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Situations like these suck.
15, Chick, Sophmore.
One - Theres this guy I met on myspace who lives in the town next to me.
He REALLY likes me. Told me he's in love with me.
This was around May, we lost contact because of a fight then started talking again in like August.
He's currently in Navada so I can;t actually meet him yet.
I do like him alot. He's seventeen, really sweet. Someone what an anger problem but hopefully I can fix that. I would say yes if he asked me out once we met.
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Two - But, I just recently met this guy on Facebook on Monday who is a senior at my school. Also seventeen. Who kinda likes me? He calls me hot and says things about wants to fuck me - sorry, but I think it helps in detail.
Anyway, He told me he likes this other girl? And I see him and his ex first in the halls?
I think he might ask me out. I would say yes.
But, I'm thinking "Hello, player?" Maybe he doesnt act that way in a relationship?
We havent offically met yet because I try to avoid him, he came off creepy, but now I'm okay with him. I'm ready to actually meet him, kinda, but I'll deal.
I just don't wanna get hurt or pushed into doing things I don;t want to do with him.
Also, he's going away for Marines after High School, what if we actually last and I get too attached?
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I fear how this situation will turn out once boy one finds out about boy two. He might try to start something.
I don;t know how boy two would react to the existance of boy one. Not sure how he really feels about me too much. I know he's at least a bit interested, but, once again, player?
Opinions on both guys? Who do you think would make a better boyfriend?
What should I do for boy one and the anger?
What about boy two and the Marines thing?
What should I do if they both end up asking me out?
I do not want to hurt boy one, I've done that in the past and I never want to do it again. But I'm afraid it'll happen again. How can I prevent this?
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An online relationship isn't that bad, though you have to deal with a lot of pain. I'm in one now, and we really didn't meet until this March. So far we've together over a year. But it is really painful.
Anyways The guy in Nevada sounds a whole lot more efficiant than the the other one. If a guy tells you right up front that they think you're hot and they want to fuck you. Then that is the only thing they want. I've been there so many timees it ain't even funny. The anger problem the Nevada guy has probably would change if he loved you enough. The only way to really find out is to go out with him. My boyfriend now has an anger problem and he's cooled down a whole since last year.
The one that wants to go to the Marines, if you did date him and he turned about to be great then if you didn't want him to go over then he would listen to you. Like mine did, mine wanted to join the Navy but I told him that he wouldn't have anyone to come back to if he did.
Hope this helps.
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I'm going to be honest and say neither.
For one the guy from Nevada he doesn't know you and just having a relationship based on being online is somewhat unrealistic...he may act one way online and in person another way. I have been in that situation where the guy is so adorable online tells you everything you want to hear and when you meet in person the guy acts like a total jerk who thinks he knows everything. My opinion on online reltionships is that dating someone online for a long period of time is unrealisitic and almost a fictious relationship.
The senior at your school sounds like a player! He sounds like he can't be trusted and if he is planning on dating you he shouldn't talking about "f-ing" you its inapropriate. You want a guy who is caring and you can talk to. You want to be able to base your relationship not just on physical things which is what this guy sounds like he wants to do.
I would end it with both of them and find a guy who is decent and treats you the way every girl should be treated.
Good Luck!
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