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so my friend gave me a lil bag of farenheight diet pills (100% safe dnt worry) but i dnt know the dose i need. does ne1 know if i take 1 or 2, or one a day or one every 4 hours or what!?!?! i dnt want to overdose but i dnt want to use so little where it doesnt work. please help.

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I dont care if you gave me a 1, because I know that diet pills dont work, and can harm you, and I already warned you. So did many other people, I dont care farenheight is not a 100% safe. There are other chemicals in it, that arent listed on the bottle which effect your body in harmful ways.
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No diet pill is 100% safe.
Any diet pill has its own set of potiental side effects.

Hun, diet pills are no good, I suggest you dont use them. You can also become addicted, which can lead to bullimia and annorexia.

Side effects you can get from taking diet pills are that it increases your risk of a heart attac and cardiac arrest, it can cause irregular heart beat or disease, you can also get head aches, nausia, dizzynesss, blurried vision,insomnia, anxiety and depression, theres an endless list of things that could happen, for each person its different.

And if you do lose weight from them, the results probably wont show, and it wont stay long until you gain the weight back.

The only way to lose weight, is to do it the healthy and safe way, exercising, and eating healthy.

I know I didnt answer your question,
but that is beacuse in my opinion its not worth to harm your body with a diet pill.

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There is this tea that helps you lose weight very fast. But you have to order it. Does anyone know of a drink that I could drink instead of meals that would help me lose weight? Preferablly one that I could buy at a grocery store! Please don't say water!

To be honest, green tea is a tea that supposedly helps you lose weight.
But losing weight takes time, and has to be done in a healthy manner.

Substituting food for drinks, isnt a smart idea, your body needs a healthy intake of food.

You can buy green tea at local grocery stores,
but dont just drink that, drink it with a meal.

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im wondering if there are any good places where i can get free ringtones (on the internet)? like ringtones that recorded songs from the radio? im not talking about the little beepy ones; i would like the words and real music in it. my parents wont let me buy anymore ringtones for my phone so im trying to figure out where a good place i can get them for free is.



if you could hook me up with a site, that would be really great. also, would this be considered illegal?

giving fives to er'body who answers.

I'd be careful trying to find real ringtones for free, because a lot of websites tell you you get one free ringtone or something, or you get a free ringtone, but really they will charge you , but you wont know it, your parents are the ones who would find out.

I dont think its illegal, because they usually do end up charging you..


And when it says your phone isnt compatible, it means that it probably doesnt have the right stuff on it to play the type of music you want.

Like if you have a nextel those phones usally play "real tones" with the words on it and stuff really clearly, but on phones that arent compatible it will come out staticy and not very good.

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I want to burn some cds. I have no idea where to start and how to do it. Help?

First you have to have a cdburner on your computer,
if you do you can burn the cd on windows media player, or My dvd Le, or any music program that you know will let you burn then.

YOu have to have bought some music from itunes and have them saved to your computer, you put the cd in, and you go in the the burn program, then you add the songs you want, and press burn.

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hi. well i have three budgies and decided to start training them. so today, i put my hand in the cage and i was holding millet spray. and after a while, they came and sat on my hand and ate away, and i was overjoyed, thinking that they were trained in just a few minutes. but then i decided to stop for the day. after 20 minutes maybe, i went to the cage and put my hand on the cage, and they go from one perch to another. why did they forget that they can trust me? is this normal or not? please answer ill rate 5's :)

Oh it takes a while for them to trust, they were familiar with you for a little while, then they must've forgot.

Try feeding them everyday, at the same time, or taking them out to feed them a lot so they get familiar with you.
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i stupidly went to spicymint.com and put my number and they sent me with a text message w/ a password, but i decided not to get it anymore cause my mom will probably shoot me lol. so i didnt get a ringtone or anything and it says its $10 a month. will i still be charged, and is there any way i can cancel it?

There should be a number on the website, that you can call so you can cancel the bill, but if you didnt buy anything yet, I dont think you'll be charged =/
lol my mother would killl me tooo

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totally random question, I know..but howcome you can always tell when a note is written by a girl/boy, I mean it's pretty obvious when it's a girl, cause we write more..bubbly? I dont know, but you get it right..? Like howcome all girls write pretty similar, bubbly and compact, and..well..girly. Like us girls, we write in more "round" forms, and guys write more squared, straight..you know what I'm saying?

WHY is that??

Is it something in the brain we're born with?
Cause it obviously has something to do with gender..

Yeah in my opinion,
I agree its somethign with gender,
because girls, atleast I do, have this strive in me to always write neat, and try to,
boys dont really care about their writing,haha you kno whwa i mean?

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my one ex was really protective i was allowed to talk to any guy. well when that was over he was still protective everythime i talk to a guy he would get mad and say im going to punch him in his face.

my other ex i really like i though there was nothing wrong with the relationship but he ended it.

its been about 5 mounth since my last boyfriend i have guys ask me out but i said no because i was over my ex or i din't want anything to happen to him. now that ex who was over protective moved away now im dont know how to get back in to dating them i dont know if im ready to move on.

how should i get over it and move on??

Well if your ex who was overprotective, moved away, then thats a relief.

Its always hard to move on from guys that you really really cared about, but if things didnt work out, you really need to just give it time, when you feel like your ready to date again,
then you are ready.

Start dating again when you feel comfortable.

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my bestfriend & i sort of slowly drifted apaprt...we just haven't talked, except maybe briefly, in the past 2 or 3 months. we didn't fight, we just sort of stopped talking? should i confront her? i don't really want to be best friends with her anymore, but it seems like i tried to make more of an effort to keep the friendship then she did. should i confront her? if so what should i say? i just want to know WHAT happened, so it is not such a mystery anymore.

Wow, thats happened to me before too.
Its sorta like the game "Sims" you make really close family friends, except you have to keep talking to them or you'll slowly lose contact, you know?

Okay, if you were really close, and you feel thaty ou miss her, you should confront her, and tell her how you feel!, but if you dont want to be best friends with her anymore, you can just be friends, or just leave the situation as is.

What happened is you guys just probably lost interest in each other, and you both changed, and sometimes that happens and friendships surely change.

Hope that i helped.

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In my P.E. class, we're playing volleytennis and I'm not athletic at all. the problem is that I have a hard time hitting the ball over the net and I always screw up. so my partner who is always fustrated with me keeps complaining to everyone about me saying shes so stupid and lazy and she can't even play at all. No matter how much I try, I'll never get better. How should I deal with this?

Oh dont worry!!!
I can never hit the volley ball over the net either, geez i'm short, and my attempts are always embarassing!

Tell your partner, that your not good at this sport, and its not that your lazy or stupid, but you are just not athetic, and that you would appreciate her to not talk about you.

Remind her that you are trying your best, but volleyball isnt your shining star, you can work on it, and keep trying, dont give up.

Dont let that one person make you selfconfident, beacuse the fact that you are asking for advice about what to do with a girl that I'd name a Bully, you have a good head on your shoulders, and it sounds like you really dont want to hurt her, but your being hurt by her.

Dont let her get to you, we all have things we are good and not good at , and maybe you should remind this girl of that.

any more questoins, send them to my inbox, i'd behappy to help

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ive been going out with this boy for about 3 years now..im kinda getting bored and annoyed with him and i think i like someone else...im not sure how to tell my boyfriend that i dont want to be together without hurting him to much. i still care about him its just i just want to be friends and im not sure how to put it..could you tell me what to say without hurting him too badly??thanks

Wow, three years is a long time, I totally understand that you're getting bored with him, especially if the relationship isnt going anywhere right?

Well obviously you are right, if you think you could possibly like someone else, then your not supposed to be with the guy you are with.

Anyway you choose to tell your boyfriend, eh, well its going to hurt his feelings badly, especially since he is so emotionally attached to you, 3 years is quite a time to be with someone.

Okay, before I tell you what I would say to him, just think it over, three years, is a very long time, you should probably write down on a peice of paper, a list of PROS and CONS, and then weigh them, because if guys have been together this long, theres something speical about the relationship, you could be bored, because you havent tried anything new? But who knows..

So here is my advice for you hun,
Tell your boyfriend that you need to talk to him alone, and in the nicest possible way tell him how you feel, be honest, tell him that you realize that they have been together for quite a long time, and if he insists on not breaking up, tell him he has to prove to you that you two belong together, and if he cant, then , he cant.

But if you still really want to break up with him, theres no nice way to do that, someones feelings will always get hurt, theres no corner around that unfortunetly, but he might not want to be friends after you break up with him, which is understandable, because it will be hard for him to see you possibly dating another guy, he might not want to associate with you just beause you bring back so many memories, but give it time, time will sort things out, and if you guys werent ment to be, he'll know that too.

Hope I helped

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Im just afraid that i will lose him if i dont show that i care about him

You probably shouldnt be in a relationship right now if your not stable, you need to be emotionally healthy and ready for a relationship.

One of the main things in a relationship is showing your love, so remind him that you love him/care about him, and if you cant get close to him because you cant trust him, then its not a good relationship to be in.

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my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my boyfriend Jesse is 16 and he always sits in the front and I sit in the back,he never talks to me,and he told me he would call me yesterday,but never did what's going on?

Well .. the main thing in a relationship is communication, so it'd be best ifyou go talk to him and ask him whats up.

If you just sit there and dont do anything, I'm afraid your relationship could be going down hill, so talk to him as soon as possible :]

The best way is to confront him about the situation

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don`t yu hate it when yu like someone so much and yur absolutly sure that they are the one yu want to be with but they are either out of your league or not getting the picture.

i like this guy alot and I feel like i talk to him to much but if I want for him to send me a message then I wont get it?

what can I do to get him more interested.
I want him badly. Ive had alot of relationship problems and I havent trusted anyone in a long time. I want to be with him && i havent been with anyone in for ever

what can i do?

Well if you want someone and you think they arent in your league, that isnt saying very much about yourself.. deary, okay one thing is true, it is possible to annoy guys by talking to them too much, but then they get all confused if you stop talking to them a lot, you know?

If you like him that much, and you are sure he likes you, the best way ever is to just tell him, because other wise he wont know.

I dont reccomend you have a friend do it, because that would be more awkward for the boy and your friend as well, and anyways it shows you have confidence if you tell him yourself.


And even if it turns out that he doesnt like you like that, dont feel bad. I know it will hurt, but you will find someone else. Because I take it your in highschool right now? Trust me there will be lots of guys coming in and out of your life.

Also if you've had a lot of relationship problems, especially with trusting, you really need to open up, even if your heart gets broken, theres a perfect balance area, where you have to be emotionally healthy, you know you are emotionally healthy when you can express your feelings to others, but not be close enough to let every little thing they say hurt your feelings. Does that make sense?
But remember relationships take time, and effort, and time.. so dont rush things.

hope i helped.

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ok well this guy named peter is really stupid like everyday he either comes up to me and like makes a joke about me or squirts water at me or just plan looks at me from far away and even in class i sit in the back adn he sits in front and he totally just comes around from the back and goes the long way and while hes doing that he like either hits me or like stairs at me and like yeah so does he like me or is he someone i should stay away from and o yeah also he somehow got my number and now he calls me so yeah first does he like me and second wut should i say to him to get him to stop calling me and wut should i say for him to stop making fun of me so yeah answer those for me and i rate 5s soo helpp mee!!!=0

Its possible he likes you, and is trying to get your attention by annoying you/

Hmm, but he seems like a confused boy, because he shoudlnt go to this lengths to try to get your attention, because I have a feeling you dont like him like that, and that you think he is annnoyinggg the crap out of you right?

And if he calls you again, you need to be blunt, and tell him flat out that you really wish he would stop calling or you will tell the police, because he can be reported for harassment.

Hm and if he keeps teasing you and stuff like that let an adult know, because its basicly harassment too, and it needs to be delt with.,


Hope i helped,
any other questions,
send one to my inbox!

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just to warn you, this COULD be long... im really sorry but i DO need help so please keep reading and help me if you can.

i just got back from a cruise where i met a FANTASTIC boy. ...well thats what i thot. his name was matt. we had a mutual friend on the cruise named tyler that was closer friends with him but me and him were friends also.. well me and matt were like always together and we hooked up a few times on the cruise too.

when i got home, me and matt still talked on the phone and stuff but we live like 2 hours from eachother so we dont see eachother. well matt actually asked me to his prom and i told him i would ask my parents. so a couple days later i was talking to tyler online and i told tyler that matt asked me to his prom. tyler acted REALLY surprised so i asked him wutsup. and tyler said that matt didnt really like me.. he actually had a GIRLFRIEND while he was on the cruise.. and that matt just kinda considered me a bootycall. well, this is what tyler said. so i was obviously PISSED so i talked to matt about it, and he denied the whole thing telling me how great i am and how much he likes me.

so i told matt that i believe him, but its still in the back of my mind that tyler was telling the truth, just because i dunno why he would lie about something like that. and now im just really confused.. i dunno what to believe. any opinions? please help.

Well if you knew Tyler longer, and you trust Tyler - I would have believed him.

The only reason I could see Tyler lying is that he likes you? Maybe, and he doesnt want Matt to go to prom with you.

But if Matt does have a girlfriend and is only using you, I would definitly stop contact with him.

But what you really need to do is just sort the whole situation out, get together with matt and tyler, and talk about it then, becaus I'm sure Tyler would lie infront of Matt, and matt wouldnt lie in front of Tyler. make sense? Then things should probably get clarified.
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Okay hope i helped, if you have anymore questionsss, or need more advice! Put it in my inbox :]

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alright. I made a giant mistake. Well, i have a bf and i kinda like this other kid, and well i have been talking to him && i guess today he found out i had a bf, and which he NEVER asked me if i did. So, techniqually i am not lying. However, it hurt him and now he basically hates me and all. && i have talked to his mom and she is trying to talk to him.I feel sooo bad. I dont know what i should do. I already said sorry. and i know i did it to myself. I just feel so bad. Ughh.

Help!!

Thankss

Aww, well he's probably hurt because he feels like you led him on?

The best thing you can do it let him calm down, I know this sounds corny but maybe sending him a card, or a letter explaining what happened and how you feel about it, would make things better.

Even if he is still mad, which I guess he has a right to be, since when you guys talked, you most likely flirted , which lead him on to believe that maybe you'd go out.

I dont think getting his mom involved helped, he probably is embarssed, but just give the situation time.

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OMG!! I LIKED THIS GUY FOR THE LONGEST TIME. I DONT THINK HE KNOWS IT. WELL TODAY I CAME HOME FROM WORK AND GOT ONLINE. MY BEST FRIEND IMED ME AND SAID "PLEASE DONT GET MAD AT ME." i said i wouldnt and asked her what she needed to tell me. she sent me a conversation between her and the guy i like (bobby). she asked him who he liked and his exact words were "dont think im weird but i kinda sort of like you" OMG!!! I SERIOUSLY CRYED MY EYES OUT. my best friend has a boyfriend that i know she wouldnt leave but its just that i really really like bobby and it just sucks!!! what can i do??!?!?!?!?


PLEASE I WILL RATE 5'S!!!

Well if your friend has a boyfriend she woudlnt dump him for this guy like you said, but just beacuse he 'kinda sort of' likes her doesnt mean he doesnt like you. He could like you a lot more,you just need to let him know.

Just tell the guy you like that you like him, in a note, or online or something, I wouldnt suggest your friend telling him, since he confessed to sorta liking her.

And if all else fails, dont fret, because there are many other guys out there.

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15/f, so there is this guy friends that i like and i am pretty sure that he is interested in me, we talk all of the time and other stuff as well. the problem is that i'll put my head on his shoulder, and i have several times, and he will lean into it as well, but he won't ever initiate anything, like arm around the shoulder or holding hands. i am going to a movie and later next week a play, and also a ballgame with him and friends. is there anything that i can do then or now that lets him know that i am interested, and i want him to take some more initiative that wont be too awkward?

Well maybe at one of the places you go with him, grab his hand! haah hold handss

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i am 16 yrs male.ilive in india.according to the indian culture rajasthani people do not believe in love marriages.and they are totally aginst it.i had a girlfriend who is rajasthani.she loves me too.but her family came to know this secret relationship before the right time.for which she has to break up with me.but i know she still loves me.also she wanted me to hate her because she always used to think that her family won't let me marry her.and it will make me easy to forget her thinkin that she never loved me.the problem is that now she is saying that she does not loves me anymore. she thinks that her this attitude will make me hate her.this is for sure that i love her in a true sense and she loves me too in a more advanced and her love is more then i love her.one major problem is that i don't have any contact with her.she will not even call on my cellphone.please help me.i know i can be a succesful carreer holder in the future and also i can convince her family too. only if she gives this relationship a second chance and to make her believe that i am the only one for her.

Well if you are truly in love,
I'd show up at her door in a heart beat,
confess how you feel, probably in a calm manner (to her parents), convince them you really are in love with their daughter.

If she loves you, she'll accept you back,
and she'll let you talk to her.

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