how long, on adverage, does it take for a girl to come? is it possible that some girls cant come? i've had sex and such with guys, and never came. Of course, it could be that they weren't adequate in the sex department, but I just want to know if there's possibly something wrong with me.
The guy, first of all. Its entirely possible hes terrible in bed and couldnt get you off even if you were a push button orgasm.
There could be technical difficulties on both sides.
You, second of all. And no, its not that something is wrong with you.
Part 1:
Women's orgasm is very, very largely determined by her mental state. Having one at all, and intensity.But theres alot that goes into that. You have to be comfy with your guy and with the situation. Some women have an easier time with this than others. The easiest way to help this that Ive found is massage and body rubbing. If hes willing to put in the time to relax you and get you nice and warmed up it can help alot.
Part 2:
The physical and technical aspects. Its possible that physically speaking you dont cum very easy regardless. It might take a certain kind of stimulation delivered just the right way for a certain period to work it.
Example, Ive known women who could only cum from clitoral stimulation, Ive known women who could only get the G-Spot orgasm.
This is why a long term relationship is a good idea. You have to sleep with someone long enough that they learn your ins and outs (no pun intended) and figure out how you react to different things. [ WittyUsernameHere's advice column | Ask WittyUsernameHere A Question ]
tastygirl answered Thursday January 3 2008, 11:37 am: Well im easy...4 minutes on average. But it depends on yourself, If you've comfortable- if the person you're with is good. that kind of thing
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thelaura answered Wednesday January 2 2008, 10:26 pm: Some girls can't achieve orgasms through just sex.
Every girl is different, so it's impossible to say what will work for you.
Keep tying different ways. and there's no set time.. it takes a different amount of time for everyone under various circumstances. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
Amazing_April answered Wednesday January 2 2008, 9:53 pm: Every girl is different. Some come quickly, some come slowly, and some don't come at all. If you aren't orgasming maybe you are focusing too much on it. Just relax and think about good it feels. [ Amazing_April's advice column | Ask Amazing_April A Question ]
MissKhalili answered Wednesday January 2 2008, 9:51 pm: There isnt anything wrong with you...
it just takes a little more too please you.
alot of girl dont cum when they have sex.
its probley just because the guy didnt reach your highest climax. [ MissKhalili's advice column | Ask MissKhalili A Question ]
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