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Hey, i'm April. I'm 17 and live in Indiana. On September 2nd 2009 I had mt lovely daughter Avril Jane. Being a mom is not as hard as everyone always says it is. I have been dating my wonderful boyfrendd Jarrod since Sept. 28, 2008. I'm pretty relaxed and I love to help people!

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i'm 16/female and i want to "jazz" up my style. i have very straight hair that doesn't hold a curl that is just past shoulder length in layers as well as some long side sweep bangs. i use bare minerals make up and usually only wear foundation and some blush. i have black framed glasses. i usually wear tshirts or sweaters with jeans and converses. what are some simple things i can alter my appearance with to make me look better? and what kind of clothes should i shop for to add to my style. (i can't wear skirts because i play cello) thanks!

Well you try out contacts and see how you like them. Instead of trying to curl your hair you could scrunch it, or wear it in french braids. As for clothes get some skinny jeans and flats. Cardigans are really cute this time of year. You can dress up an outfit with some big hoops, or dangeley earrings. Big bold and brightly colored necklaces can spice up and outfit. For make-up you could start to wear some eyeshadow and mascara. I reccomend Lash Perfection by MAX Factor. If you line you upper eye close to the lashes it will make your eyes look bigger. Hope I helped!

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15/f

My handwriting absolutly sucks! Once I forgot to put my name on it and the teacher said it looked like a boys handwriting (since girls are more neater) and when I saw it, it was mine. I'd like to change my handwriting to be neat and clear. Is there any way to make it better?

Do not tell me to write slower and take my time because I need to be able to write fast in school. (lots of notes)

any suggestions?

Mine used to suck too. I always wanted big girly handwriting. My mom told me to write the same sentence 50 times. You don't have to do it all at once, maybe 10, take a break then another 10. Each time try to write it better than the last. Sounds boring and dumb I know but it worked for me. Hope I helped!

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OK I'm turning 14 in March, and I need to start studying for my driver's permit test. Are there any websites that can help me? I live in Arkansas btw :) thanks

http://golocalnet.net/drive/

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i swear my twin is the spon of satan she always screws me over and thinks everything i do is her damn business and its not how can i tell her to back the fuck up and leave me alone?

You could always tell her "back the fuck up and leave me alone!" If you want to be polite about it you could just tell her that you need some space and alone time.

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13/ F

ok
so a little bit about the characters
M = me
S = sam (yes, this is a girl)
b = blake
anywayzzzzz

i like this boy lets call him B

and i used to go out with him, we both ended it because we wated to be friends. but then he told me that he still cares for me.
well... S knows how much i like him. bu ttoday she told me that she likes him too.... at first i didn't care because we aren't going out anymore
but then i was hurt really badly....
what kind of a friend would do this to me???

this has happened before i liked a guy named Sam then she liked him to

so i told my mom this problem and she thinks that she is jealous of me... so she likes the same guys

should i stay friends with her... well i mean of course i am staying friends with her
but she is moving away soon and i am very sad.
even though she is doing this to me

please help me
and yes i have tried talking to S but she just likes them anywayzzz

i have never liked her BF's and she shouldn't like mine right?

yes i rate

There's 2 ways to look at this.

1)-Sam thought that you didn't like Blake anymore and thought he was fair game until you changed your mind.Therefore, no one is in the wrong.

2)-If you have told her you like him, and she still likes him then she is in the wrong. Friends don't date friends ex-boyfriends...it always causes problems.

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is it normal that when you smoke a cigarette it makes you lightheaded and dizzy? why is this

If you're not used not it it will make you light headed.

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to mostly guys, but girls too - should girls shave their vaginas?

It's up to you. if you don't want to don't. If you want to, do it. Most guys prefer it shaved at least trimmed. Once he's down there though he shouldn't really be bothered by it.

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can women get pregnant if her hymen isnt broken but a guy came in her?

Yes

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i absolutly love knee high boots, but i just cant seem to find a good pair im not all that preppy cuz i have sort of a gothic look so i was thinkin of boots somewhere around that kind of style but i dont want flames or skulls on em cuz i wnat thses to go with almost everything. like pnats skirts skinny leg pants so i can wear the boots over em to show em off, adn so on, does any one have anyidea where i can find boots like this?

Hot Topic

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i like totally loved my friends boots but i have no idea wat theyre called so i cant find em theyre not knee high boots they go way higher than that they go so high up your leg that when u wear a min skirt y can barley see any of your skin. can anyone help!

They are called thigh-high's. They are also called "hooker heels" Just ask your friend where she got them.

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18/f
What are some signs that your boyfriend either is cheating or has recently cheated on you?(Even when he claims to be completely in love with you..etc etc etc)

He always seems to be on the phone.Does he have to think before he says where he has been? When he answers the phone does he leave the room? Does he always seem unavailable to hang out? Does he leave for late-night trips to the store? Those are all good signs.

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are their underwear returnable?

i havent worn them and i just bought them two days ago

They should be as long as they still have the tags on them and you have the receipt. I returned mine with the tags still on.

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Is it okay to put the car in park or neutral at a red light ?

Neither, when your at a red light you should just keep your foot on the brake. Hope I Helped!

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how long, on adverage, does it take for a girl to come? is it possible that some girls cant come? i've had sex and such with guys, and never came. Of course, it could be that they weren't adequate in the sex department, but I just want to know if there's possibly something wrong with me.

Every girl is different. Some come quickly, some come slowly, and some don't come at all. If you aren't orgasming maybe you are focusing too much on it. Just relax and think about good it feels.

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everytime i "scrunch my hair" it comes out terrible.
how could i get my hair too like the girl, in this picture? :)
when i use gel it just doesnt come out right...
^^http://img72.imageshack.us/img72/4190/scrunchnn9.png

Ok after you wash your hair towel dry it so it's damp. Brush it with a wide-toothed comb. Take some mousse, but not too much and grab a section of hair and "scrunch" it sorta hard. You can use gel too but not a lot. Then finish by spraying your hair with hairspray. Hope I helped!

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what could we do this friday thats like really fun! ok so i dont really want to ddo the mall thing or movies or go out to dinnner becuase we do that almost every weekend and we want something new to do.. we already though of a sleep over but ehh not so awesome! ya know? so i was wondering if anyone had any ideas on what we could do thats really fun???

were 16 if that helps anything :]

Bowling
Cosmic Bowling
Laser Tag
Skating Rink
Ice Skating

Hope I helped!

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Ok, so whenever I try to log into myspace, it won't let me. It says I entered the wrong password, which I didn't. Also, another page pops up that says "protectedmodeoff" and then the rest of it is just a white web page. Please help, I don't know what happened. Did I get hacked? If so, how do I get unhacked?

Ok there should be a little thing that says "forget your password?" Click on that. It will tell you to enter your e-mail address, then it will e-mail you your password. Hope I helped!

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Hey how do you do that weird chipmunk voice when you do videos? The one where you can slow the videos down or speed them up..do I need like, a certain program? Cuz its really funny and i wanna do it..Thanks in advance!!!!!

You could get that weird chipmunk voice by speeding up the film. You would also get the same affect by sucking the helium out of ballons. Hope I helped!

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Okay so I have this problem Im in to the vampire sex i love it when my bf bites me and well i like practically everything he does to me and i mean everything he knows how to turn me on really fast does that mean im easy of does this mean hes really good

Neither. He just knows what you like and obviously he wants to please you.

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I recently fully realized that my wardrobe is a bit sparse. So I want to shop to fill it up. These are the clothes I already have:
-Black Roxy skinny jeans.
-Dark canvas skinny pants.
-Medium-wash whiskered low-rise designer Levi's.
-Ralph Lauren white turtleneck.
-American Eagle black and cream pleated mini.
-AE pink henley sweater.
-Burgundy Deb cable-knit pull-over.
-Plaid short-sleeved ruffle Delia's button-down shirt.
-Tight cerulean blue Gap skinny jeans.
-Free People grey-taupe lacy vest.
-Zip-down 3/4 sleeve black sweater.
-AE purple plaid oxford.
-AE dog-pattern grey sweater-vest.
-Pea green lacy spaghetti-strap tank.
-Long grey cardigan.
-H&M dark pink tunic.
-Pink argyle sweater.
-Dark grey plaid walking shorts.
-Urban Behavior plaid short shorts.
-Cream and blue striped spaghetti-strap tank.
-Tommy Hilfiger plaid riding boots.
-Steve Madden black Mary-Janes.
-Pink ballet flats.
-Coach bag.
-Tommy Hilfiger blue pleather tote.
-Antique pearls (real).

I have a clean preppy style and like to get really high quality clothes cheap. (I get my stuff from Marshall's and TJ Maxx, and other things off clearance racks.) My favorite color is navy. If anyone could give me clothes that I should have in my wardrobe that mostly can be worn in most seasons (I wear winter clothes in summer and vice versa) that would be great. (Except for shorts, etc. of course.) Thanks so much.

American Eagle has some really cute polo's. They had a lot of cute hoodless sweaters. Aeropostale has all-over print long sleeve and short sleeve tops. Hollister has a lot of long and short sleeved knit type shirts in lots of bright colors. You should get some uggs to go with your skinny jeans. Pearl (real or fake) earrings to go with your necklace.

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