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nervous
so the guy i like its almost as if i freeze up in front of him i get nervous like i dont know how to act and im really shy.. i dont want to act like this..... what should i do
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some guys even think its cute when a girl fumbles in front of them, it could even make him like you more, just remember to stay confident, he'll notice that and like it!
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hey there,
okay let me firstly say your definately not the first girl to get like this around a guy! lol we almost all do at one stage or another its a given.
a million questions and thoughts go racing through your haed like omg there he is relax dont say something stupid what will i do..etc etc.
the main thing you need to do is take a step back and relax gather your thoughts and think of him as any one of your other friends,talk to him as you would them stike up a convirsation as daunting and nerve racking as it seems it could pay off big time in the long run think about it.
sometimes we need to take theese type of risks and guys love it when a girl shows intrest in them and vice versa so all i can really tell you is to shake off the nerves bit by bit,they well start to fade as you pluck up the courage to say a little more to him each day and your confidence grows,add him on myspace/facebook or whatever and get talking then maybe? it makes it easier in person.
I hope I made sense and helped in someway good luck and be yourself.
much <3
Jess 16/f
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