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there's alot of girls at school that dont like me and think im a slut . and i barely have any friends that are girls, should i care? or should i just keep living my life the way i do? people tell me its just because their jealous, cause i dont really give them reasons to think that way of me .
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I don't think you should care too much. People are going to talk shit no matter what you do so keep doing what makes you happy. Fuck opinions.
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Girl let me tell you that happens to me too.. i got maybe 5 girl friends in the entire school and i dont even have guy friends. i get called a hoe and a slut all day every day but heres the thing.. ive been with the same guy for 5 years!! yup long time i know. but dont even worry about it cause in the long run your gonna be really successful and they gonna be the strippers
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Some girls are really catty! I only have about three girlfriends that I really trust in my life. It sucks because I wish I had more...but you know I have a lot of guy friends who care about me...and that weighs itself out. Girls like to talk don't even listen to the drama....its stupid and its a way for them to get you to react. Don't though. Don't feed into them ignore them and eventually they'll learn that they NEED to grow up!
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Live your life the way you want to!
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I would just ignore them. Most of them have low self-esteem more than likely and need too belittle other people to make them feel good about them selves. Its ok I had that problem too its common in young teens they will get over it one day. You should just go one and be happy with who you TRULY are.
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honestly; ignore all the bull people say. you know what i do when someone doesn't like me? i have even MORE fun-because i know they're missing out. if they just want to talk about people,why do you want friends like that anyways? you can just be like "yuhp,i'm SUUUCHH a slut!" instead of getting mad,laugh it off. that prooves they can't break you. if your around them and they're talking about you-honestly-just laugh. it'll get them SO mad, because they can't do anything about you NOT caring what they think.don't even think about them,or even hate them.hayytin's such a waste of time :D. people who try to ruin someone are horrible,they just want to make you feel bad. so if you don't feel bad,they can't break you and they'll move on. just shrug it off and stay with people who you have fun with. eventually people will realize you're actually a chill girl and other people will start getting to know you. the most importent thing to do is to act like it doesn't affect you-you just gotta laugh it off-seriously. just think of how ridiculous it is,don't feed the fire by talking about them back-it's not worth it. you know who you are, so who cares what they think?!
hahah sorry i kinda ranted on this,it's happened to me before,and this is how i got through it :].good luck;and don't worry-it wont last forever!
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Girl, I have the exact same problem! Don't worry about those little girls! They need to grow up!
I just don't even care anymore of what they think of me, I ignore them!
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