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exes + potential boyfriend = very bad
This great guy & I have been dating for a few months now. He's popular and he's been with a few girls from our school. He has told me that 2 of his exes have mentioned me in a negative way. I've started to notice a few girls giving my dirty looks around school, which has never happened before. He says these girls are jealous but I'm getting upset by it. I'm starting to question if this potential relationship is worth it, even though he really makes me happy. Should I just forget about the girls or forget him?
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That really all depends on just how much you like this guy. If you think you have the potential to be with him for a long time, don't let a bunch of jealous girls ruin it for you. This relationship isn't about them, it's about you and him.
I can promise you now that whoever you date as you get older, there will almost always be someone who is jealous of you for dating them or for being lucky enough just to have found someone so special. The best thing you can do is to learn to deal with it now. Your relationship has nothing to do with them and there's no point letting it bother you.
If you really care about him, stick with it and see it through and it will be so much more worth it.
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Ex-gf's can be so mean! They are only targeting you because they must still like him and haven't moved on to their next bf. Tell him that it does bother you, but you hope that he will always come to you and ask if something is said about you, instead of believing the old gfs.
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yupp ;; that`s happened to me a couple times this year . his ex`s are most likely just jealous ;; like he said because they probably still like him ;; but don`t let that get in your way . and then his ex`s are probley telling their friends .. etc . if he makes you really happy ;; and you`re happy with him ,, just forget about the girls ;; it`s just you && him now .
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These girls aren't friends of yours, right? Then why in the world would you let them affect your decision? If you two like each other and your real friends don't have a problem with it, then go for it. Don't let people who have nothing to do with it get involved.
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If you really like the guy, why the heck would you let a few bitchy girls get in the way of that? They don't matter. In a couple years, you won't even remember they exist anyway. It's not like it's his fault that girls in high school are just catty by nature.
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