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No time together
Well my boyfriend and i love each other soo much, but we don't really get enough alone time... i'm busy with all the school clubs, and ice skating, and he is always busy with football. Well today was finally a day where we were both free, and that won't happen for another 2 weeks, and so when i asked him if he wanted to hang out, he said maybe... and just left it. I really want ot hang out with him, but i think he is doing something with his other friends... but i don't know what to do! i really want to see him! and i'm getting the impression that he doesn't want to hang out with me!! Please help!!
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I would sit down or call him and have a talk with him, and let him know what's going on with your guys's relationship. Well, actually, what's NOT going on.
Let him know what you're feeling and that you're just sad that you guys never get to see eachother, and then today whenever you guys finally had a chance to, he didn't want to, and it made you feel like he was sort of blowing you off and didn't want to hang out with you.
Try and talk about your guys's schedules and whenever you guys get finished with ice skating and football and everything, and try and plan a time together then to see eachother and hang out. And make sure those plans are ahead of time so that you guys already know, and nothing else can get in the way of those plans.
But if you feel he's still not making an effort to see you or doesn't want to try and resolve it and talk it out, I think you might want to end it. What's the good in being in a relationship with him, if he's not even there to see you to have it? This sounds like a sort of stressful/worried relationship because you're always wanting to see him, and it's never working out. And you're young ; you shouldn't be having worried or stressed out relationships. You should be having fun and hanging out all the time.
I hope I helped.
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This happens alot, especially in high school and beyond. Between clubs, sports, friends and work it may seem like you two have no time for each other. Something to consider: maybe you don't need to have a boyfriend right now. I know, it's not pleasant to think about, but if both of you have no free time, it's probably going to start putting a stress on your relationship. If you do choose to end it, make sure you tell him WHY, and not just "we're breaking up".
Of course, the best way to go would be to talk to him and try to figure out a way to spend more time together (weekends, nights, etc.) Plan a couple of dates well in advance and make sure that when you are together, all your focus is on him (and hopefully he'll do the same)
Good luck
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