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Okay I am a freshman and I hate being "fat" I am the girl who is nice to people, easy to get along with or talk to, but you wouldn't sit by me at a lunch table if i was alone. The one your kind of ashamed to stick up for, yet kinda feel sorry for because you know they're a good person at heart.
Well I hate being that girl. I want to go on a diet, but nothing life altering. I want excerise that is easy to stick with and not ubber time consuming.
I want a breakfest that full fills me from 5 till 11.
So please if you have anthing that will help me reply. But don't give me any excerises like { run a mile on the tredmill a day becuase I have tried that, time consuming and hard to keep up with every day }
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While excercise is important what you eat is just as important to being healthy. What I have been doing is eating fruits and vegetables which is good and very healthy. Another thing that have done is eat small portions in snakc form...I get hungry in between when I'm working but eat healthy snacks which holds me over til lunch or dinner. Another thing is don't snack after 10 which can screw up with your disgest system. Also drink plenty of water and lay off the sodas because the sodas make you more hungry and therefore making you want to eat more.
Good luck! :)
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17/f. My one friend has been kind of mean to me lately and it's pissing me off she always puts me down and she does this to other people to. I'm not sure if she is joking or what (link)
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Have you confronted her about it? If you are friends you should be able to talk about it and let her know how it makes you feel and how you don't know if she's kidding or not. Friends maybe do things to friends and not even realizing she's doing anything to hurt you. You should probably just talk to her about it and let her know whats up. If she doesn't change would think again about being friends with someone who makes you feel bad at times.
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me and boyfriend after being together a year and a month have decided to "break up".
i am moving out of his place and back into my house with my family.
we have had malicious fights and now we are doing this to
"save our realtionship". does that sound ethical?
i mean we both still love eahcother and will hang out--i will give him rides to school (we have class togther) and work (we still work together lol) and yeah.
we just needed to be ourselves again and not like an old mean fighting married couple that we turned into.
he also has alot he needs to work on like his anger problems and self control- one big reason we broke up....
but the term "broke up" is complicated-he said he wont be dating anyone else-iam the one he loves.
i dont really want to see anyone else either-and when i asked him what our status was he said he didnt want us to be "single"
i agreed
i asked him what we are going to tell people when they ask us if we have a boy/girlfriend and he said "we will say i have a signifigant other who is very signifigant!"
he says we are saving our relationship before it got out of control and ruined and i think so too...
i just needed to vent. its hard.
any thoughts or experiences of your own? lemme know
i'd love to hear it
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i'M sO sOrRy To HeAr ThAt! I think that was a mature decisions on both your parts you took control of the situation and you found a solution which is sad but yet better in the long run. Maybe reflect on why you got into so many fights and what they were about.
Breaks are hard...they're not easy it takes a lot of patient and time to help the relationship. At this time you guys are going through a bump in the road and may seem like its never ending but you'll figure it out. Its good you guys are on good terms and that you still have asame routine its good because it shows you both still care and that you want to make this work!
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whenever im with my gf we always makeout and stuff, but we never go any further. I know shes had sex with one guy and done alot of other stuff with other guys but weve never done anything and its not like we just starting going out. Its not that im asking her to hav sex, but she wont even give me a bj or hj. what can i say or do to get her to 'go further' without saying like can u give me a blowjob? (link)
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Why not jsut be honest with her? Just talk to her and ask her if she wants to take the relationship a little bit further. If she gives you a reason then you should respect it but if not then talking about maybe bringing the relationship to a new level.
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14/f,
well i like this kid i used to like him in 7th grade then i added him on Facebook this summer and we started talking and he remembered me and said i was cute, then we started texting and i would always text him and then one day he asked me for a sext and i said no, and then he called me one day to hangout over the summer and i couldn't and then he just stop texting me after a while, and started ignoring my texts kind of, like sometimes i would text him and he would anser and sometimes he wouldn't then there was this fair one day in my town i went to it and he was there and he didn't say one word to me he just saw me and pointed and i heard from a distance thats thats thats... and then i just went on with my night with my bestfriend, and i was in a crowd of people talking then he came over and was talking to these other people then as me and my bestfriend walked away i was like i love how people i know don't say hi to me and he looked bad.
then, i texted him and i was like thanks for saying hi to me and he excuse was he retarded and wasn't noticing, and then we started talking again when school started then we talked in the halls after 5th and i'd walk down stairs with him and whatever, and he was always sarcastic with everything he said, then we hungout once day over the weekend cause he texted me two seconds before he anted to hangout and i had to get ready really fast and run outside and we hungout outside my hosue and nothing him and his friend just stood there and then twenty minutes later i had to give him a hug goodbye and he went to a block party.
but he was always flirty in his texts always putting ;p's and :)'s and saying i wasn't ugly thats i was cute and then one day i was talking to him and i was like if we hungout with me and my bestfriend you'd probably think shes hotter then me everyone does... and he was like don't compare yourself to her shes nothing special and he made me feel special and then when i saw him in the hallways my heart would race, and then he just ignored my texts all over again when i would say hey and he only once in a while said heyy and then i found out he added my bestfriend on facebook and told her she was cute and my bestfriend was like well, whats with you and my friend? and he was like nothing were just friends and then he was like shes a whore anyways she talks to mad guys.
so, then i told my other friend in school about it and then a couple periods later she was like oh yeah lets say the kid i was likes name is john... john said you disgusting, and i was like oh why i didn't do anything to him, and she was like idn and then i texted him and i was like so i'm disgusting and he was like what and i was like so & so told me you thought i was disgusting and he was like omfg wtfff she told you why would she tell you that, and i was like so you did say that and he was like yeah but i didn't mean it that way , and i was like what way did you mean it and he was like its hard to exsplain in a text and i was like in a sarcastic way? and he was like yeah so i let him off, then i confronted him about the bestfriend situation with the whore thing and he was like what about him saying i was a whore, and then he was like i can't call your friend cute, then a rumor went around saying that me and him had sex once again he stopped texting me and ignored my texts then one day i was in detention and he called me and said why are you telling people we fucked and i was like what are you talking about i didn't say anything to anyone about anything and he was like ... lets say her names ann ann told me that you told her that we fuck and i was like i don't even know who that is, and then he was like ohkay and i was like ohkay well text me bye and he was like alright bye. and then he hung up and then, i texted him saying this big thing about how i wouldn't say anything like that if it wasn't true and he ignored it.
then, when got home he passed my house laughing with his friend cause he lives near me so i texted him and i was like don't talk to me anymore bye, never answered that text ethier, then he called me last weekend when i was drunk and made me listen to this texas kid or some shit about his accent and then i was like whatever and i started texting him again and then i just stopped tetxing him the rest of the weekend then he saw me in school and EVERYTIME he sees me in school he stares at me dead on and i i don't know why, and then he was like wadup when i got on the bus ina text so i was texting then i was texting him this weekend and he answered me and now, i texted him and i haven't been in school cause i'm sick and hes ignoring me again. i don't know if he likes me or hes just saying that. help me i don't know what this guy wants from me and i don't know what to do with him!@#$%^&*
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My advice: STAY AWAY FROM HIM!
Look what he has put you through is he really worth all this drama? He sounds like a confused little boy who is just looking for attention because he is lacking it else where. At this point don't talk to him ignore him he's just a jerk that is trying to get a rise out of you. Tat means delete his number form your phone and block him on facebook block any kind of contact you have with him. He's going to continue what he's doing to you and it sounds to me like he's playing the Hot and Cold card. This dude sounds like just bad news! I've been in situations like that where the guy makes it seem like he likes me but then all of a sudden he'll do a 360 in a couple of days and act like a total jerk. Don't even waste your time with this guy he isn't worth it just move on!
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I had unprotected sex on October 4th. This past Wednesday through Thursday I've had cramps that knocked me to my knees along with nausea. I get cramps with my period but they're nowhere near as bad as this and I never get nauseous from it. Today I got my period 2 weeks early, I normally get it the last few days of the month into the first few days of the next. And I normally get a warning brown spotting for a day. This morning I had nothing and my discharge was completely clear and then suddenly around 6pm I got my "period" and it was bright red.
Was it a miscarriage? (link)
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I'm not a doctor but WebMD is a great source to use. I found an article with the symptoms that may occur if you have a miscarriage.
http://www.webmd.com/baby/tc/miscarriage-symptoms
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i am getting ready to go into court to fight for custody of my daughter and i need to know how to defend both myself and her.
her "biological factor" impregnated me as a minor and he was 15 yrs older then me.(no i didnt know that)
he has only seen her twice in almost 4 years and one of those days was a court date
he claims he has an attorney but he filled out paperwork saying hes representing himself.
i have myspace messages and text messages of him saying i can have her
he is still lieing to me but if its one against one then i may not be able to prove it
please if you have any suggestions other then getting a lawyer i would love to hear them
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If I were you I would print out the myspace messages and save the text messages as evidence for court. MySpace messages and text messages are valid evidence for this case. I think you have enough to prove him wrong and if you have any voicemails or anything else just use it. The more you have the more you prove him guilty.
Good luck! :)
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well my boyfriend have been dating almost a year this friday is one year exactly but last night when i got off my work my cell was screwing up and i wasnt recieving calls or texts til hours later and my bf was trying to reach me and instead he called my house phone and talk to my brother he got mad that i was at my neighbours watching a movie with him and his dad and lately we have been having problems cause of stuff and mostly rumors going around our high school and he dumped me cuz he was so pissed off now iv been up all night talking to him and he wont take me back i cant live without him literally he is my life and my everything but he wont budge he wont even compromise on one last chance im 16 and a female while hes 15 and a guy i need help without him i dont know what ill do last night i already tried to harm myself im serious he is my everything and i need him to go on but he just keeps saying hes sorry he cant even though he wishes he could...
PLEASE HELP ME ASAP!
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I've been there...and at this point unfortunately there is nothing you can do. I know you want to work it out but for some reason at this time he doesn't want to. I think the best thing is to give him space and let him think about it for awhile. He may have overreacted by you not answering the phone though which a bit immature. Its hard losing someone you've been with for a long time but you have to take care of you...don't worry abut him worry about you and your well being. I know it hurts believe me I know! You can cry and be upset but don't hurt yourself. No guy is ever worth it! I'm all about lvoe and I believe in it if you're patient it will work in mysterious ways. Maybe you should give this guy sometime to think about his decision it seems a bit irrational and sudden.
I think you need to talk to someone you shouldn't be hurting yourself or harming yourself in any way, shape, or form.
This could be a test of your love for one another just keep your head up and don't give up but don't be forceful either.
Good luck! :)
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okay im so confused. Im a freshmen at penn state and well i wasnt really sure what i wanted to do with my life but i always loved fashion. Im thinking of going into the fashion industry when im out of college but i dont know what to major in i tried online to research it but it dosent tell me much. I was thinking business but i hate math so i dont want to major in something that i dont like even though its a plus in the fashion world. I was thinking communications- public relations? i heard its good to have in the fashion industry but im not sure.Does anyone know any other degrees that are great to have in the fashion industry other then business and a major concentrating on just fashion ex, fashion merchandising or fashion design. Thank You i could really use the help! (link)
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Well I'm not a fashion major but I looked up on google and there was a website.
http://www.fashion-schools.org/fashion-degrees.htm
I guess the big majors in fashion are...fashion merchandising and fashion marketing.
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i dont understand how to use funformobile.com
i do everythin right, but then when i finally get it downloaded on my phone its not one of the options in my ringtones. so how do i use it as a ringtone !?
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Not sure...some phones are weird with websites...maybe your phone takes it as jsut a file? What kind of phone do you have? I would suggest trying to use:
www.myxer.com
Its easy to use!
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subject says it all, What are some songs about players and about getting over them or whatever? I just saw the guy i liked, walking with two girls, all over them both. I feel like sh!t,lol. Any songs from any genre will do,i like them all. (not so much rap/hip-hop..but if theres some good ones i'll check 'em out) I kinda want one that says "I can get over you//you dont mean anything to me//your just a player//" But again anything will do. Thanks so much =/. (link)
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Here are some songs:
I Will Survive - Gloria Gaynor
To Little Too Late - Jojo
Irreplacable - Beyonce
Pretty much any Kelly Clarkson song
Smile - Lily Allen
Fighter - Christina Aguilera
Survivor - Destiny's Child
Over you - Daughtry
You Don't Own Me - Leslie Gore
Goodbye - Kristin Debarge
Hope that helps! :)
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Long story short, my best friend turned out to be a two faced liar.
Anyone have an ex best friend quotes?
Or a website with some?
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Sorry to hear that!
Here are some sites I found:
http://www.geocities.com/maddquotez16/exfriends1.html
http://www.geocities.com/maddquotez16/exfriends4.html
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Yeah, I know I could look it up by typing the lyrics. HOWEVER, I just know that there's a few times in the song when "Laalalalaaa, la la laalalaa" or something similar is sung. It's upbeat, a recent song and it's a female sounding voice.
Anyone know what I'm talking about? :) (link)
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There are A LOT of songs with "La la la la..."
Some songs are:
If you Seek Amy by Britney Spears
La La La by LMFAO
La La by Ashlee Simpson
I have a feeling that you're talking about La La La by LMFAO its a pretty catchy song!
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so last year, my friend was in a car accident, and someone close to her died in it. she was in a lot of pain, physically, and was in hospital for a while. she had to be weaned off the painkillers, because she got so addicited to them, and it was really scary, but now she's back to normal. then fo the past two weeks shes been really distant. also she's been taking theese blue capsules. they are a light blue and i'm putting a link to an image of a similar looking pill, but it's a tiny bit darker:
http://images.medscape.com/pi/features/drugdirectory/octupdate/UPJ03950.jpg
it had the word 'ROCHE' on it and another word which i think started with an 'X'. i'm probably worrying over nothing, because she's really smart, but i'm worried she's taking too much, cause i see her take it every day, and i know she got it from a friend, not the doctors. can anyone figure out what it is, and is it addictive. im not going to the teachers, EVER. and her dad just isnt there at all. she's pretty much alone, but she's an amazing person, and i would hate for her to be in trouble. (link)
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Truth is you HAVE to tell someone because she is hurting herself.
One...its illegal to take drugs that are not prescribed by the doctor.
Two...she is harming herself by taking the drugs and she needs to talk to someone.
Three...be a good friend and tell someone before something abd happens!
Hope all goes well!
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I am 16/f
And I like this boy named let's say Ryan and he is a senior.I'm a sophmore. We really don't talk cuz were both in different grades. I just talked to him yesterday and he looked so good. We both like basketball and I just know we would click. But how do I talk to him without being obvious. (link)
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Well its simple just be yourself why be something your not. Maybe suggest practicing after school together or maybe even ask him if wants to hang out. Just be casual with him talk to him about your interests or even about basketball it might break the ice.
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so when i turn 14 in january i wont to get a saturday job but not sure what jobs are for 14 year olds has anyone got any ideas ? (link)
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Yeah its pretty difficult to get a job when you're 14. I got my first job when I was 17 and I worked at a restaurant as a hostess I worked about 4-5 hours on average on Fridays & Saturdays. I would say try going to a local restaurant business to see if you can bus tables or even be a hostess. If you can't do that then you should volunteer maybe at a hospital or even at an animal shelter. Volunteering is a great thing to put on a resume for getting a job later!
Good luck! :)
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so one of my good guy friends found out that i fancy him. but he still has feelings for his ex.
he doesnt mind me fancying him but i do have the feeling that things are kind of awkward when we talk :S.
the thing is that i reaally like him & now i dont know if i should stay friends with him or just completely cut him out of my life :/
we've only known eachother for a month anyways but we just klicked. & im new at this school & he was one of my only friends. i dont know what to do because just seeing him hurts me:/ (link)
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This sounds all to familiar...I liked my one best friends in high school named Poland (nickname). I thought he was flirting with me and that he liked me so I started liking him and it turns out he didn't feel the same way. It sucked I felt horrible for feeling the way I did but I really had a crush on him and I finally told him because I couldn't hide it anymore.
One...he still has feelings for the ex so that can never be good you don't want to be with a guy who is still hung up on his ex.
Two...I know it may seem weird right now because you like him but he doesn't like you. Honestly its going to be weird for awhile...soon on you'll realize you can do better and if you're really suppose to be friends then you'll be friends.
Three...you need to do whats best for YOU...don't worry about him worry about you. Put yourself first and make sure its all about you.
I'm still best friends with Poland and we've been friends for 7 years now which is a long time. We worked things out and now we can have phone convos, texting, and hangouts without feeling weird or without feeling awkward.
Good luck! :)
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so there is this boy i like in my school he knows i like him but he dosnt like me. i have liked him for about a year now an this girl in my year lets call her C, the boy really likes C and last year i think asked her out but it only lasted about 2 weeks i think because C ended it she didnt really like him she is one o them girls who is a right slut who all the boys love and last night the bot left a comment on C's facebook saying i love you there not going out with each other like but as soon as i saw it a filled up with tears and ran to my room crying and nw i feel like kiling myself it sounds abit mental i no but i feel like he is the only thing keepin me alive and knowin that he will never like me hurts me so much what shall i do ? (link)
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Okay I realize you really love this boy but he has already told you he doesn't like you like that. Its better that you move on theres a lot of other fish in the sea. I know you feel hopeless and right now he seems like the guy you want to be with but there is no reason for a boy to make you feel like you want to kill yourself. No man is worth that much. I know a couple who has been together for about 4 years who just broke up and thats depressing but the fact is you never dated this guy. You may be hurt and the thought of him not being with you or not wanting you is making you sad. You need to move on and maybe talk to someone to because you shouldn't feel like killing yourself over a guy. He's not worth it and you need to just be you!
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My mom had me when she was 19. My dad had a bad temper so she left him to raise me. He would see me every other weekend but then he got with my step mom. She treated me badly and her two daughters got the good priveliges. I told my mom but she just thought I didnt want to leave on weekends. Then one day my step mom shut me outside and I got so sick I had to be rushed to the hospital. From then on my mom told my dad he had ot come see me and I couldn't stay with him. He didn't come visit me and married my step mom. I think that people have worse problems but it gets to me now and then i just push it to the back of my mind again. I'm sorry that this question is so long, I just want to know how to get over this because it breaks my heart and i can't talk to anyone about it. Please help. (link)
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First off I'm so sorry to hear that! Divorce between parents is complicated and it can be really difficult because you feel like you're in the middle of it all. My parents seperated when I was in 3rd grade and then finally got a divorce when I was a sophomore in high school. Its understandable that you're hurt you have every right to be. I know how you're feeling the best thing to do is talk to someone about it. Find a therapist and talk about it know that this isn't your problem and that your stepmom is. For your dad to choose her over you is just unacceptable but know that it is NOT your fault! I wish I could help more instead of saying the cliche thing of go talk to someone but it will make you feel better. I know you don't want to talk to anyone about it but you should you'll feel better. You shouldn't have to go through these feelings alone. If you feel comfortable let your mom know how you feel. I know talking to a stranger is weird but it releases a lot and you don't want to get yourself all stressed out. I have a similar issue with my father and talking helps I still hurt but I'm beginning to realize the problem is not with me. I use to blame myself for everything and it broke my heart because I didn't want to talk about it because talking about it would lead to me getting upset about it. Keep your head up and if you have more questions or anymore issues please feel free to message me!
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what are signs that mean guy want to give you a kiss or want a kiss? (link)
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Well there are some guys who are upfront and ask if they can kiss you. The other signs are if he touches your face with his hand...especially if he holds his hand there. One big thing is that he may go closer to your face or even lean in which is a BIG clue!
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