Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
Answers: 1503
Last Update: August 9, 2008
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What are some examples of being a booty call?
I know what it is and everything. But like what are signs && some examples that you are one besides the obvisous.
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Basically, if a boy calls you and wants you to hang out, and then immediately all he wants to do is make out or something, and doesn't want to talk to you or want anything to do with you emotionally, you're a booty call. If you and him are hanging out and you guys hook up and he never calls you or wants anything to do with you after that, you were probably just a booty call. I hope I helped.
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Omg im not fat at all but i wanna be 105 pounds tell me how im 5'2 13 yrs old nad 117 pds. (link)
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Tell you how? It just depends on how much you exercise and how much food you eat. If you're sitting there on your butt not being active and just eating alot of unhealthy foods your metabolism for one becomes slow and you can't dissolve/digest foods easily which might cause more weight and plus, just sitting there likeI said doesn't help me. If you want to lose weight, you need to start exercising and focusing on a more healthier and stricter diet like salads and fruits and vegtables and maybe allow yourself a snack every couple of days. I hope I helped.
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i think my friend is trying to make me jealous over stupid stuff. why would she do this? how do i just "brush it off"? (link)
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She's probably just trying to make you jealous because she's probably in reality jealous of YOU and wants you to instead be jealous of her and make you think she's the prettier, better one, etc. She's probably just having insecurities about herself. The best thing to just do is ignore her whenever she's trying to make you jealous, and just laugh it off and agree. I hope I helped.
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I have a friend, and she forgot to remind my other friend to unblock me on AOL, because he gets annoyed easily. Now I don't know if I should remind him to unblock her or not :| (link)
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Haha, it really depends. I talk to your other friend, and she sent him a text telling him she'll remind him ; but she'll probably forget. I think if he's really her friend and wants to talk to her, he can unblock her. Cause if he's just going to be all "ejfk;ew;few ?" and close a conversation if nobody talks for 2 seconds, then it's not that fun talking.
I HOPE I MOFOING HELPED YOU OUT.
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I like this guy, lets call him Tim. I talk to Tim all the time, and we're good friends. My friends all say he must like me because we talk a lot and he always makes an effort to talk to me everytime he sees me, and when I saw him make out with another girl, he explained the whole story to me. I really like him and want to go out with him, but I don't know if I should since I saw him make out with another girl. What should I do? (link)
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Well, I think you should grab him and make out with him, ABAHAHHA! :X
Sorry, I'm hyper.
I think you should keep talking to him more and more, and I think you should ask him to go to homecoming with you! :D
Just be like,"Hey, we've been talking alot and you're pretty cool, and I have nobody to go to homecoming with.. do you think you'd want to go with me?" So it's not incinuating boyfriend/girlfriend or exactly "just friends". He could take it whichever way he wanted to.
I SAY GO FOR IT, GIRLFRIEND!
I wonder who you are.
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Well my boyfriend and i love each other soo much, but we don't really get enough alone time... i'm busy with all the school clubs, and ice skating, and he is always busy with football. Well today was finally a day where we were both free, and that won't happen for another 2 weeks, and so when i asked him if he wanted to hang out, he said maybe... and just left it. I really want ot hang out with him, but i think he is doing something with his other friends... but i don't know what to do! i really want to see him! and i'm getting the impression that he doesn't want to hang out with me!! Please help!! (link)
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I would sit down or call him and have a talk with him, and let him know what's going on with your guys's relationship. Well, actually, what's NOT going on.
Let him know what you're feeling and that you're just sad that you guys never get to see eachother, and then today whenever you guys finally had a chance to, he didn't want to, and it made you feel like he was sort of blowing you off and didn't want to hang out with you.
Try and talk about your guys's schedules and whenever you guys get finished with ice skating and football and everything, and try and plan a time together then to see eachother and hang out. And make sure those plans are ahead of time so that you guys already know, and nothing else can get in the way of those plans.
But if you feel he's still not making an effort to see you or doesn't want to try and resolve it and talk it out, I think you might want to end it. What's the good in being in a relationship with him, if he's not even there to see you to have it? This sounds like a sort of stressful/worried relationship because you're always wanting to see him, and it's never working out. And you're young ; you shouldn't be having worried or stressed out relationships. You should be having fun and hanging out all the time.
I hope I helped.
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well it started at the end of fifth grade and me and this really cool guy, lets call him GREG, sat next to each other in assigned seats and became real good friends. and before you knew it i was in love with him, we would always laugh at each other and flirt. so then i find out a year later that he likes me in sixth grade because he told my bets friend. so before you knew it we were going out. and it was like we never talked to each other and really awkward. so he didnt like me anymore because i was so shy with him. so now in seventh grade we dont talk but hes always getting attention one way or another and looks at me afterwards... does it mean he likes me again or am i imagining things ?! (link)
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That could mean so many things. Guys just basically love attention first of all, as do girls, but it could also be like you said him wanting to grab your attention. Guys always are sending out so many signals to girls, and girls never know how to take them cause one thing a guy can do can mean a million possible things. If he's looking at you after he gets it, it sounds like he might to me! Why don't you try talking to him again? After he does something funny or witty or whatever to grab everyone's attention, just walk over and laugh at it and make a funny comment about it. This'll also make him happy to know he's making you laugh and everything. And then just start trying to make daily conversation. Ask him whats up, how's his day at school so far, did he catch that TV show last night, and just talk to him like you guys used to. Even if he doesn't like you just yet, you'd at least hopefully develop a friendship out of it. And who knows? You guys started out friends and then dated, so it could repeat itself again. :D I hope I helped.
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Ok... I have no idea what this goes under.. so I put home decorating.
My birthday is coming up soon in autumn.
I'm turning 14
There will be about 3-5 girls
I do not want a halloween party
I've already had these ideas so I do not want them again:
sleepovers
movie theaters
shopping
swimming
bowling
I live by a park
I do not need a budget
Has to be within 5-10 hours
ANY IDEAS???? THANK YOU! :D (link)
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Well, since you live by the park, that's perfect! There's so much stuff you can do at the park. Make it at night, and maybe go and buy a qouji ( i can't spell it - pronounced wee-gi ) board so you can "contact the dead" or try "light as a feather stiff as a board" where you guys put two fingers under someone and repeat it over and over from louder to soft and she should "float". Also, there's hide-and-go seek games and tag at night time can be alot of fun. There's that one tag game called "Ghost In The Graveyard", I believe.
Also, since you wouldn't have to worry about neighbors or anything, you could just play music and hang out and eat and tell stories. Also, maybe even if the parks has them or you can just go buy a cheap one, you could have a little baby bonfire pit and get all warm and even roast hot dogs and marshmellows.
There's also this awseome game I personally love to play ( I forget what it's called ) but there's two teams, and each one has their own "flag" ( towel, whatever ) and they are two differnet colors. Now you each have your own side and you run around and hide your teams flag. Then, you both go to the middle of your areas, and switch sides and run around trying to find the enemy's flag, the first one to cross the line seperating the two teams areas wins.
Also, maybe you can even buy a tent or if you already have one, and just spend the night at the park and hang out the whole night and just run around.
After awhile, you and your friends just sort of start being silly and making up your own weird things to do like gossip, or tell weird stories or dreams.
I hope I helped. :D
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My best friend that I met last year...wellll
we arn't that close anymore. Over the summer we were always busy so we couldn't see each other. Now in school she's always hanging out with her friends... I try to get included and talk to her... but it seems like she doesnt want to be around me. I tried talking to her, but she just acts all weird and pretends theres nothing wrong. I feel like we are seperating from each other and I really dont want that to happen. I need advice! (link)
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I would try and talk to her. Pull her over, or go up to her whenever she's alone ( or even call her after school or something where she'll most likely have nobody around her so her full attentions on you ), and ask her what's going on, and just let her know how you're feeling. And tell her even though she thinks nothing's wrong, there is something wrong, and it feels like she doesn't want anything to do with you anymore. If she cotinues pretending like there's nothing wrong and ignoring you, I would just forget her. Because if she doesn't want to spend time with you, there's no point in wasting your time with her. I hope I helped.
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what are the chances of getting pregnant the first time you have sex? are they less than if you've had sex before? (link)
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No matter if it's your first time, your 20th time, or even your 100th time, the chances of getting pregnant are always going to be the same. If you're worried about getting pregnant, make sure you're partner is going to use protection, and to ensure even more protection ( because a condom can always break ) get some birth control pills. But, if you and your partner are real worried about winding up pregnant, then I suggest not to have sex at all. But, that's just my personal opinion. Anyways. I hope I helped.
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Back in April I dated this guy and we were perfect for each other, what I thought. Although my only problem with him was that he couldnt commit and that he was inconsistant about us seeing eachother. He would text me all the time every day, and we'd see each other at schoool. But not much more than seeing each other a couple nights a week. After a few months, he had to move to wisconsin for a few months. i was devestated, and he was just kinda down about it. I tried everything to get a hold of him but it just seemed he'd rather not talk to me. so i tried to move on.
a month later i started to see someone new and i really care aobut him he's so sweet. but the guy from wisconsin came back and we've started to talk about the past and just talking and speaking of meeting up and just catching up on things. i still really care about him. and ive missed him.
my problem is, do i jeperdize what i know is consistant and will be there whenever i need him. or do i not. do i try back for guy number 1 or do i just stay happy and content with number 2. please help. i dont know what to do. (link)
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I would stay with guy number 2. You're happy with him, he's there for you, he wants to spend time with you, he's sweet.
You even said, guy number 1 wouldn't commit or anything, so if you went for him, the whole process would probably wind up just repeating itself. There's some guys out there who are great friends, and then once you start dating them, they can't commit, they're not nice, etc. But then if you're there friend again, they are great again. Some guys are kooky [sp], huh haha?
Anyways.
Even though you miss him and care about him, you can still miss him and care about him as a friend. It sounds to me like you guys would just have a better time being friends and hanging out. Plus, if you left your current boyfriend for him, that wouldn't be really fair to him, and you'd probably really hurt his feelings when he's done nothing to you.
I hope I helped.
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I'm doing a project on rules in schools, the good and the bad. However, I need rules that AREN'T just at my schoo or in my state.
I was wondering, what kind of dress codes do you guys have at your schools? Length of shorts, tank tops, ripped jeans?
Also, what are the rules on PDA? We get suspension if we're caught hugging.
Just any rules you may feel strongly about or just ones you guys totally love!
Thanks so much!
Female, 14.
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Like the person said below, at my school, Middle School rules and High School Rules are different. High School doesn't care as much as to what you wear and everything in school. You're allowed gum, to wear whatever, you're allowed to wear hats, etc. They also don't mind PDA as much either. I've seen a couple of couples kiss and the teachers were nearby and didn't get them into trouble.
But in Highschool, we're not allowed to have cameras without the permission of the principal, obviously no cellphones ( same goes for the Middle School ). And we're not allowed ipods either during class. We're allowed during lunch or outside of school, but that's it.
As for Middle School, our tank top straps need to be at least 2-3 fingers wide, and we're not allowed to wear anything that has marijuana symbols, playboy symbols, anything bad. PDA isn't really allowed either, but I've never seen any PDA in Middle School, I've seen hugging and they didn't get in trouble, so it's allowed. Skirts and shorts aren't really a problem, same with flip flops and ripped jeans. Obviously halter tops and tube tops are allowed in Middle School.
And during both schools, of course no smoking, no drugs, no alcohol, no pills, etc. If you're caught you get suspended or expelled. And obviously, no fighting either. It used to be just detention or suspension for awhile, but now sometimes, depending on how bad the fighting the police will come or you'll go to court.
I hope I helped.
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Stupid question, but...I'm 14, and my bf is 18. I was wondering if he could get in trouble for the age difference or anything. If so, what would happen? Do you think we should stay together? (link)
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If you're just dating him, then no, he shouldn't get into trouble at all. But if you two are going further in your relationship like having sex, then yes, it's illegal and he can get into trouble. Maybe even arrested. If you two ARE having sex, go to Google and type in your state and the age of consent and find out. Most states have it either 16 or 18. But if you are just worried about your parents finding out or some other adult and getting upset, then that's up to your parents ; I don't know them. You'd have to check with them and talk to them about it and see if they like him, possibly have them meet him. And as for staying together, if you like him and want to be with him, then stay together. I can't tell you to break up with him or not, that's your choice. I hope I helped. :)
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I need to know how to do my backhandspring!! my cheerleading coach said that she is not helping my kick my legs back! but shes says that i need to arch my back more!! she said that if i did then i could do it all by myself!! But i need to arch my back more? cn sumone help me!??! please!! (link)
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First of all, I would just try stretching out your back and making it more flexible. To do this, just do some backbends a couple of times for a little while and hold them.
Then, try going into a back bend and kicking your legs over, and then try to kick them over faster and faster each time and so you can land properly.
Then, maybe even try just doing it really quick by yourself. Make sure your friend or someone is there to help you though if you think you're going to tip over so they can catch you. Or they can also help you out at first and spot you.
It'll take some time, but you should be able to get it soon if you practice it and stretch enough.
I hope I helped.
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i di wat u told me too and he asked me out great huh but know im still deciding hes all like your prude you slow
but he is moving waaaaaaay too fast i cant call him because he donyt got a cell and his house phone is broken wat do i do know? (link)
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well, i'm not sure which question you are ( because i answer alot of questions each day ) but from what it sounds like, if he's calling you prude, you might not want to be with him. i mean, you can take a chance and everything, but if he's all "you're so prude, you're so prude", that means he might be wanting a girlfriend who is willing to do things with him, which you might not be ready for.
the next time you talk to him either on myspace, IM, in school, wherever just sit down and talk with him and let him know he's moving a little too fast for you. and tell him you're not prude, you just don't like to move too fast without gettign to know the person first and feel comfortable with them and everything.
but if he doesn't understand that, and keeps insisting you're just prude, then i wouldn't want to be with him if he's going to sit there and call you a name.
i hope i helped.
if i didn't, just IM me on my screename Mel Le Disko, and please remind me of the first question you typed so i can understand it better and help you out more.
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So I love my boyfriend very much but sometimes he's just always there. Latched on to me like a leech. Don't get me wrong.. I do love it that he pays attention to me soo much, but I do want to have some space sometime. But he seems to always be there all the time trying to pull me so close that our skin could be melted together. Please help me. I don't know how to tell him that I want space, without hurting his feelings.Btw we've been going out for almost 11 months. (link)
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I would just sit down and talk about it with him. If you guys have been dating for 11 months, you guys should be able to be truthful towards one another and understanding. Just tell him sometimes you need a little "me" time, and you need to hang out with the girls ; just like he probably wants to hang out with his guy friends every now and then. And let him know you're not saying you DON'T want to spend time with him, you love spending time with him and everything, it's just sometimes you want to kick back by yourself in your room, read a book or listen to music and just relax. His feelings might get a little hurt, but like I said, if you guys have been together for 11 months, I'm sure he'll understand and be fine. I hope I helped.
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What color bra is the least see through on tight/white shirts? Thanks!! (link)
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A nude colored ( well, the same skin tone as your skin colored ) bra, or a white one would probably be the best two choices. I hope I helped.
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is there any way to retrieve an IM that got Xed out by mistake ? (link)
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Unless you have DEAD AIM, which is a program where you can find old conversations that happened or you saved, then no. I hope I helped.
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ok im 13 and 5'8 1/2 is that to tall?
do you think im done growing yet?
my mom is around 5'5 and my dad is 6'2.
as you can tell im taller than my mom and prety close to my dad.i have a cousin she is 21 and 6'3 and everyone says that im going to be like her.i dont really want to be that tall.
PS.i dont want any smart ass remarks. (link)
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It is somewhat tall for a girl your age ( at least in my school ). I'm 15 and I am only 5'4". But it seems there's other people out there that share the same height as you and are the same age, so you're not alone. Plus, you're only 13 just like your peers, so the body stops developing and growing around 18, so alot of people could catch up with you sooner or later, and you won't seem so tall. You may continue to grow ; this may be it, but it's not for your friends. Trust me, they'll continue to grow over the years. You can't tell how tall you're going to be by one person in your family. You may not get their genetics, especially your cousin. Maybe your mother or father, of course. But usually cousins don't share the same genetics. I hope I helped.
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My old bestfriend did something unthinkable and I don't want to be her friend anymore; She did this in august and I didn't talk to her for a while and I said I don't want to fight anymore but your not my friend. But she doesn't get it. She keeps talking to me in school and stuff. How can I tell her I don't want to be her friend nicely? (link)
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Tell her in the way you think it's best and most comfortable for you: face to face, over the phone, write a letter, whichever. But just be like,"I'm sorry, but after you __(whatever happened)__, I just can't talk to you or anything without thinking of what happened, and it only reminds of how upset I got and everything, so I'm sorry, I don't want to be your friend. I'm not looking for a fight or anything, it's just after what happened, I can't be your friend again." ( or something like that ) so explain to her you're not TRYING to be mean or anything and you def. DON'T want to fight it's just you can't forgive her for what happened. I hope I helped.
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