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hi i have a big problem. after i shave i get red bumps under my chin like on my neck and my face gets red( i have acne and it gets red) i hate it its so embarrassing. the acne is bad enough without the razor burn. how can i stop the razor burn and does any one have a fool proof deffinite working idea to get rid of acne? i tried everything and the same for the razor burn i need to get rid of both i feel im pretty attractive but under the acne and bumps. i need to get rid of both of them and yes i do use after shave.
how much attention do girls pay to acne? like do they look down at guys with it? or is it not such a big deal any more. im 16 11th grade in hs btw. ty (link)
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the red bumps might be either acne or ingrown hairs. I would use something for sensitive skin if I were you because one of my friends his face gets irritated after shaving so maybe look at a sensitive shaving cream for your face. What I would reccomend to you for face is Stridex or some facial wipes with Green Tea in them its really soothing for the face.
Real girls don't care about acne the girls that are insensitive do...if they judge you by having acne they must a problem. Be yourself!
Good luck!
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(We have talked the week b4..we are all kinda a group of friends)
So I like this guy that is my roommates cousin's friend..hah..And like last time he came over, I talked to everyone but him. I didn't do it on purpose, but when I like a guy and we are in a group...I tend to ignore him....I didnt say Hi, but I said bye.
That night he deleted me as his FB friend > (link)
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He most likely is hurt because you ignored him and you were talking to everyone else which was kind of rude. He probably felt there was no reason for you two to be friends on facebook.
If I were you I would apologize and try talking to him and getting to know him. Take it slow though don't rush into anything because you two are no on the best of terms.
Good luck!
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Ok i gave up on liking my friend hes a total immature jerk. I would date a normal guy from my school if they didnt think i was wierd (why do people judge by looks) you see im gothic and scene and my types are goths, emos, scenes and skatersThe question is does anyone know any teen date rooms or chat rooms to meet people? Man i feel stupid for asking this question. Am i desperate for trying to find a matching web site (link)
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I hate guys who play with girls and then pretend to be total jerks after it doesn't make any sense to me. It probably never will either!
People judge others because they're unhappy with themselves and lack something that you have and they want. People are stupid ignore them!
You're not desperate for looking for web sites...you just want to find someone who can connect with you and someone that shares the same interests as you. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that!
I would suggest going on Okcupid.com, its a place where you can take quizzies and they match you up! Be careful though!
Good luck :)
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what are some good pick up lines to get someone in bed. I am desperately needing to get some. haha (link)
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STAY AWAY FROM PICK UP LINES! They don't work and they never will they will just scare the girl away!
One guy said to me once...
"I may not be Fred Flinstone but I can make your bedrock!"
Just be yourself if the girl likes you she likes...don't be using pick up lines they're cheesy!
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my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 9 months. our conversations on the phone, text, and the computer are getting boring and pointless. theres nothing to talk about anymore. he barely contributes to the conversation and i'm always the conversation starter. i know we want to be together; in person, we're always doing one thing or another. its just that our conversations are so boring, and i just want to spice it up a bit.. i miss how it used to be awhile ago. any ideas? thanks a tonnnn, this would save a lot of fights, like right now, lol. (: (link)
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I can totally relate...my boyfriend and I went through a rough patch at one point. We've been together for almost a year and 7 months. Conversation can get really complicated because the "i love yous" & "i miss yous" can be the whole conversation. Well what I do is talk about current events or something in the news and get his idea on it. Or say something completely random...I talk to him like I would my best friend and he is my best friend anyway. We do all the "lovey dovey" stuff during the conversation as well and we talk about how our day was and such.
Good luck :)
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15, Chick, Sophmore.
One - Theres this guy I met on myspace who lives in the town next to me.
He REALLY likes me. Told me he's in love with me.
This was around May, we lost contact because of a fight then started talking again in like August.
He's currently in Navada so I can;t actually meet him yet.
I do like him alot. He's seventeen, really sweet. Someone what an anger problem but hopefully I can fix that. I would say yes if he asked me out once we met.
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Two - But, I just recently met this guy on Facebook on Monday who is a senior at my school. Also seventeen. Who kinda likes me? He calls me hot and says things about wants to fuck me - sorry, but I think it helps in detail.
Anyway, He told me he likes this other girl? And I see him and his ex first in the halls?
I think he might ask me out. I would say yes.
But, I'm thinking "Hello, player?" Maybe he doesnt act that way in a relationship?
We havent offically met yet because I try to avoid him, he came off creepy, but now I'm okay with him. I'm ready to actually meet him, kinda, but I'll deal.
I just don't wanna get hurt or pushed into doing things I don;t want to do with him.
Also, he's going away for Marines after High School, what if we actually last and I get too attached?
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I fear how this situation will turn out once boy one finds out about boy two. He might try to start something.
I don;t know how boy two would react to the existance of boy one. Not sure how he really feels about me too much. I know he's at least a bit interested, but, once again, player?
Opinions on both guys? Who do you think would make a better boyfriend?
What should I do for boy one and the anger?
What about boy two and the Marines thing?
What should I do if they both end up asking me out?
I do not want to hurt boy one, I've done that in the past and I never want to do it again. But I'm afraid it'll happen again. How can I prevent this? (link)
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I'm going to be honest and say neither.
For one the guy from Nevada he doesn't know you and just having a relationship based on being online is somewhat unrealistic...he may act one way online and in person another way. I have been in that situation where the guy is so adorable online tells you everything you want to hear and when you meet in person the guy acts like a total jerk who thinks he knows everything. My opinion on online reltionships is that dating someone online for a long period of time is unrealisitic and almost a fictious relationship.
The senior at your school sounds like a player! He sounds like he can't be trusted and if he is planning on dating you he shouldn't talking about "f-ing" you its inapropriate. You want a guy who is caring and you can talk to. You want to be able to base your relationship not just on physical things which is what this guy sounds like he wants to do.
I would end it with both of them and find a guy who is decent and treats you the way every girl should be treated.
Good Luck!
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14/F
Okay, so I turn in all my assignments and I pay attention in class and ask questions.
The lowest grade in my school is an E, the highest is an A.
I have an E in Algebra, even after I've tried! It seems after every time I try, I fail! Any ideas on what to do?
I gave up on this last year and the year before, but I don't want to do it again. I need help.
P.S I really don't want to sit alone in a room with my teacher either. o-o; I get super nervous a lot. (link)
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A lot of people fall into the category of hating math (I am one of those people). Thats weird that lowest grade is an E.
1) Talk to your teacher
2) Get a tutor or ask your parents for help
My best friend has failed a math class a numereous amount of times...but you know what he doesn't give up! I admire him for that...so the best advice of all that I can give you is:
DON'T GIVE UP!
:)
Good luck and be positive!
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there's alot of girls at school that dont like me and think im a slut . and i barely have any friends that are girls, should i care? or should i just keep living my life the way i do? people tell me its just because their jealous, cause i dont really give them reasons to think that way of me . (link)
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Some girls are really catty! I only have about three girlfriends that I really trust in my life. It sucks because I wish I had more...but you know I have a lot of guy friends who care about me...and that weighs itself out. Girls like to talk don't even listen to the drama....its stupid and its a way for them to get you to react. Don't though. Don't feed into them ignore them and eventually they'll learn that they NEED to grow up!
Here's a great youtube video you should watch:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WF_10F7eYRE&feature=channel_page
Live your life the way you want to!
:)
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Ok so.. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months. We're in love and stuff, so far everything is going good.. sometimes we fight because i get jealous or mad. because of girls.. (im kinda insecure) and have little trust, even though he tells me that he only wants me etc.
But yeaaa i love him to death, i would do anything for him. I literally wanna be with him forver :]
I need to know how to trust him & not be jealous.. And how to make this last forver!
Please && Thank you (link)
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I understand you totally thats how I feel about my boyfriend. We have been together for a year and we're absolutely in love and crazy about each other. We have our moments and we fight as well...it sucks when we do!
For the jealous you need to come to terms with the fact that he is with you and that means something the other girls mean nothing.
Boys at times are careless so I don't blame you for getting mad...I get mad a lot at my boyfriend. Its totally normal.
There really is no way or steps to keep him "forever". You may imagine your future with him or you want him in your life...but its never really a guarantee things happen for a reason. Not to say you guys will break but maybe something else will come up. Don't let him get in the middle of you career moves and plans for your future. Never let a guys stop you from goals or what have you.
Just keep up what you're doing...he's still with you for a reason!
:)
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My dad just recently told me he is gay. He hasnt told anyone his whole life accept for me. This is really difficult for me and I was wondering where I could find people to help support me through this hard and confusing time. (link)
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Well I would say go talk to someone...if your in school go talk to a guidance counselor or someone you trust. Talking about it helps...heck talk to your dad let him know how you feel or maybe find a group or something in your community. good luck!
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K so I'm 15/f frshman and HS and I've never had a bf, and only 1 guy that I know that's actualy ever liked me. All my friends have had/have bf's and I haven't, I've never kissed anyone either, and my bestfriend just told me that she had sex for the first time, and I just feel like I'm a total freak because I've never had a bf. Is that normal?? (link)
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Of course it is. My boyfriend didn't get a girlfriend until he was nineteen. (ME :) ) Its different for everyone. Just because your friends have them doesn't mean you do as well. It may seem like your left out...believe me I know how you feel...when my friend got a boyfriend in high school I thought I was behind. Heck a lot of my friends in high school did...come to find out though after graduation they either all have kids or are pregnant and then I realize I'm glad I found my boyfriend now. The point is don't rush it...it will happen before you know it!
:)
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The guy I'm in love with just wants me for sex. How do I get over him? I have to see him everyday.. (link)
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Its simple you deserve better and remember that you want someone to be with you not just for sex. Sex is something extra never let anyone tell you otherwise. The dude sounds like a loser...look for an actual old fashioned guy!
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18/f. there is this guy i really have feelings for. he's a good friend of mine but there's always ONE problem. i always seem like i have to ask him to hangout, well if its just going to be us two. he will hint at it like oh so what are you doing tonight and lets say i will be like oh well i dont know yet, what about you? and he'll be like i don't know either. and then it's kind of like okay well you should come over and watch a movie with me! but it's always like that, WHY! or he'll be like what are you doing and then i'll ask him and he'll be like nothin, sitting at home. he will never be like hey lets hangout! why do you think this is it? i don't like it at alll, because what if one time he's not hinting that he wants to hang out and i ask him and he willl be like oh no, i'm going to do this? and then i'll feel a little dumb. but then i always feel like i don't want to miss the opportunity to see him so i wouldn't want to be like oh okay, after he just said he didnt know what he was doing or if he wasnt doing anything then. understand where i'm coming from? is this a sign, good or bad of SOMETHING? ugh i just dont know. (link)
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Guys tend to play dumb just because they do. Some guys even play the mind game. If he really wanted to hang out with you he would...don't go after that guy he's not worth it. It may seem hard right now but later on you'll realize how much better off you are without him! Or you could always just ask why he does that to you?
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I have a problem me and my boyfriend we great together and all but when we alone it's also great but then he keeps asking me what now?? i mean what now, is he getting bored of me because when we were at a party he told me he loves me and opened up to me, now it's like over the phone umh bye not anything sweet to be said, am i losing it or what...like the other night he had a party at his house and i was kind of tipsy he just wanted to get in my pants and i wasn't myself because even my best friend told me i look more inlove then him i have no cooking clue what to do so please help me out...thanks (inlove with her boyfriend but not getting love inreturn) (link)
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Well at this point you need to talk to him about it. He needs to know how you're feeling and then go from there! Boys don't tend to show emotion or anything so just tell him you need to talk and see what the deal is.
Hope everything works out for you two!
Bess
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I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 19. We're both in college but live at home. We've recently been having issues with each others parents and we don't hang out alot at my house becuase my parents are very religious my mom always trys to peak in on us which gets annoying so we usually are at his house. Well, his parents, I feel, have started to have a slight issue wiht me and I don't feel comfortable at his house anymore. So I was wondering if you guys knew of things to do/go while we're together. I mean i know we can go out and such but that gets expensive. (link)
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I would talk to both your parents and his parents...have a talk with them let them know that you deserve privacy and that they need to respect that. Just have a talk with parents and let them know that everything is fine. Parents tend to be a bit overprotective but its only because they care and want the best for you. Its true! My mom when I first brought my boyfriend home didn't even want me to step foot in my room...I told her she needed to trust me and know that I will make the right decisions and such. It gave her comfort that I was planning on being careful and that I was not going to in anyway disrespect her.
I mean if you guys are just chilling holding hands and kissing I don't see anything wrong with that.
Hope it all works out!
-Bess
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I'm a freshman in college, and my first semester is coming to a close soon. My major right now is Biomedical Science, which is going to lead me to Physical Therapy for grad school (because my university doesn't offer a physical therpy program).
The thing is- I'm not good at science. I can grasp concepts, but I can never get the details. I do want to be a physical therapist, but I just don't think I can handle all the science classes. I'm currently squeaking by my chemistry and biology classes with C's, which is jsut uncceptable. I am much better at English/reading type stuff. English classes are a breeze for me. So, I'm thinking about changing my major/career.
I think I'd like Journalism or something related to it. I'm good at English and writing, and I really like using computers. I am also really good with people, and making a lot of money is important to me (as shallow or whatever as that may sound, but it is). So, with all that in mind, does anyone know what kind of major/career would be good for me? Any advice is helpful. (link)
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Well...
1) If you're unhappy with your major then definitely switch talk to your advisor though!
2) If you are great with English why not go as an English major? I'm a communications major, I find it both hard and easy because there are many classes envolving english but some classes are about a lot of technologies and such.
3) Journalism/ Communication careers honestly don't make as much money as you think...first you start off serving coffee and then work your way up. So if you want a career with good money you should look elsewhere.
4) Talk to your advisor about this and seek your options she/ or he maybe able to point you in the right direction.
Good Luck!
-Bess
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for people who've been in past relationships or are in relationships:
how long did it take for the guy to say "Ilove you"? and what things did he do right before?i've been dating this guy for almost 4 months and he told me in the beginning that he doesnt say unless he really means it and i agreed with him but now im really feeling it and i know he really likes me but i dont want to be the first to say it. i know all relationships are different but i just want an idea how other relationships went.
16/f thanks. (link)
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For my boyfriend it only took a month...but we were friends for 5 months before we started dating. I was his first kiss and girlfriend but dating my best friend is wicked awesome! If you feel something go with the feeling don't be scared just say it! If he feels the same he'll probably say it too...but if you need to get it off your chest then go ahead and say it girl!
Good luck
-Bess
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okay well me and this guy had a "thing" for like two months and we both really liked eachother.
he is a huge jock and all the girls want him.
we went on a "date" on a friday and that night he texted me and said he had a really great time and he wanted to hang out saturday.
sunday he stopped by my house and ended up meeting my parents.
at school monday he was all saying hi and everything then that night he didnt text me and he usually ALWAAYS does.
then tuesday i hear that he thinks i'm to "shy" so i text him saying you think i'm too shy thats why you randomly stop talking to me? and then he says "not that your shy its just that we have two different personalities and that on our date it seemed like you (me) didnt want to be there.." and remember friday night he said he had a lot of fun on our date.
then wednesday i hear from people that he kissed another girl when he drove her home monday after school. (later i found out that she kissed him while he was driving "and he couldnt do anything about it")
now he and that girl are going out.. shes a freshmen and we are both sophomores. she is really short and he has to like go on his knees to kiss him. and he used to always tell everyone i was the most beautiful girl he has ever seen.
he ignores me now, and doesnt even talk to me.
i texted him one day asking why and he said that he thought it would be awkward and i would be mad and i said i really wasnt and i just want to be friends.
For one day he said hi to me in the hallway but now he STILL ignores me and doesnt even aknowledge i'm a living person.
and for some reason i still like him... its been 3 months since that happened.
why do i still like him? it kills me.
i'm a sophomore (16)/girl (link)
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Let him go he's nothing but a little immature boy. If he can't tell you to your face that he just wants to be friends thats childish. As a friend...I would question him I mean he couldn't tell you the truth one time what makes you think hew won't do it again. You want a friend you can talk to and what he has proven is he is NOT. Its hard to really know if you can trust him either.
Good Luck!
Bess
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We've been dating for about a month now, and I really really like him. I may even love him. We were friends before hand for about a year, so we're already pretty close. We've talked about having sex, and we were planning on doing it on his birthday. I really wanted him, and he wanted me, but, something didn't feel right, so I told him we should wait a little longer. He kept on going, so finally, I just walked out and went home. It's been 3 days since then, and he's still pretty mad. Anyon know why? Or what I should do? (link)
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hey i can totally relate to you...i'm dating my best friend...we were friends before we started dating. Having sex is a big thing and it should be taken lightly. If you didn't feel right about it don't ever regret what you did...sex is not something you can force or make happen. It just does...when the moment is right you'll know. I know it sounds cliche but its true...plus whats the rush...a relationship shouldn't just be based on the physical aspect. As far as I'm concerned he's in the wrong here...but at the same time he may be feeling hurt and disappointed because of the plans. I would sit down and talk to him and let him know whats up. Tell him how you feel and see what he says...but make sure you don't do whatever you don't want to.
good luck!
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i want to make a slideshow for my friends before i leave for college. i want it to have music in the background with pictures of me and them. how do i go about doing this? (link)
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i have made many videos of me and my friends on:
www.onetruemedia.com
its really cool! have fun!
-Bess
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