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Hey everyone!My name is Brina,I've been on this site for a few years, after not being on for a while, I figured I'd start up again, having more knowledge then before! I'm 19 years old and am going to be a sophomore in college this coming fall! Please feel free to ask me anything!


I'VE BEEN VERY BUSY WITH SCHOOL SO MY APOLOGIES IF I DON'T GET TO YOUR QUESTIONS RIGHT AWAY!

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hi i have a ques its embarasing but oh well...i have alot of haire on my "bikini line" or whatever n when i shave little red bumps go all over and i tried waxin with some nerds or Nad's or something and it started bleeding..and it hurt like hell. i tried shavin with senesitive skin shaving cream, bikine zone stuff, conditionaer, baby oil, etc. i think ive tried them all. does anyone know anything that stops it?!

Well i dont know ne type that you could use but i know how you can find the right type of stuff. Go to your doctor and ask him to give you a description lotion that you can use after you shave or wax there. Make sure u dont dry shave there because that creates bumps and you can bleed that way.
~Brina~

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okay everybody,

I have a friend who is 12, but she's kinda tall, or atleast, that' what everybody says, and she's starting to hate it, czuse she think it's kind of annoying, so to reassure her, can someone tell me what the average height for someone who is 12, weighs 90 lb, is? I want to know, so I can tell if she really is too tall or not.plz help

That is an average height for a 12 year old. Im 5 foot 9 and im only 13. Everyone is a different height no matter how old or young they are. Even if she was too tall why would you want to tell her that shes too tall. No one is too tall...
~ Brina~

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13-m---like on a regular day, what kind of manners do girls notice the most or expect to see. guys dont care but thats not the group im aimed at. (just like when ur doing regualr things not like in front of ur g/f)

Well the manners I like to see in a guy is that hes nice, like holds open a door or something if your behind a guy going into class or something. Shouldnt burp in front of gurls { thats just my opinion i think its gross}. Dont act like rude or ne thing.
~Brina~

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well i was listening to the radio one night and they advertised a college called "City COllege". it sounds really good because they say they provide dorms and food. i want to go there so bad but i am only 27 years old and i haven't gone through middle school yet! i applied for them and they said i was so stupid, not even they would accept me, when they'd accept people with an SAT score of like 2. what is wrong with me! i am not stupid! i haven't taken the sats yet...but city college is my hero!! i offered to pay extra money and they said they were going to close down in a month because nobody wanted to go there!!!!!! nooooooooo bebe they can't close down!! help me i even wrote them a letter pleading them not to close down!!
dear city college,
nooo u can't close down! i will go! i will be your #1 student! i will help out always and study hard and do extra stuff and be successful and give you a good name!!! do not close down your 1 story, 10 roomed college! i will not allow it! you do not understand, but you are my true love! if you closed down i would die with you...so i could still be with you that is how much i love you!!!!!! love is forever, your my only oneeee i will always be your boo!!!!!!! dont leave me behind!!!!!
-uhh me
...and this is their reply back
dear uhh me,
we are closing down because somebody bought the land and plus nobody wants to join our college anyway because we are small and uneducated. we are a team of janitors who felt like opening a college for fun but nobody joined so it was very pointless. you do not love us because one cannot fall in love with an inanimate object. good day to you.
-city college board

NOOOOOO THE COLLEGE CANT CLOSE DOWN WAT SHOUDL I DO!!!!! I WILL FIGHT FOR THE FREEDOM OF SPEECH AND RELIGION AND STAND UP FOR MY RIGHTS IN THIS CRUEL WORLD!!!! THE COLLEGE CAN TAKE ARMS AGAINST THE NATURE OF POWER AND CONCEAL ITSELF IN ITS CONFIDENCE!!!!!! IT CAN'T CLOSE WHAT CAN I DO!!!!

What do you mean you havent gone threw middle school yet? I mean, obvioussly a college wouldnt want to let you in because you did go to middle school. And if they arent a good educated college why would you want to go??? If your the only one who wants to go to the college and is the only one who applied it would be pretty pointless to go. I know ur probably going to rate me bad because its not what you wanted to hear but oh well.
~Brina~

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I am 14 and a female. There is a guy at school that I think is really cute. We both have history together and I will sometimes see him looking at me. I want to talk to him so bad, but I have never said anything to him before. What should I do?

Well for starters just be like in class i like ur shirt and then be like what store did you get it at and so on. Or say, wow can you believe how boring that class was. Just think of some conversation starters. Find out what type of music and other hobbies he likes to do so that you cant talk to him about that.
~Brina~

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theres this really annoying kid at school and he gets on my nerves soo bad..ive tried saying shut up but it doesnt work!please help!ino its not huge but its so annoying!

Maybe he likes you! Sometimes when guys are real assholes to gurls that means that they like the girl. Tell him to stop wasteing his time on being annoying to you.
~Brina~

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Hey Brina. I've liked this girl for a while now (3 months). I met her at my schools home coming. shes from another school but i no her cousin well. i like her alot. i dont talk to her offten but i do. i want to no what i should get her for valentines day but not somthing exspensive so she feels bad that she didnt get me anything. but i wanna get her somthing to tell her i like to move our friend ship up.and should i invite her to the movies and dinner? HELP ME!!!

Hey, yea dinner and a movie would be great. Maybe you could rent a movie and bring it to your house then make dinner for her!!! Also get her flowers. If you drive, then pick her up at her house and if you dont then have your parent pick her up with you or somethin. Good Luck.
~Brina~

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tommorow at school we'll have to do a run for 12 minutes and i have a soar throat. if i run for that amount of time my throat will taste like blood and i dunwant to make it worse so what can i do to fix my soar throat?

Try sucking on a cough drop while your running without chokeing on it lol. Bring a water bottle with you to drink while your running. Make sure you drink lots of fluids like water and ecspeacially tea. Tell the teacher person whos makeing you do it that your throat hurts or have ur parent guardian write a note for you to take to school. Hope you feel Better!!!
~Brina~

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I have dark hair on my arms and I wanna bleach it. Do I sue regualr bleach like the stuff for clothes or what?

NO NO NO DO NOT USE BLEACH THAT HTEY USE FOR CLOTHES LOL. Sometimes when people dye ther ehair with bleach it screws it up badly lol. Go to like a haircute person and ask them what stuff you can use just in case.
~Brina~

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i am fat, not to just myself but other ppl have clled me fat. any way ive tried diets and excersize, nothing works! i need to become anorexic. i just cant stop eating the foods i like! any ppl have some advice besides pills for me to stop eating? thanks appriciate it.

Dont become anorexic because its really dangerous for your health. There arent any pills to help you stop eating. If your not fat then why would you want to become anorexic? Go on the atkins diet or something becoming anorexic is not the way to lose weight.
~Brina~

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I have a MAJOR delema here! I know I'm not the prettiest girl, skinniest girl, most in-shape girl, smartest girl, preppiest girl, fashionable girl, etc on earth! But I also know that I'm a pretty girl! About 5'3 with long brown hair and eyes, 115lbs... well my problem is that I havent had a bf for more than a year!! And that didnt even count! we went out for like 2 weeks then I found out he was cheating... well lets just say i dont talk to him anymore!! Anyways I feel so not wanted (if that makes sense?), like all the guys dont want to be with me unless its to HOOK UP!! And i absolutely hate that! I'm not a skank at all! I know what yall are gonna say tho: "ohh dont worry your beautiful inside and out and any boy would be lucky to have you" but thats not the advice I need! I just dont know what to do!!! I'm going crazy! I want a boy soo bad but I want a REAL relationship that lasts more than A WEEK!! HELP

So dont go for one of the guys that wants to hook up with you go for someone different. I'm guessing your a teenager and your probably not going to marry a guy that date in highschool. So just kick back and relax you'll find that speacial someone.
~Brina~

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im a really shy person, any advice on how to get out there a little more?

Well, im a very very outgoing person. Join some clubs and sit with a new group of people at lunch. Go with a non shy friend of yours to a party or a sports game. Maybe you'll meet some people who are shy just like you!!!
~Brina~

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I have a huge crush on this guy and just when he was starting to like me someone told him i was talking about him behind his back and now he wont talk to me. I've been crying my eyes out for hours now and life isnt worth living without him i dont know what to do....please help me im so upset hes the first guy ive ever cried over :( :( :(

Aww that totally suck. I cried over a guy i liked a lot, i cried so much there was a ocean LOL. Ok, so talk to him and tell him that you didnt say ne thing and if he doesnt care or doesnt listen then hes not good enough because he doesnt trust you. There are plenty of other fish in the sea, yes you will have feelings for him for a while longer but you will get over him!!! There will probably be others you will cry about and you might make guys cry. Try meeting some new guys. Good Luck Hun
~Brina~

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If given the choice between Italian and German...which one should I pick to learn?

Pick whichever one is easyier to learn. I would go with Italian becaus Italian would be more useful to speak, though that could be the same with german.
~Brina~

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Okay.. well i went out with this one guy for a month and maybee a couple weeks... well i broke up with him becaz 5 months later i would be moving..i still like him alot at times but i also feel that i am friends with him, and thats about it. and he's getting ready to ask me out agian and i dont know if i should go out with him becaz im moving and everything. should i?

No one can make that choice for you. If you think you will be able to have a long distance relationship and want to have a relationship with him then totally go for it. If you dont want to have a long distance relationship then dont.
~Brina~

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I was just checking out your site and noticed your kinda tall. Well AI m your height too and I get teased a lot for being tall... weird right? Have you ever? What are some good comebacks ro something? Thanks

Yea, i havent really ever been teased about being tall. Maybe, if my friends like joke around saying im too tall or something. People who say crap about you being tall is just so stupid. There are so many things that you can do being your hight like sports and other stuff.\
Be like yea well being tall is better then being stupid like you and then say You're so stupid you had to call 411 to get the number for 911.
Also: Last time I saw a face like yours I fed it a banana
Hey, what are you going to do for a face when the baboon wants its ass back?
~Brina~

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I was bullied at the age of eleven by my so called best friend, because she was jealous of what I had. This made me depressed from a very young age.
The weird thing is, I'm still friends with this girl now. She's changed, and after all she was only young when she did this to me.
However, the bullying still scars me. This girl and I are forever competing with each other for peoples attention and we argue often. We never talk about the past because it's over now, but I think we're both hurt inside.
What should I do?

Well i kind of know how you feel cuz i used to get picked on wen i was younger for the really dumb reasons. Are you sure you want to be friends with someone who hurt you and who you argue with and compete??? Why would she be hurt inside if its you that go hurt?
Brina

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My Hermit crabs have been acting funny lately! One of them is running around with no shell and the others havent came out from under the sand for weeeks.. is this normal for them?

if anyone has any good sites with information.. they are guarenteed a 5

Well, i had a hermit crab named Sabashton lol well ne ways make sure there are a lot of different sized shells in the tank or cage for the hermit to choose from. Umm, you might want to make sure the others arent dead... Put them in some water Hermit crabs love water. But not too deep just high enough for them to get there legs wet a bit lol. hope i helped.
~Brina~

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Hi...
I was just wondering how you got that line thing to go accross your profile? If you can explain it please do!!
Your site is totally cool!
THANKS!!!

Oh thanks a bunch lol. Well, i had to ask me friend lol but just copy and paste this then erase wut it says in between and write wut u want :
(marquee) whatever you want to scroll here (/marquee)
use < > instead of the ( ) and keep the / on the second marquee.
Brina

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Hi, Right now Im in a pretty big mess. Just recently my uncle got me preganent. I know that sounds creepy but Its true we were drunk at the time. It gets worse though. Some bandit robbed my house a few weeks ago and took my years savings. My father one day said he was going to get some gas and never came back. My mom is a stripper at a local strip club. I dont know what to do The Social Services in Montana are just horrible and abortion is just way too much money. I have a feeling my uncle now that he knows I havent been having my period (he spies on me) might flee east to the cities. I dont Know what to do. Please Help Me!


ONCE AGAIN ISHAN KYLR AND J.R ARE ALL DIPSHITS WHO SHOULDNT BE ASKING THAT ON MY COLUMN

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