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the past or the future
Back in April I dated this guy and we were perfect for each other, what I thought. Although my only problem with him was that he couldnt commit and that he was inconsistant about us seeing eachother. He would text me all the time every day, and we'd see each other at schoool. But not much more than seeing each other a couple nights a week. After a few months, he had to move to wisconsin for a few months. i was devestated, and he was just kinda down about it. I tried everything to get a hold of him but it just seemed he'd rather not talk to me. so i tried to move on.
a month later i started to see someone new and i really care aobut him he's so sweet. but the guy from wisconsin came back and we've started to talk about the past and just talking and speaking of meeting up and just catching up on things. i still really care about him. and ive missed him.
my problem is, do i jeperdize what i know is consistant and will be there whenever i need him. or do i not. do i try back for guy number 1 or do i just stay happy and content with number 2. please help. i dont know what to do.
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I would stay with guy number 2. You're happy with him, he's there for you, he wants to spend time with you, he's sweet.
You even said, guy number 1 wouldn't commit or anything, so if you went for him, the whole process would probably wind up just repeating itself. There's some guys out there who are great friends, and then once you start dating them, they can't commit, they're not nice, etc. But then if you're there friend again, they are great again. Some guys are kooky [sp], huh haha?
Anyways.
Even though you miss him and care about him, you can still miss him and care about him as a friend. It sounds to me like you guys would just have a better time being friends and hanging out. Plus, if you left your current boyfriend for him, that wouldn't be really fair to him, and you'd probably really hurt his feelings when he's done nothing to you.
I hope I helped.
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