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I don't want to be her friend.
My old bestfriend did something unthinkable and I don't want to be her friend anymore; She did this in august and I didn't talk to her for a while and I said I don't want to fight anymore but your not my friend. But she doesn't get it. She keeps talking to me in school and stuff. How can I tell her I don't want to be her friend nicely?
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I would just send her a note and say it nicely but tell her why! It is better to send her a note to argue with her. If she doesn't take it very well then you just have to say it in a way you know she will understand. I hope I helped!
Good Luck!!
-Advice-Girl-28
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Tell her in the way you think it's best and most comfortable for you: face to face, over the phone, write a letter, whichever. But just be like,"I'm sorry, but after you __(whatever happened)__, I just can't talk to you or anything without thinking of what happened, and it only reminds of how upset I got and everything, so I'm sorry, I don't want to be your friend. I'm not looking for a fight or anything, it's just after what happened, I can't be your friend again." ( or something like that ) so explain to her you're not TRYING to be mean or anything and you def. DON'T want to fight it's just you can't forgive her for what happened. I hope I helped.
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Luke Says:
Kick her in the ovaries.
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you tell her the situation that happend and tell her in a nice way that you dont wanna be friends anymore
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Well, a good way to put it nicely is to write a note to her...say like Im sorry but i just cant be your friend anymore...you did _______ and i just cannot forgive you for what you did, so i don't want to speak to you, look at you, or even say hi to you, so im sorry but we cant be friends anymore...at ALL...so please leave me alone....
i dunno that might work lol
i hope i helped a little
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ok, something like this is going on now between my friend right now.
if she invires you somewhere or to do something and you don't want to just come up with an excuse, then she will get the hint later, i wouldn't just go up to her and tell her you don't want to be friends anymore just hang out with other friends and don't do as much with her.
hope i helped, good luck.
massieblock.
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what a coincidence, this just happened to me!! what you need to do is just email her, that way she won't be able to sway you in the spare of the moment. you need to tell her what she did, why you're upset, and that u really can't be friends with her. make it really clear that she is the one who messed up and that you aren't going to forgive her anytime soon. tell her that she can't make any excuses and that you aren't going to talk to her because, frankly, you don't owe her that at all. just spill your guts to her, and stick with your decision!
♥ jen
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