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Question Posted Thursday January 3 2008, 3:09 pm

18/f
What are some signs that your boyfriend either is cheating or has recently cheated on you?(Even when he claims to be completely in love with you..etc etc etc)


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icey0990 answered Thursday January 3 2008, 4:27 pm:
To my knowledge I have never been cheated on, but here are a few i can think of:


- his cell phone is always off when you two are together. test this out by calling his phone while you are with him...if you dont hear it rining, and its constantly off, something could be up

- along with the cell phone thing..does he keep his phone extremely private? if you are around him and he always has it at his side, and never laying on the counter, etc,something miiight be up.

- does he sometimes seem to make excuses why he didnt see you one day ? if he does this often, check up on his alibi. if he claims hes with his dad, or his friend jake for example, call them casually and ask if your bf is there. if he isnt, ask if he was supposed to hang out with them. if they say no, then he may be cheating

-is his home phone line busy for a long time or when you call him does he ignore you sometimes? it could be because hes on the phone with someone else.


here is something i got from seventeen.com some of their points are similar to mine

1. He's acting distant. If he's calling less frequently or has cancelled on plans repeatedly, he may be trying to pull away from you--because he's getting close to someone else.

2. You can't get in touch with him. If you try to call your boyfriend and no one--not even his family or best friends--can get a hold of him, you've got to ask yourself where's he hiding out and why?

3. He's suddenly insensitive, like he totally forgets plans and then shrugs it off. He may not be considering your feelings because he's thinking about another girl's.

4. His interests--or looks--have changed. If he's developed a new taste in music or clothes, it may be to impress another girl--or because of her influence.

5. He's stopped inviting you to join him in his favorite activities or at his usual hangouts. If you're not going with him, who is?

good luck, remember dont jump to conclusions..first be a little suspicious, if he says he will be with his dad or his buddy, call them. call his cell while your together, see if it rings...and raise questions

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Amazing_April answered Thursday January 3 2008, 4:24 pm:
He always seems to be on the phone.Does he have to think before he says where he has been? When he answers the phone does he leave the room? Does he always seem unavailable to hang out? Does he leave for late-night trips to the store? Those are all good signs.

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