soon that hiss problem becuase hes the one who cheated. I don't see who will really care. I mean if you like then go for it!

-beccaboo

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ok thnight we had a dance at school and my boyfriend danced with a nother girl. usally that would be ok but this girl hates me and i hate her and she talked about me to him and it was gossip and yeahso now he think stuff about me thats trus what should i do?
13/f
thanks i rate

confront your bf... tell him it isnt true and then tell him that you dont mind him dancing with other girls as logn as it is just that... dancing

-beccaboo

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Ok, well, i've been looking around advicenators and stuff. I noticed all these kids between ages 13-15 are so damn caught up on sx and shit. Well, for you to know, I'm 13, and in my town people are so layed back. It's a really small town. I know almost like everyone in the middle school which are ages 12-15. No, one does any of that shit. They all think it's stupid at this age. You never have to worry about having sex at the right time and when. Everyone is like a virgin in my school. I was really confused and distirbed about this......do you think 13-15 is to young to be having sex or not? I'm so confused. Is there something in my town that we're not getting?
thnx so much

-roxy-

No i think your town has gotten it all fighured out i dont believe in sex before marrige i want to move to whre you are where are you??? lol.

-becca boo

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What should I do to remove my leg hair?

shave??? Shave daily or everyother day... thats wut i do and it seem 2 work for me. Ummm i just us water or soap... then i put lotion on them when they dry.

hope i helped a little

-beccers_boo

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i have this "friend" and she is always hanging around me and all of my other friends that also don't like her. she's also all huggy and grose. some people from my school are going on a trip and there can only be a certain amount of people in a room and we really don't want her to be in our room. there are two of us right now and we need to find a couple more. she thinks that she is going to be in our room but we don't know how to tell her we don't want her to. HOW!

signed,
confused

just tell her the truth... but let her down easily... like i have told many people before people dont respect others that just drop them or hurt them quickly without consitering there feelings.
ri9ght now i have 2 go
hope i helped
-beccers_boo

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My brother is gay and a lot of people will always mention about it. They make fun of me because he's gay.. They keeps sayin Ohhh Your brothers GaY!!! and sometime's it doesn't bother me.. but other times it does. Surprisingly, most people are cool with it and say he's the coolest person they ever met.. what should i do!?

well those who make fun of you because your BROTHERS gau are just mental... that is just sick of them. i think gay guys can make the best of friends... just ignore those people or stand up to them i mean if they have to digso deep as your brothers gayness to insult you then there must not be much more for them to make fun about.

-beccers_boo

hope i helped

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This is a question to all advicenators: What makes you want to give advice to other people?

well persoanly when i am bored it is better then sitting around in front of the tv watching re runs i have seen been rerun 9999999 times. i dont know its nice to be able to know that you can help someone sometimes.

-beccers_boo

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ok i have this friend and well ill just say it one: all the time she acts majorly fake (the whole dumb blonde thing)when shes actually really samrt she wants people to like her and shes really desperate, but the thing is its just making people make fun of her they think shes a poser (which she sorta is) and everyone makes fun of her shes tried so many times to fit in and ive told her that she shouldnt care what people think about her becuz its really not important, she always tells me how perfect i am (which i am not) and its really annoying last year she tried to be punk this year shes a major prep and she shouldnt be either ive tried so many times to talk to her and she always promises to start being herself how do i help her help herself without tearing her down?

Well lst year i tryied to be punk... bg mistake.. and this year i am like completely oposite... so i kind of know how your friend feels... but she shouldn't act stupid to make friends... i mean if peopel are only your friends becuase of who you are pretending to be then they arent your friends... what i would do is sit her down and tell her how smart she is... and that she is just wasting it by being stupid... hope i helped a bit

good luck

-beccers_boo

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i am being forced to move from my home in texas, to the cold and mean streets of chicago. my mother got a new job, and she is carting me up there in february. however, my father lives here in tecas. i have the oppurtunity to live with him, but i never have, and we arent very compatible. should i go with my mom, or stay with my dad?

try staying with your dad give him a chance to try to get to know you more... if it doesnt work out you always have the chicago streets.

hope i helped

-beccers_boo

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What are some good ways to make your girlfriend feel special, like make her feel like you are the best guy in the world (well I know that's probably around impossible. So I am exaggerating a bit, haha.)? What do you girls think would make you special if your guy said them to you or things like that?

tell oe you feel about her... dont just talk like in a normal way... talk like poetic... unlike me right now. Or you can thnk of something special you have shared with her in the past and some way express to her how much your past memories mean 2 you and you hope to have many more in the future. dont be corny al the time tho... i mean yea its sweet but i had a bf like that recently and i felt like i coudnt trust him becasue he only told me what i wanted to hear. sry this wasnt my best advice... good luck. tell me how things go.

-beccers_boo

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So, i've been thinking about but not really knowing if... I mean it's not that I want to commit suicide... I guess i'm just depressed and no I don't want to go on medication cause it's not like my brain is screwed up... it's just that I dunno I feel ugly I feel bad and whenever I tell anyone it doesn't seem to be relevant to them... and yes I know by posting this there will be people (stupid) saying that "YA U SHOULD U WORTHLESS PEICE OF ****" and I really don't care cause I probably should... I know that you guys probably don't care whether I live or not cause I mean it'll just mean one less mouth to feed and one more room to fill...

Basically the reason why I am depressed is that cause I'm gay and i've told people but not everyone... and I just want to have someone to be able to love me back and someone to be able to cuddle with on winter's cold... I've tried online chatting (no not AIM) but actual sites that are serious and no respons... I guess it's cause I'm ugly... but I just feel... *sigh*

im so sorry... trust me i have felt like this ( im not gay or anything ) but everyone feels ugly sometiems and i have had 2 talk people out of sucicide like 3-4 times... it isnt a pretty thing... so please before you do this... talk to someone... me or anyone else who can help u. you will find the right gay guy for you... eventualy right now you just have to tough it up... it will all get better in the end,

beccers_boo

hopped i helped my email rocking_penguin@hotmail.com if you want to reach me privatly and my aim is abooogabooo if you want to try that.

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im a 15/f .. over thanksgiving i did some stuff with my boyfriend. i told one of my really good friends and she is really mad at me now. its not like i had sex with him or anything, and i was ready for what i did. i dont want to have sex w. him either because i want to save that for marriage. and ive told her that many times. but she is still pissed at my actions and doesnt trust me. what can i do to make her see that im not ganna go further then what i feel im ready for, and so that she is not mad at me anymore?

well if she was truley a good friend then she woudl stick by your side... no matter what you did with your bf. trust me i have friends that have gone farther then i would have gone... but you just need to stand by there side and help them thro it... i mean if you had gone farther and gotten pegnet would she be there for you?? or not? i would talk to her about it... seriously.

hoped i helped
keep me updated

-beccers_boo

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