about

Hey chicks n fellas. Im roxie and i love to give advice so drop a problem in my inbox
Cheak out my xanga
www.xanga.com/Roxie___Xx.





advice

Ok, Im in love with this girl Renee. She is the greatest thing that ever happened to me. I went away with her for a weekend and I was really happy... she was really happy.. We kissed and stuff. We fell asleep in each others arms. The next day when we were heading home she was kind of distant. I noticed it and asked her if she was having second thoughts. she said she didnt like me as much as I like her and that the feelings the felt that night had gone away.. I still love her, deeply, I think about her all the time, and we still talk, but I dont want to love her but I cant help it and its killing me, I'm afraid if I stop loving her, I'll stop liking her all together, and I really dont want that to happen.. Im not entirely convinced that her feelings for me are gone, I think she is just hiding them, not wanting to be hurt... but I'd never hurt her!

What can I do? Should I just keep trying to get over her? Should I persist? Could my theorys be true that she is just hiding her true feelings? HELP!!

17/m

Get her to tell you the truth, find out if she has feelings for you like you do for her because if she does then you could go out. If she doesny feel the same then that cant be helped just move on and just be friends with renee, You can be great friends if you dont want to go out. Dont over do it dont keep going on about it give her sometime to think weather she wants to be in a relationship with you or she shes you more as a friend. Give her some time and space to think things through girls are sensative this way.

luv roxie
xxxx

[view]

Hi again people help my out. By the way the people that never heard of me my I'm a girl and I'm 14 and my bff (which is a girl) is 14 and we've experimented 3 times and liked it. She hasn't completly told me her feelings about me but she sends me signs. I've been hesitant to tell her because I wasn't that sure about my being bisexual or straight. Now I'm positively sure I'm bisexual. Know that I've decided to tell my best friend that I'm attracted to her and that I want to be with her I don't know what to say! I mean should I play a love song and sing it to her or get a really good poet and read the love that I have for her from the poet's writing that relates how I've been feeling about her. Help a girl out, Please!!!

I think you should just tell her, be really honest about it and tell her the truth dont go over the top and start singing to her because she might see it as a joke! which isnt nice if you really feel that way.

Poem is good why not find a nice boarder and print the poem of and when you give it to her tell her how you feel about her and dont leave anything thing out, you never no she might feel the same way.

luv roxie
xxxx
gd luck

[view]

I hate my column colors, their getting old. Anyone have any cute colors that go good together? Other than Pink/black. Right now its pink/black/baby blue and I want something different. I rate 5's if you try! =)

search on these sites there is somenice background and just paste them into your profile
www.Nuthinbutnet.net
www.carrielynnesworld.com
www.starlightmks.com
luv roxie

[view]

my step-dad made me download mozilla firefox because it is supposed to be better than microsoft internet explorer.. so my question is.. is it really better? and i also am having a problem seeing my mail on optium online

I have it aswell. Yes it better but the problem is that when you want to go on a website you always have to click ok which if your in a rush can sometimes get in your way, Its harder to get sent viruses if your on mozilla firefox, were as normal microsoft is really easy at catching viruses.

luv roxie

[view]

how can i be more than friends with a guy who i think only likes me as a friend?

Well if he only like you as a friend then there is no point in trying because he might not see that you like him, which means your the only one that gets hurt!

luv roxie
xxxx

[view]

Okay, i like this boi named Adrian, but i dont kno if he likes me. Can u give me any advice on how to get his attention or to get him to go wit me. Thanx and i rate.

Why dont you just ask him, Because if you dont boys are oblivious they wouldnt notice anything if a girl was acting a flirty. Make the first move ask him.

luv roxie

[view]

Hey me and my girlfriend broke up and i still liked her and i told her that then on my profile it said I LOVE YOU ****** and she e-mailed me tellin me to take it off and about how her and her friend were lookin at it and stuff like that and then she was like From Your Best Friend lol and that made me mad what should i do?

*****I RATE HIGH*****

Get over her! if she doesnt like you anymore why should you like her and bother with her you can do better. Just ignore her and her friends.

luv roxie
♥

[view]

i'm super confused. I think i may be a lesbian but i'm not sure. see, i find myself flirting with guys like any normal 14 year old. but i find myself checking girls out too. i'm not afraid to be a lesbian but this has been going on for quite sometime now so can somebody just help me decide? am i a lesbian or not?

If you like flirting with guys, and like girls your not a lesbian your a bisexual! at 14 girls sometimes get confused because of what different feelings they seem to get dont worry about it, if your not a bi or lesbian it will pass.

luv roxie

[view]

Hi im vanessa. im 14 years old and i am in 8th grade in ohio. My qwestion is that i dont really have any frends in my school. school will be over in 3 monthes so im kinda happy. all my friends go to the other school acadamies so i see them on the weekends. i dread going to school without friends. sicne the year is almost over should i just try to get through it? i will be seeing my other friends from the other school in my secondary school (highschool) so i am excited. Help?

You could try making some friends, how about from different classes some girl are idiots for not having you as a friend, dont worry when you get in highschool you have millions of friend.

luv roxie
xxxx

[view]

is it normal for your breasts to hurt during your period?

Yes its very normal, It just means there growing

luv roxie

[view]

I dyed my hair yesterday and i always straighten/flat iron my hair and i was wondering if its safe to flat iron it after i dyed it? would it dye it out? my hair is well conditioned so it doesnt look or feel dye but i was just making sure. Thanks!

No its not a good idea because it can make your hair dully and less colour, and limp straightening your hair isnt a good idea all the time but its ok not so often!

luv roxie

[view]

I like this guy.. lets call him B.. and whenever i'm around him i get butterflies in my stomach.. then if im sad or upset..he's the only one that can cheer me up! is this Love?

I rate.

Yes i think it is or strong feelings for him, why not ask him out! you can only try if the answers yes good on you if no dont cry or act upset just act normal.

luv roxie

[view]

okay, i really need tips on how to get better sleep, and wake up feeling refresed

Dont drink anything fizzy before you go to bed because it can sometimes affect your sleep.
Taking a hot bath can help and make you relaxed.
Milky hot chocolate or coco or anything milky can make you really relax and tired, reading can also make you drowsy.

luv roxie

[view]

Ok, so theres this kid that says he likes me. He talks about to my friends like 24/7. He won't ask me out. What's he waiting for? What's he afraid of? Should I make the first move and ask him out? We already made out like 12 times but never dated. HELP ME PLEASE!!! ty

He might be shy! and he might be waiting for you to make the first move!

luv roxie

[view]

ok....i like this guy ALOT and he likes another girl....my best friend is trying to hook us up...i find out that he might end up liking me but he doesnt know me well enough....now i am really embaressed to see him in person...am i being too pushy?
- confused

Yes i think your been a bit to pushy go slower, if hes not interested find someone else! There is plenty of guys out there.

luv roxie

[view]

Hey, I believe in God and pray to him a ot when I need help. I don't go to church though, but I still believe. Is it bad I don't go to church?? Am I gonna go to Hell????

No its alright to not go to church as long as you are a true catholic and keep praying, No you wont go to hell. People say that no matter who you are god loves you for you and is willing to forgive you if you sin and make sure your sorry for what you have done.

luv roxie

[view]

How can you make a room Jr Highish?

Paint over your walls get rid of some of you posters, and go for something more stylish, Mabe if you have lots of teddys but them in a storage box under your bed. And dont have to much pink!

luv roxie

[view]

I have a BFF. We are really close. Whenever she's gone, Im so used to seeing her every day. I get sick and mope. I can't help it. i feel sick and mopey. Then when she coems home my sickness is gone and I'm happy again. When she's gone I still do stuff with friends and have a fun time. But I really miss her.

Its normal if you feel like that its nice to see a friendship that close! Tell her im sure she will understand i bet there isnt a more understanding person than her.

luv roxie

[view]

is it true that you cant use tampons until you had your period for a year?

No its not true, you can use them straight away if your comfortable wearing them.

luv roxie

[view]

what are some good april fools jokes to play on my friends? I want to do a realy funny joke to them on april fools day the only thing is im afraid theyll be too sensitive and get mad ..what can i do that wont get them mad at me?

Come to school dressed up as sometimg e.g a clown,duck anything you can think of just have fun.

luv roxie

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker