Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


how long?


Question Posted Wednesday January 2 2008, 8:46 pm

how long, on adverage, does it take for a girl to come? is it possible that some girls cant come? i've had sex and such with guys, and never came. Of course, it could be that they weren't adequate in the sex department, but I just want to know if there's possibly something wrong with me.

[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?


WittyUsernameHere answered Thursday January 3 2008, 5:56 pm:
Huge variety of factors.

The guy, first of all. Its entirely possible hes terrible in bed and couldnt get you off even if you were a push button orgasm.

There could be technical difficulties on both sides.

You, second of all. And no, its not that something is wrong with you.

Part 1:

Women's orgasm is very, very largely determined by her mental state. Having one at all, and intensity.But theres alot that goes into that. You have to be comfy with your guy and with the situation. Some women have an easier time with this than others. The easiest way to help this that Ive found is massage and body rubbing. If hes willing to put in the time to relax you and get you nice and warmed up it can help alot.

Part 2:

The physical and technical aspects. Its possible that physically speaking you dont cum very easy regardless. It might take a certain kind of stimulation delivered just the right way for a certain period to work it.

Example, Ive known women who could only cum from clitoral stimulation, Ive known women who could only get the G-Spot orgasm.

This is why a long term relationship is a good idea. You have to sleep with someone long enough that they learn your ins and outs (no pun intended) and figure out how you react to different things.

[ WittyUsernameHere's advice column | Ask WittyUsernameHere A Question
]




tastygirl answered Thursday January 3 2008, 11:37 am:
Well im easy...4 minutes on average. But it depends on yourself, If you've comfortable- if the person you're with is good. that kind of thing
xx

[ tastygirl's advice column | Ask tastygirl A Question
]



Matt answered Wednesday January 2 2008, 10:51 pm:
Most can't anyway, so you're perfectly normal.

[ Matt's advice column | Ask Matt A Question
]



thelaura answered Wednesday January 2 2008, 10:26 pm:
Some girls can't achieve orgasms through just sex.
Every girl is different, so it's impossible to say what will work for you.
Keep tying different ways. and there's no set time.. it takes a different amount of time for everyone under various circumstances.

[ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question
]



Amazing_April answered Wednesday January 2 2008, 9:53 pm:
Every girl is different. Some come quickly, some come slowly, and some don't come at all. If you aren't orgasming maybe you are focusing too much on it. Just relax and think about good it feels.

[ Amazing_April's advice column | Ask Amazing_April A Question
]



MissKhalili answered Wednesday January 2 2008, 9:51 pm:
There isnt anything wrong with you...
it just takes a little more too please you.
alot of girl dont cum when they have sex.
its probley just because the guy didnt reach your highest climax.

[ MissKhalili's advice column | Ask MissKhalili A Question
]

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: getting turned on
Next Question >>> Pregnancy

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker