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pleese help
im 16 and i havent had a period since febuary this year..i dont know why when i was three months late i took a pregnancy test but it was negative..at the same time i lost my virginaty when i got drunk could that be the reaosn why?i dont want to go to the docters cos my mum wll find out she a frend of the docter,i cant tell school cos my mum will find out.i dont want to tell my mum coz she wud be so hurt that i hadnt told her...plese reply quick..
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try a test again go to a doctor that your mother doesnt know work it out with him/her and if its negative tell your mom the story and everything is alright if its positive tell your mother then whoever you had sex with. it is important to tell her because most likely she will be more there for u than the father at your age.
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if you dont want your mom to find out, go to planned parenthood. but before try a different pregnacy tests before you go, just dont do stupid things like that when your drunk, i think you've learned ur lesson. x0
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Try taking another pregnancy test but it doesnt sound like you are pregnant but to be sure go to a planned parenthood. they are not aloud to tell your parents anything that happens there. I think though if you were pregnant you were start to show by now Good Luck!
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I think its like a law or something that if you're over 13 and you go to the doctor and u want it to be confidential, they're not allowed to tell your parents.
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ok you really do need to find out and let your mom know she can help you get throught it.
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Firstly are your periods irregular or have you been going through a lot of exercise or stress in your life?? Like I'm notoriously known for not getting my period for months on end. Its crazy, and bloody annoying.
So that should depend on the regularity of your periods and how old you are and how long you have had your period.
The other scary thing would you be pregnant, but its been an awfully long time for you not to have your period. If you really were pregnant you would have had some signs by now. Lets see my sister got pregnant in January and gave birth a few weeks ago. You'd definatley would have had some sign so I highly doubt that you are pregnant.
Tell your mum about it, you sound pretty young and your mum owuld be able to help with this kind of problem. She won't be hurt, she will know you've been scared and chances are the irregularity run in the family- so she might have the answer for you right up. I have painful ones and I'm on the pill my mum has the exact same problem- so its all explained in my family- stay away from us if we snap at anyone.
Don't worry about it- if you were pregnant I'm pretty sure you'd know by now by the physical signs of pregnacy- you'd probabley be giving birth by now.
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Not all pregnency tests are accurate all the time i would say by three differnt brands and try them all... if yo uare still unsure after that then visit your doctor.
-beccaboo
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Pregnancy tests aren't always accurate. I'd take another one - and whether it comes out positive or negative, you will need to see a doctor. If you're pregnant, you will need to talk to a professional to figure out what to do next. If you aren't pregnant, you still need to ask a doctor where your period is. If you've always been regular and suddenly it's stopped, something medical is going on and needs to be checked out.
Regarding your doctor telling your mother? That shouldn't be happening - call your doctor's office and ask about their policies regarding confidentiality. Don't give your name; just give your age and ask what rights you have. You can always call Planned Parenthood and make an appointment - that's a confidential, safe, and accurate organization that can help you out.
If you visit PP and are not pregnant, then I would let your mom know that your period hasn't been coming. This way, she doesn't need to feel left out; tell her you think something is wrong and go see your regular doctor.
Putting this off won't make things easier - it'll only get harder to keep this from your mother, and if you ARE pregnant (or have a medical condition related to your stopped period) you'll need professional attention as soon as possible.
Make some phone calls, ask about your rights regarding confidentiality, and then visit Planned Parenthood.
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