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Q: So I got offered this easy babysitting job from a rich family down the street, and they are going to pay me 50 dollars an hour, BUT at the same time my BFFs birthday party is going on. She said it was OK if i went to go babysit.i don't want her to think i don't care but I really need the money!!!!!!!!!!!

*Im 14 by the way and female*
I would just babysit and then have a sleepover and go to a movie with a couple of friends and have your guy's own lil birthday party. Thats what i would do-trix

Q: I am in love with this girl who thinks that i am not mature. She used to be in love with me. ?Not anymore. I'm scared, because i love he so much, and itll go nowhere. If you were this girl, what would i have to do to impress you? If i cant, shes still been a good friend to me. She used to like me 4 who i was. I didnt change, but she did. Ive always been in the "punk/ goth/ emokids in a band and all" she used to just be herself. Now shes turned into a... i dunno if i want 2 say this... prep. Wut should i do?
Hey sorry im kinda.. not to fast to answer this :) my uncle got his heart so i was in the cities sense fri. well anyhoot!! Heres what I have to say I dont know exactly what she means by not mature.. theres this guy i know and he likes me and wants to ask me out but he knows i have a bf so i'll turn him down. Anyways i think he is kind of immature.. how.. because he burps adn farts and cant be taken seriously and also cant act seriously. Do you do any of that? Or act like that? And actually my best friend thinks i turned int oa huge prep because i switched schools. I just talked to him about it and see how i could chance. and i let him know i was only going to change with what i was happy with. So just talk to her and see what she considers "immature" and let her know that you would change but only for the better and as long as you are happy. If she doesnt like you for you then i would try to move on no matter how hard that may be-trixxie

Q: Hey,
I was just wondering....Okay so i still like my ex-bf like a whole lot and my friend just staarted liking him. She knows how much i like him and still wants to go out with him. she says ther is nothing wrong with it. But would u say it is breaking the rules of friendship?
just wondering thanks!
Hey im so SorRy that this is late. I was in the cities. My uncle tim got his heart!!! anyways... Well if your friend likes him then she isnt doing anything wrong because you cant help if you like someone or not and you are just going to regret it later because im pretty sure you wont like this guy for the rest of your life and im pretty sure she wont like him either for the rest of her life. So being mad at her is just a waist of time so dont bother being mad at her. And whoever he likes you both got to promise to not be mad at eachother. Me and my friend kaleigh's rule is no guy or guys come between. No matter what. So just stick with that and it works but sometimes they're are going to be hard times but just remember. Friends come before guys. ALL THE TIME. Plus friends are there thru thick n thin while guys are just there thru the thin. -trixxie

Q: Do you think it is possible to find "The One" you are going to be with for the rest of your life in highschool?
yeah anything is possible

Q: is it ok to curl ur hair with a curler when its still really wet?
yeah sure is if you want to not be able to do it! no.. u cant do that.. it wont curl sorry wait till its dry

Q: I have a friend that i have none for a bout 2years and I think i am developing feelings for him however he is with a good friend of mine wut the hell should i do!!-
just tell him it might be wierd but just tell him no matter how hard it is to tell him and i have been in that situation before and it was hard to tell him but it turns out he was feeling the same way to!-trix

Q: Hello, I'm new. sorta! I used to have a old column but my new column username is "Cheer!Advice" and I was wondering if anyone knew of cheer icons, or graphics I could put on my site? I tried to google but I didn't get much. Thank you!
try on ask.com or look in xangas-trixxy

Q: when i was looking at the list of moderators, i saw that in the far right column.it sed "Average Rank" what does that mean?
They rated it averagely. they are just average moderators and they are level 1's-trix

Q: i no this is stupid but, what the heck is a condom?
A condom is a contraseptive. It protects you from getting STD's and from getting pregnant. its not 100% that you wont but it protects you pretty well. Its put on the guys .. thing down there-trixxy

Q: Ive always seen people change what thier g-book links say in thier xangas...does anyone know how to do that?
you have to be a premium member or w/e

Q: well everybody tells me he the right guy and just give him awhile to get things striaght. but i cant wait any longer. i really miss him and i really want him back. but everyone tells me if i believe in god i would let him handle it. so im trusting god this time. he never answers my prayers. i dont know why?
if you would explain to me. i always cry myself to sllep at night because i cant be strong and i just let it get to me. and im always in pain it feels like my heart is in millions of pieces.
i love him i really i do.
thanks
Well maybe god doesnt want you to be with him and that you need to move on. But try not to think about you and him being together or your memories together. That will only make you more sad which isnt good anyways make a hand it over to god box and put your problems over there dont think that he is punishing you or anything cuz he isnt. Just try and move on i know it will be hard to do but you can just try to and put anything of him that reminds you of him away and dont look at it -trix

Q: i like a guy, lets call him k, who is 2 years older than me. i`m a freshman and he`s a sophmor. he knows that i like him, and he isnt afraid to talk about it, he calls me and talks to me about how he knows i like him. But last night we talked on the phone and through text messages:
me--hey do you think you`ll ever like me cause i dont wanna like you if nothings ever gonna happen
k-- well i dont like you now but i might later..
me-- ok, well i`m not shur i wanna wait around... :-\
k-- i`m not telling you to wait around i just think it could work another time but not now.

then he called me and it was enough for one nite to know he doesnt like me, but then he goes "yeah, i`m 2 years older than you, thats kind of a lot.. and i dont rele see you as a gf to me... your more of a friend.." he says all of this RELE nice and casually tho... i`m rele mad at him, but i dont rele have a reason to be.. it`s just becuase he broke my heart.. should i be mad, should we still be friends, should i try to stop liking him, should i try to get him????? thanx if you could help
Still be friends with him yes but dont count on the relationship part :( sorry. Just let him be i mean if he thinks he will like you later in the future i think he isnt worth it. No matter how hard it is just drop him. Honestly. He sounds like a confused idiot :) but thats just my opinion. He isnt worth the waiting for you and your right you shouldnt have to wait around. Just try and move on and find someone who'll like you when you like them to-trix

Q: K so there's this guy.. let's call him Jack. Jack's pretty cute. Not really hot.. but cute. He's also on the swim team, and I guess you'd call him a 'hugger' I don't know him that well but whenever i see him he hugs me.. so basically how can you tell if a hugger likes you? He hugs like everyone! O but just the girls.. haha thanks!
Well He is a hugger so you couldnt tell it'd be diff. if he payed more attention to you more so rather then towards any of the other girls. Like if he talked to you more and gave you more hugs.-trix

Q: when the slop of a line is 12/0 (12 over 0) is is 0 or undefined? when the zeros on the top is it 0 or undefined?
when the zero on the bottom its undefined

Q: Okay on your xanga site, how do you change text? Like for example, how could you change where it says "name:" to "oh my gawsh I'm:"... I'm having serious trouble getting this to work so help is appreciated!! I rate 5s!!
IM me for this I can help you!! my sn is XpRiNcEsSxBaRbIe or if u have msn.. let me know.-trix

Q: so there is this guy i have went out with 3 times and now we are best friends. i have not liked him for a really long time, but we were at a party the other night and he was all over me! i am pretty sure he doesn't like me, but i like him! what do i do??
Talk to him about it. I mean crazy things do happan at a party. Cuz its a party and yeah. JUst try and find out if he likes you and go from there cuz if he does then thats superiffic!!-trix

Q: An hour ago I burnt my hand with hot water and it feels really hot and hurts how can I fix it>?
put it under cold water but no ice for like 30 mins and put burn cream on it and then a bandaid and keep the burn above your heart like elevated. If u use ice it will scar-trix

Q: So my two good friends are fighting, and no one can seem to get them back together. I'm okay with this, but whats most annoying is the way they fight/talk about each other behind their backs. I'm tired of it and want some help. Any advice?
You got to let them work this out themselves. I know it might seem like you are in the middle of it but you need to let them both know you dont want to be and you dont want to be picking friends over eachother. And Let them know that you cant do that to eachother. And you also dont want to be in the middle of it and hearing bad things about eachother-trixx

Q: Hey, im having some friends over and were going to just have a girls night... so i was wondering on some ideas on gurly movies like Crazy/Beautiful, Crossroads... just gurly movies lol or any other really good movies you have to reccomend. thanks buches!
Hot chick! Finding Nemo, Napolean Dynamite, coyote ugly, mean girls, and cinderella story. -trixxie hope i helped!!

Q: ok like i think this guy might like maybe like me and all but im not really sure. he leaves me all these clues and stuff but like i dont kno for sure. i really really like like him and all but i like dont know what to do like do you have any like suggestioned for me like asap before i like go insane cuz i think that i like maybe might like actually go like insane but like buhbye for like now.....
like totally lyssa
Hmm Just talk to him. Ask him im sure he likes you if hes dropping hints.-trixxie

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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