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Member Since: April 3, 2009
Answers: 7
Last Update: April 3, 2009
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i don't get out much, and i'm pretty anti social..
for some reason i have sexual thoughts about kids, i won't do anything about it and i hate myself 4 it...
i'm so confused cause i don't consider myself a petifile..but it can't be normal
it dosen't happen all the time, just occassionly
like i havn't thought about it 4 a while..what is wrong with me? (link)
I get that too!
Like when I go to sleep, I will start thinking about me having sex with this really hottt boy at my school and I get thoughts of us like really getting it on dirrrty! LOL
I don't know what it is either, but who cares.
I guess it's just how our minds work.


I'm a girl in my early 20s.

I've suffered from depression and anxiety my whole life, but it really came to a head between 2006 and early 2008. I progressed from getting nervous in class, to being scared to go out, to being terrified of going to the grocery store across the road, to being unable to leave my house or even my room.

I failed out of school twice in this time. I lost contact with all but a small handful of my friends, and nearly lost even my family and my fiance. Fortunately, I was able to get through this alive after being hospitalized for several weeks. I took a year to get used to life and living again, and I'm feeling better than I ever have.

Here's my dilemma: I really want to start communicating with people from my past again. Thing is, most of them have no idea as to what was going on. I've tried talking to a couple of people, but they end up getting freaked out, or acting awkward.

If anybody here has similar experience in trying to rehabilitate socially after a serious battle with mental illness, I'd really appreciate your advice. (link)
Ohhhh, there is a phobia called something weird that you are scared to leave your house because you think something bad will happen to you or you will die.
But look it up on like Google or something. There IS a phobia disorder that names that!

Hope you feel better! :)


k so i just had my period like a couple weeks ago and today it seems like i got my period again. but the blood is brown. i dont know whats going on. if someone could help me out that would be great. also i am sexually active if that would help. (link)
That's normal when you first start your period.


I will start by saying that I am self diagnosed. as a child as young as 5 i remember staying up crying in bed because i thought I was dying and in the 80s when AIDs was becoming more known I was positive I had it (I was only 8).I am in my twenties now and I still go through periods of extreme paranoia and obsession with some life-threatening problem I believe I have. it most often starts out with something that actually is physically wrong but it escalates in my head a lot. (i.e cyst on my chest becomes cancer, chronic sore throat is throat cancer, heart palpitations is heart attack.) sometimes i get so paranoid that i convince myself i am going to die that night or by the time my son is five or whatever. Its ridiculous. the only things that can ease my mind is telling my boyfriend or bestfriend about whatever problems i have and then having them tell me they have had it or know that it is going to be okay. thing is, they are at the point they do not want to hear it anymore, and i don't blame them because oh man I am crazy. i love my life, i do not want to die, and i try every day to convince my brain that i am in good health and will live a long time. i need some advice on how to overcome this myself, because I cannot see a doctor for financial reasons (although i would love someone to talk to) and i am absoulutely against medication for any kind of mental disorder. (just for myself, i do not judge others), thanks (link)
I have the same problem!
Seriously, like I think I'll die cause my leg hair grows too fast!
So I get really worried and when I get overwelmed I start to cry.


:/
It sucks.


I hate the place i live in and i always wished i could do something to get out of it and live in New york again. I'm only thirteen and I need a job that can pay me lots of money like writing a book or something. Help PLEASE! (link)
Yeah, I want to know the same thing!
Thanks for asking this question! :)


there's alot of girls at school that dont like me and think im a slut . and i barely have any friends that are girls, should i care? or should i just keep living my life the way i do? people tell me its just because their jealous, cause i dont really give them reasons to think that way of me . (link)
Girl, I have the exact same problem! Don't worry about those little girls! They need to grow up!

I just don't even care anymore of what they think of me, I ignore them!

:-)


Ok. So I am curious to know if there is a way to shave without getting all the little red bumps and redness on the legs and vaginal area. Also, is there a way to slow leg hair growth or to keep legs smooth for more than one day at a time? I rate high for good answers!
-MEJ
=] (link)
Oh I HATE how leg hair grows sooo dang fast!
Ya know? It's annoying! :(

Try waxing!or use a better razor!?
DONT get the venus embrace! it suckssss!


hope this helped!




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