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I am twenty-one, soon to be twenty-two, and currently work in a loan servicing department. I truly enjoy my job, as well as college, in which I am reaching my last year to receive my degree. I am an outgoing person whom loves to have fun, be with my best friends and family, go shopping and most importantly, helping others.


Helping others has always been my passionate, from a young age I knew that I wanted to help other people and be a great influence in making someone's life turn for the better. My main goal in life is to help others, and in addition to helping all of you on Advicenators -- you all are important to me, and look forward to helping you all that I can.


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Attractive or not??????? answer?
http://img229.imageshack.us/my.php?image=170416hv0.jpg

shes my friend's friend do you think shes pretty? (link)
Yes, I think your friend is pretty.


I like this 1 boy in on of my classes at school and i want to try and be freinds with him so that we can talk and get to nkoweach other more! does anyone know how to do that???? please help! thanks (link)
Hi, these links should help you out. =)

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Close-Friends-With-the-Guy-You-Like


Ok is there a specific exercise to get rid of like fat on your hips or just walking and any exercise? (link)
Here are some links that should be helpful to you. =)

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=520299
http://www.flat-stomach-exercises.com/love-handles.html


so im a sophmore and he's a senior.
in high school by the way :)
so, there is this guy, i REALLY like.
and i mean i think he's kinda into me, even though im ALOT younger and all. well only a year and a half, but anyways.
i want him to like me back becuase his x is trying to get back with him. hmmm.
and im not really the slutty type at all so im not going to go do anything like that.
i dunno.
what should i like say to him to make him like me, but be like playfull and flirty, but not like too flirty, you know?
wow that was like a novel :) hah (link)
I think this will help you out. =)

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294


I really liked this 1 guy that used to ride my bus and he lives by me. But now he dont ride the bus anymore and i dont see him even though he lives by me!!! What can i do because im afraid that i wont want to go out with any other guy because i have the biggest crush on him!!!!! Hes in the same grade as me and hes the cutest guy that i have ever seen!!!!! What can i do??? (link)
This should help you out. =)

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294


13/f
I am so tight on money right now. I am going to put up a babysitting flyer next week, but I need other stuff too. I have no neighbors, since I live in the middle of nowhere, and my parents won't give me money/pay me for stuff, since they like to spend as much money as they can on gifts, not on gifts that I'm going to buy them. I want to get my mom Burberry perfume, which is like $45, and my younger sister a pair of fuzzy slippers. I have a chart here, and I need answers for the blanks:
Age Gift Price Gender
25 ? ? M
47 Burberry perfume 45 F
26 ? ? F
26 ? ? F
34 ? ? M
48 ? ? M
10 fuzzy slippers 8 F
Thanks in advance. I need to know the gift, the price, how to earn the money, and where to get it. I know it's a lot, but all advice is appreciated! (link)
Unfortunately, the only thing I give you are the gifts. I wanted to help you, even if it's only a little bit. =)

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=518322


I dont know why, but i keep having these weird dreams about Dylan and Cole Sprouse!! Why??!!
Are they single?
Answers to both please (link)
1) http://www.ivillage.co.uk/newspol/celeb/cfeat/articles/0,,528719_533010,00.html
2) As far as I know, they're single. I've looked it up everywhere, and find so many different answers that I can't really determine the correct one.


So I (As always) have a problem, theres this guy we'll call him Dai, we Dai is blackmailing me with the wrist slitting and my ex boyfriend that my friends nor parents knew about. He wants a carton of cigs per week, and I can't do that, but I can't let anyone find out about the other thing, so I've been stressing all weekend, making myself sick from anxity and I don't know what to do about it but I need help fast. Please help! (link)
You can't let this guy win, as long as you allow him to have control over you - he will use that against you. The ONLY way to get him to stop is to come clean, I know it won't be easy, but I can tell you it will be better than him blackmailing you. Trust me, it's the right thing to do and is for the best. Talk to your parents, the most important, and tell them what's happened and that this guy is blackmailing you. At least one thing you can say, they'll appreciate you for being honest with them and you won't be blackmailed anymore.


hi,i wana be a male model is it a good thing to do as a job..what are some things i can do to get my confidences up and not be shy...an can you make lotz of money doing modeling for a guy (link)
Here's information on male modeling. =)

http://www.modellifestyle.com/male_modeling_tips.htm
http://malemodeling.blogspot.com/


I know the holidays aren't until december, But me and my friends picked a secret santa, the friend i picked is very girly, she uses a lot of lotions and pefumes.. and she wears earings everyday.. you know stuff like that. I dont know what to get her! I was thinking of getting her something from bath and body works except, she has a lot of that type of stuff.
We also have a budjet.. we are trying to not spend too much money, we want it to be like 10 or 15 dollars. What do you think i should get her that is around the price range of 10-15 dollars? If you give examples what stores can u find it in? (link)
This link should help you out. =)

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=518322


Sometimes i get so mad i want to crush something, curse, cry. How do i control all those things?
Ive tried everything:
Deep breaths
screaming into my pillow
Nothing seems to satisfy me more than like destroying something etcc...
(link)
This should help you out. =)

http://www.apa.org/topics/controlanger.html


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Ok well my bf's birthday is comming up and i have no idea what to get him and then i have to buy him something for christmas right after that.
he's not into anything really doesnt do anything so im in desperate NEED of HELP!!

please help me give me ideas. (link)
This should help you out. =)

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=518322


If i were to go on birth control now could i have sex by may? I heard that you cant have sex a certian times? when are those times? (link)
I don't know much about birth control, but I do know that you have to wait one full month before having sex, once you start the birth control. That's the only time I know of that you aren't supposed to have sex. Here's a link below, that may help you more.

http://www.plannedparenthood.org/birth-control-pregnancy/birth-control-4211.htm


okay so im a L1 moderator
and i went to the moderator FAQ page to find out how to move up to a L2 moderator, but it didnt say.
so my question is how do you become a L2 moderator

(sorry, i know this isnt an advice question)
(link)
Actually, it's right in the FAQ. Here's the link. =)

http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=69


ok at my school there are only freshmen and sophmores and im a sophmore. but theres this freshmen and i really like him. hes so cute and nice and funny. and idk if its weird for me to like him i mean is the age differance too much? i know some people date people who are more than a year apart but i mean with so few kids idk if it would be just too awkward. (link)
Absolutely not, I think it's totally find for the two of you to like each other. I don't see much of a difference in age between the two of you. Check out this link...

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=517826


Ok well my teacher at school said something really mean to me in class today in front of the whole class and I really don't appreciate it. I'm really senstivie.

As much as I want to say "you hurt my feelings!" I can't because that's just being..a sissy, looser?

And she made me cry in class TWICE now and I don't do anything bad!

Is there anything i can do or anything to make me feel bettter form her words? (link)
I recommend talking to your teacher after school, and letting her know that what she has said to you, has really hurt your feelings. I'm sure she'll understand and talk to you about it, if not, and she continues to say hurtful things to you - consider talking to your principal or a counselor about it. If she's saying things only to hurt your feelings, that's not what a teacher is supposed to do and she should be told about it.


i was considering going on birth control, and i was woundering what the side affects are, and what the pros and cons are of being on it...
thanks in advance (link)
Here you go. =)

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/birth-control/BI99999/PAGE=BI00032
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/birth-control/BI99999/PAGE=BI00005


14/f
been with my boyfriend alost 2 years- -
last year i got him custom shoes with his name.
now his birthdays coming up on december 13 and thats sort of close to christmas.
hes not into computers or sports, but he tells me he'll love anything i get him.
but i'd really love to have something custom for him or me make it. haha any ideass for his birthday && christmass? i need help a.s.a.p. =) (link)
This should help you out. =)

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=518322


who is nelly married to? and i he is marryed to sumone why are people saying that he used ot go oitu with ashanti and has he gone out with kelly rowland??? im so curios (link)
He isn't married, he's dating Ashanti. Here's some info from Wikipedia.

"Since mid-2003, Nelly has been allegedly dating Ashanti, but they has denied reports that they were engaged.They are still together."


I have a 3 year old cockapoo, 20 pounds, female
She keeps shivering and shaking, even if we keep her in a blankets and bedding. Her nose is fairly warm. Besides this, she's acting like herself. When she's playing and romping around she won't shiver. Do I need to take her to the vet? Thank you very much. (link)
I would call the vet and see what he/she has to say, as far as what it could be. She may be having seizures, that's what my dog has and she does the same thing. If it is seizures, there isn't anything you really do, but comfort her when she's having them and always hold her. It'll make it worse if you put her down, or leave her alone.




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