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Just another boy problem.
15, Chick, Sophmore
There's this guy who I met last year on Facebook, but we went to school together, same grade. We started texting then finally met in school after a few months cause I tried to avoid him, I was afraid of meeting him because over the time of texting he fell for me.
Me, never being in a dead on serious relationship, just little ones, was frightened of the commitment.
We met, but at this point we had kinda stopped talking.
But then I realize I've started to really like him. I loved how he talked to me and how he called me beautiful every hour. But, the chance was gone. So was he.
New school year, we see eachother.
It's like he refuses to talk to me because I somewhat rejected him.
He.got.so.GORGEOUS. over the summer.
We make eye contact, he contuines to stare at me when we pass in the halls.
Last week he just started Facebooking my best friend and he asked her to go to the movies with him this Friday, of course I got jealous and told her I wasnt comfortable with it.
She told me she was sorry, she would have said no if she knew. Throught the week after he asked her out Sunday, they didn;t talk AT ALL.
Just the other day, he kept staring while I kept flicking my eyes to his, then infront of me, his, front, his, front. He would NOT break the eye contact. Please refer to part - and this was around Thursday, I was with the girl he asked to the movies, he didn't even look at her.
But, Friday comes along, he cancels due to 'sports' - you-d think he knew he had a game/practice that week, right?
So I started thinking, maybe he's trying to make me jealous?
We have class across from eachother one period, he sometimes stares at me from his room.
My friends catch him staring when I don't.
Only he just like flat out refuses to talk to me! Even I Facebook.
I'd like to confront him about this, but I don't wanna make things akward when we see eachother in school if it turns out bad.
Yes, I do like him. I'd like to get back to the way we used to be, maybe a bit more.
But, what do you think? Your opinions on the matter?
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Should I Facebook confront him? - In person is out of the question.
Do you think he might have been trying to make me jealous?
What to you think about the staring? - Not to sound conceided, but I know I have gotten alot prettier over the summer, though, so has he. Lol.
This subject has been bothering me for quite awhile. And I'd really like to get it settled.
Forgive the spelling mistakes.
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accept that you made a mistake. but do not say to him sorry until you and him can communicate again. He misses you and would like to talk again hes just afraid and thats the truth he doesnt know how you are...he thought he did but you gave him the wrong idea...You are going to have to make a move not a strong one but slowly...if he finds someone else let it go..its ok you havent lost its the way we learn how to make decisions in life. Always be happy for the choce he makes be his friend than his foe...friends fall in love too. Hope this helps
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Girl, just ask him what's up. If he is feeling rejected, why would he approach you first? No one likes rejection. Also, about asking your friend out - yes I think that was a jealous move to upset you and get your attention. If you don't wanna talk face to face - write a note - or make a song on a cd that relates to your feelings or the actions.
If you choose to write him - explain everything you have said in your question here because ultimately he is the one who can answer with fact - we are only answering from thought. If you like him, let him know you like him. Be sure to discuss it with your friend.. never let a guy come in between your friendships. Good luck
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