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we are fading........
My best friend that I met last year...wellll
we arn't that close anymore. Over the summer we were always busy so we couldn't see each other. Now in school she's always hanging out with her friends... I try to get included and talk to her... but it seems like she doesnt want to be around me. I tried talking to her, but she just acts all weird and pretends theres nothing wrong. I feel like we are seperating from each other and I really dont want that to happen. I need advice!
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If you and her hung out a lot last year try to remember some of her favorite activities such as shopping or bowling. Then invite her to come and if she does try to kind of act like you used to and maybe she'll realize she really missed you.
I hope I helped! GOOD LUCK!!!
-Advice-Girl-28!
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I would try and talk to her. Pull her over, or go up to her whenever she's alone ( or even call her after school or something where she'll most likely have nobody around her so her full attentions on you ), and ask her what's going on, and just let her know how you're feeling. And tell her even though she thinks nothing's wrong, there is something wrong, and it feels like she doesn't want anything to do with you anymore. If she cotinues pretending like there's nothing wrong and ignoring you, I would just forget her. Because if she doesn't want to spend time with you, there's no point in wasting your time with her. I hope I helped.
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I have had the same problem before too. Friends like that aren't worth having if you're always going to be worried about how they're acting and what they're thinking. My advice is to talk it over with her and see her point of view. If that doesn't work, this friendship might not be worth having anymore. I know that it might be hard to let such a good friend go, but there will be another friend that's way better.
Good luck sweetie and I'm always here for you.;; xx
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Dear friend,
I had the same problem with a few of my friends. I had this one best friend, we became best friends in about February & in June school was out! School started back up & they wont talk to me anymore..What you do is you just go on with your life & if they are truly your friend they will apoligize or atleast talk to you again! best of luck,
Dale Face
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try planning stuff together, making a day to go to the movies, maybe plan a slumber party or things like that. call her more often
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