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me and my boyfriend got into a fight
We've been dating for about a month now, and I really really like him. I may even love him. We were friends before hand for about a year, so we're already pretty close. We've talked about having sex, and we were planning on doing it on his birthday. I really wanted him, and he wanted me, but, something didn't feel right, so I told him we should wait a little longer. He kept on going, so finally, I just walked out and went home. It's been 3 days since then, and he's still pretty mad. Anyon know why? Or what I should do?
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I think your boyfriend is mad because you prosponed when to have sex with him. that is why I think. A lot of times, planning intimate things like sex with each other is weird. It gives you that awkward feeling. I think its best that you guys just go with the flow. Whatever happens happens. Let things happen naturally, that way you know that you are for sure ready. Your boyfriend should be willing to wait for whenever you are ready if he's carring. He shouldn't be mad for that long. I would talk to him, or write him telling him that he only wants me for sex. Even if that is not the case, it will make it so that you guys can get ur issue fixed fast. He will feel really bad that you think that,maybe, and then he will call you. I've done that before, and it worked with my boyfriend. Anyways....i hope this helps!
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hey i can totally relate to you...i'm dating my best friend...we were friends before we started dating. Having sex is a big thing and it should be taken lightly. If you didn't feel right about it don't ever regret what you did...sex is not something you can force or make happen. It just does...when the moment is right you'll know. I know it sounds cliche but its true...plus whats the rush...a relationship shouldn't just be based on the physical aspect. As far as I'm concerned he's in the wrong here...but at the same time he may be feeling hurt and disappointed because of the plans. I would sit down and talk to him and let him know whats up. Tell him how you feel and see what he says...but make sure you don't do whatever you don't want to.
good luck!
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