18/f. there is this guy i really have feelings for. he's a good friend of mine but there's always ONE problem. i always seem like i have to ask him to hangout, well if its just going to be us two. he will hint at it like oh so what are you doing tonight and lets say i will be like oh well i dont know yet, what about you? and he'll be like i don't know either. and then it's kind of like okay well you should come over and watch a movie with me! but it's always like that, WHY! or he'll be like what are you doing and then i'll ask him and he'll be like nothin, sitting at home. he will never be like hey lets hangout! why do you think this is it? i don't like it at alll, because what if one time he's not hinting that he wants to hang out and i ask him and he willl be like oh no, i'm going to do this? and then i'll feel a little dumb. but then i always feel like i don't want to miss the opportunity to see him so i wouldn't want to be like oh okay, after he just said he didnt know what he was doing or if he wasnt doing anything then. understand where i'm coming from? is this a sign, good or bad of SOMETHING? ugh i just dont know.
AdviceMistress answered Monday February 16 2009, 1:29 pm: Guys tend to play dumb just because they do. Some guys even play the mind game. If he really wanted to hang out with you he would...don't go after that guy he's not worth it. It may seem hard right now but later on you'll realize how much better off you are without him! Or you could always just ask why he does that to you? [ AdviceMistress's advice column | Ask AdviceMistress A Question ]
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