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Hey, well all girls know you should only have your period like every 28 days or something, well ive had my period since i was 11 and now im 14, well its usually pretty on schedule other than maybe a few days, and i have a long period sometimes but no big problems, well inthe past 6 weeks, and now 7 i have had my period 3 times. the first time it was just a little and last about 4 days. then the second time was 2 weeks after and i got the worst cramps like ever, and i usually dont get cramps and it lasted about 5 days and was a regular flow. well then 3 weeks later i have started again and im on still and its lasted about 8 days now, and the first 6 were ALL HEAVY like really really bad, and then i thought it was over and then when i woke up... nope and so now its back and its just a little but what should i do? should i go to the doctor? or what? thanx bunches!

Hey!I think you should go to a doctor.Does your mom or dad know about this too?If its usually not like that (and yea,for most its not) then go to the doctor...cuz that does seem un-normal.I hope I helped and I hope everything works out.GOOD LUCK!

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im in 8th grade and ive never had a boyfriend or been kissed. im really pretty (every1 sez so atleast) and idk whats wrong with me! im always smiling and happy and im really funny and goofy..whats wrong with this picture?

Maybe your not bein flirty enough and not givin out the signal that your single,you want a bf and you are tired of bein lonely.lol. Do you like any guys right now?If you do then just tell them.Cuz they like that.It seems like you have good qualities to so you'll find someone!GOOD LUCK!

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I've liked the same guy for 2 years. We are friends and all, but I know he'll never like me...But now I have two questions. My best friend EVER likes him now, and she always gets the guys she wants. I'm so mad!! What should I do about her? Also, how do I get over him and move on to another guy that might actually like me? I really need help so I'll have a good school year without losing a friend or being obsessed with a guy that'll never like me!!?

Well if you really are positive that he'll NEVER EVER EVER like you then just face it..even though its probaly not true but ifyou think so...Just keep tellin yourself that you don't like him.Start lookin for someone that you think will like you or someone that you just have feeligns for.Start likeing him and tell him what you feel.*guys like that* As for your friend who cares..if she wants to go out w/ him let her. Its not like they'll be together forever. Act liek you dont care.and you shouldn't. I hope i helped. GOOD LUCK!

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What are some good snacks? I'm trying to stay away from packaged snacks or sugary snacks.

Try makin smoothies and veggies and stuff...i like to eat cellery w/ ranch!i eat that a lot.I also make smoothies.It has some sugar but it can be pretty healthy.Just put fruit (strawberrys,peaches,grapes,etc.)in a blender and its really good!ihope i helped.GOOD LUCK!

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hello. i'm going into 7th grade and i weigh 153. i'm 5'3". i want to run cross country, but i don't want to get a physical cause you get weighed. for one reason, my mom is skinny and is always preaching to loose weight and i did, 5lbs. reason two, i don't want the coachs, and definatley other runners to see it. what should i do? I only have till next thursday. please help. i rate HIGH!

Okay,I think that you should just go for it.Don't be ashamed of what you weigh because remember,there are other people that weigh more and also if you get a physical then ya you can run in track!And then if you want to you can loose weight!Good luck!Hope ya do well!

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like last year i went out with this guy. but after we made out he wanted to go father. i brook up with him shortly after that. Now i love him again and HE NOW HAS A G?F what can i do!!

If he has a gf i guess there really is nothing you CAN do except wait...wait till shes kinda like outta the picture..If your young than they probaly won't really last too long.Dont try to ruin there relationship tho..that'd be mean.But also let him know how you still have feelings for him..just cuz he has a g.f doesn't mean you cant talk..so good luck hope everything works out!

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Ok i have a really important question. i really want to have sex but i am not sure when girls can get pregnate. i have already have my period but is it after u get it wheil u have it or what?? plz help me

You can get pregnant at anytime after you had your period UNLESS your older and have your tubes tied *ouch* so ya...GOOD LUCK!

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is there good way i can lose some weight.. im not fat at all but i got some pudge in the middl of my stoamach... please help me

hey!do sit-ups and crunches and even push ups can help ur abs!good luck!

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i cut myself a lot just to make the pain go away and i told one person and they told me to tell my parent but i dont want to i wanna stop but i cant its just hard i need help can someone tell me wat to do please

YOU NEED TO TELL A TRUSTWORTHY ADULT (parent,aunt,etc..) someone that understands you! I so know what ur goin through cuz a lot of my friends did that!I really hope you do stop cuz its bad...get help from a counselor or somethin!GOOD LUCK!!

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do u have sn we culd talk alot easy?? yea but hez not tha 1 u culd say that 2 and i dunno how 2 adviod it

yeah!i have aim! my aim sn is...

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yea i do wanna just not tha next time i see him i want it 2 really mean sumin not just kuz he wants to and hes not tha guy u ucld say i dont like kissing or wutever

Well if you DO wanna kiss him just not the next time you see him than i guess you could just say "hey if ur real good than maybe next tiem" or you could just keep it simple and say "im not ready yet...maybe next time k?" cuz if your not ready you STILL shouldn't let him pressure you..cuz thats just not right..someday he might wanna PRESSURE you into having sex and believe me thats not somethin ya wanna be pressured into! IF YOU STILL NEED HELP KEEP TALKIN TO ME! I"M HERE FOR YOU!SERIOUSLY!So if ya still have ?'s then just ask..im more than happy to help!GOOD LUCK!

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ok i have a bf and everythang and he sed if he did sumin 4 me i wuld have to kiss him tha next time we see each and i dont wanna kiss him right now enwayz so wut should i do..??

Hey!If your not ready to kiss yet then your not ready to kiss yet...Whatever you do don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't wanna do!If your not comfortable with something than definetely dont do it!Just be like "hey i dont think im ready yet" I think he'll understand...and if he doesn't then hes not worth it cuz what do u think hes gonna want after you do give in and kiss him??Maybe he won't..but guys think if they can pressure you into doin somethin then they can pressure you into havin sex too..and if ur not ready to kiss then i bet ur not ready for sex!I hope I helped...GOOD LUCK!!LET ME KNO HOW EVERYTHANG TURNS OUT!!!

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Iam 15 years old, 5'2 and i weigh 121 pounds,am i fat or over weight? How can i lose weight? Please help!

Hey!I really think your NOT fat..and im not lying..I think your just fine.BUT if YOUR not happy with the way you are then thats a bit different.But I think ur definetely not fat.But ok if u wanna kno how to lose weight I think i can help a little with that...The best way to lose weight is the healthy way,it may be the hard way but IT IS THE HEALTHIEST!Eat Healthy!Don't drink sodas and eat pizza ya kno?I mean sure you can have maybe a slice of pizza but dont go havin 3!Cuz that is bad and ya just try to have SMALL PORPORTIONS.That can help! Also exercise!It helps you look good and feel good!I exercise regularly..not cuz i think im fat or anythign but because it makes me feel a lot better!If you need any exercises then just drop me one in my inbox...ask for the exercises and for which part of the body (legs,stomache,arms,etc.) You can also do that for food..i kno some really healthy foods that ya can eat to!GOOD LUCK I HOPE I HELPED!!

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I'm friends with this one guy and I like him alot. I've heard that he used to like me too, but I'm not exactly sure if it's true. he is the only guy I've ever felt this way about, and I know it sounds stupid of me to say that because we are only 14. In the past, he has hurt me bad emotionally and once physically. But now, everything between us it great we talk all the time I just don't know if I should tell him how I feel, just forget about him, or keep it a secret. Please help.

HIYA!I think that you should definetely tel him how u feel!Cuz when you do that it makes you feel a lot better..and sometimes you'll lose the interest if its not "real"...but if it was me,and he hurt me EMOTIONALLY AND PHYSICALLY then i definetely not go out w/ him..even if he said a zillion times. lol..thats just me cuz i dont go for the abusers ya kno? And yea if you really dont wanna jepordize ur friendship maybe you should just forget about likin him as more than a friend...I hope I helped..lemme kno how it all turns out! GOOD LUCK! any more ?'s just ask!

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Well,i have a problem.

Me n this boy started going out. He was so sweet to me, and so damn nice, i really loved him. Then he started to get a lil more being a jerk. Thats just him, i let it pass, because he was just being a guy. He said a few things that bothered me, i told him, he told me he was sorry millions of times. You know. i let it all pass. Then he broke up with me, cause " He didnt want a gf" We've been going out for 3 months and he was my first boyfriend and i really loved him alot, he seemed like he really loved me to. I was heartbroken. Then about 4 days after we broke up, he went online and i was talking to him. He told me " God i cant take it anymore, I love you more then anything, will you be my GF again?" and just because im stupid, i said yes. Should i stay with him and risk getting hurt again.. or break up with him.. IDK what to do, cause i really love him..He even told me if i broke up with him he'd practically kill himself because he couldnt live without me.. please help!

Hey!OKAY this happens so many times..for one if ur bf is a jerk and he doesn't have a really good reason (like a death in the family or uh boy pms lol or somethin like that) then you should just forget em!You can get someone that loves you and wouldn't hurt you..I think that if your willing to take the risk for this boy you "love" then go ahead and do it!As for me I would not.I don't really go for second chances...And when im hurt by a person (especially boys) I won't take em back.BUT THATS ME!If you REALLY REALLY love him and are willin to take the risk of gettin hurt AGAIN then go ahead and do it if you want to..but if you do break up w/ him..boys always say they'll kill themselves if you break up w/ them..they are just doin it so you don't!So do what ya feel sista and good luck!!lol..lemme kno how it all turns out!!

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I'm in 1/2 of a band, and i have 2 questions here i guess..


1. We have only guitarist (myself) and a bassist (my friend.)...how can i find out if anyone is a drummer?

2. I'm kind of nervous to play guitar in front of people...and possibly sing if anyone thinks i'm any good....how do i get over my stage fright?

Hey!Well on the first question here is a option.. Local bands in my town that are looking for members (like drummers and stuff) make flyers and put them up in music stores,skate parks,just anywhere where there are a lot of teens that MIGHT play a instrument or sing or somethin..I see the banners all the time!I really think that'd help..And for the second question..I don't really think there is any way i can tell you how to get rid of stage fright..I could say "imagine everyone wearing underwear" but for me that just makes me crack up and look like a fool so I am just gonna say start singing and playin ur family, then show your friends, and grandually make the group of people your playin and singin for larger!That will help your stage fright too!Believe me you'll get used to it! But on first gigs and stuff theres always a LITTLE bit of stage fright..theres no way to get rid of that sorry..I hope I helped...It depends on where ya live lol cuz I play the drums..but im a girl but im good cuz i've played for 5 years.But yeah..hope ya find someone and GOOD LUCK!!lemme kno how it all works out!!!

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im 13 and i really like this kid and he is 15 i told him how i feel and he said he likes me to but we live a hour away we could neva go out [ so he said ], but sometimes he seems like he really likes me then other times it seems like he is to busy that he has no time for me but then i know he has alot of girls as friends and i don't know if he likes them and i know is jealously but it tru and i don't know wat to do u think i should just try to get him off my mined[ it would be so hard if i did but i could try ].. or wat ? .. PLEASE HELP !

HEY!I think its up to you!If you feel you like LOVE him then i guess theres nothin you can do and me askin u to get him off your mind wouldn't help..but i really think that long distance stuff DOESN"T REALLY WORK!But ya kno for some it does...maybe its just me i always need someone to be with like phyisically but maybe ur different..I hope it all works out!!GOOD LUCK!TELL ME HOW IT WORKS!
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i have this boyfriend but i kinda like this other guy too and i want to go out with him but i dont want to break up with my other bf what do i do

If you really do like this other guy you definetely should break up w/ ur bf..Its sad and kinda unfair for the other guy..Hes saving himself for you and i definetely think you should be fair and go w/ the other guy..if you like him!But be gentle w/ ur bf!I hope I helped..tell me how it works out! {any more ?'s just ask!}

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hi im 5'4 and 90 pounds. im worried that i dont weigh enough. everyone thinks im anerexic but im not so i dont care but i feel like my weight might be too low. should i gain weight?

Hiya!I think it really depends on how you feel..If your unhappy with your weight than I guess you could try to gain weight.But if you like the way you are than screw what others think!I think yes you are quite skinny but I also think that thats okay..as long as your healthy!If they think ur anerexic than....OH WELL! Just let them think that.Maybe there jealous!lol I dont know but I hope I helped.GOOD LUCK! {any more ?'s jsut ask!}

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hi. im in a group of 3 best friends. Alexa and Erin. They both tell me that they secretly like me better than the other one and wish it was just the two of us. Alexa says crap about Erin and so on. I love them both and wish they wouldnt do this and could just like eachother. what should i do?

Hi!I've been in this prob before too.I just tell them how i feel..i was in it w/ two girls. My friends were the same two...they'd talk crap about eachother. I just said "Oh well if thats how YOU feel than okay but I like her and you so I'm just not gonna say anything" and they took that and didn't really get mad or anything.They also didn't talk crap to me about one another anymore.I really hope I helped.GOOD LUCK!LET ME KNO HOW IT WORKS OUT IF YOU WANNA!{if u have any more ?'s just ask!}

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