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My mom had me when she was 19. My dad had a bad temper so she left him to raise me. He would see me every other weekend but then he got with my step mom. She treated me badly and her two daughters got the good priveliges. I told my mom but she just thought I didnt want to leave on weekends. Then one day my step mom shut me outside and I got so sick I had to be rushed to the hospital. From then on my mom told my dad he had ot come see me and I couldn't stay with him. He didn't come visit me and married my step mom. I think that people have worse problems but it gets to me now and then i just push it to the back of my mind again. I'm sorry that this question is so long, I just want to know how to get over this because it breaks my heart and i can't talk to anyone about it. Please help.
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First off I'm so sorry to hear that! Divorce between parents is complicated and it can be really difficult because you feel like you're in the middle of it all. My parents seperated when I was in 3rd grade and then finally got a divorce when I was a sophomore in high school. Its understandable that you're hurt you have every right to be. I know how you're feeling the best thing to do is talk to someone about it. Find a therapist and talk about it know that this isn't your problem and that your stepmom is. For your dad to choose her over you is just unacceptable but know that it is NOT your fault! I wish I could help more instead of saying the cliche thing of go talk to someone but it will make you feel better. I know you don't want to talk to anyone about it but you should you'll feel better. You shouldn't have to go through these feelings alone. If you feel comfortable let your mom know how you feel. I know talking to a stranger is weird but it releases a lot and you don't want to get yourself all stressed out. I have a similar issue with my father and talking helps I still hurt but I'm beginning to realize the problem is not with me. I use to blame myself for everything and it broke my heart because I didn't want to talk about it because talking about it would lead to me getting upset about it. Keep your head up and if you have more questions or anymore issues please feel free to message me!
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