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BIG MISTAKE
alright. I made a giant mistake. Well, i have a bf and i kinda like this other kid, and well i have been talking to him && i guess today he found out i had a bf, and which he NEVER asked me if i did. So, techniqually i am not lying. However, it hurt him and now he basically hates me and all. && i have talked to his mom and she is trying to talk to him.I feel sooo bad. I dont know what i should do. I already said sorry. and i know i did it to myself. I just feel so bad. Ughh.
Help!!
Thankss
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You should find the guy and explain everything to him. Tell him what happened and just make sure that you tell hium that you never meant to hurt him and that you feel really torn up inside.
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Aww, well he's probably hurt because he feels like you led him on?
The best thing you can do it let him calm down, I know this sounds corny but maybe sending him a card, or a letter explaining what happened and how you feel about it, would make things better.
Even if he is still mad, which I guess he has a right to be, since when you guys talked, you most likely flirted , which lead him on to believe that maybe you'd go out.
I dont think getting his mom involved helped, he probably is embarssed, but just give the situation time.
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I think the mistake you're making is the fact that you are worrying about this guy you're interested in and how he hates you, but yet you have a boyfriend already.
It's not fair to your boyfriend for you to be chasing this guy you like. If you want something more with this other guy, then you should end things with your boyfriend and be with him. I really don't see why this guy is acting mad because he found out you were with someone because he never asked. I guess you'll have to clear things up with him, but you should be doing something about your boyfriend first.
-TheTeenGirl
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Well, you have to decide which boy you like better. If you like your boyfriend better, then leave the other kid alone. Pretty much anything you say won't make him feel better as long as you are still involved with your boyfriend. He must have really liked you, or it wouldn't have made him mad.
If you like the boy is now hurt better, break up with your boyfriend and then give it some time, you may still be able to pick up the pieces.
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