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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
I do not like when people have issues with typing.
iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.
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I'm 29 and I've been dating a 27 yo girl for about 8 months now and I thought things were going great. However, recently she planned her holiday season (thanksgiving and christmas) without even asking me what I was doing. Her rationale was that couples only plan things together when they are engaged or married. She tells me she loves me and doesn't understand why I was surprised that she made all her plans (which exclude me) without even talking to me about what she wanted to do. I have no intention of trying to change her plans. I just thought it was common courtesy to discuss it first and hopefully find a way to spend the holidays together. Your thoughts?
I completely agree with you. The holidays are times to share with your family and LOVED ones. Are you not loved by her? I mean, it's not like she should be asking for your permission on every little thing but she should have sat you down and asked you about your thoughts on what was going down. Her thinking that couples only plan things together when they are engaged or married is SO wrong. I'm young, I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year and even when we were only dating eachother for a few months we planned things together. It's really the right thing to talk to the one you love about your plans for the holidays. I thought couples were supposed to spend their holidays together with their families, am I wrong in thinking that? I suppose maybe she thinks that because of the way she was raised. Maybe her family never got together for Christmas and Thanksgiving to celebrate together. So, you (I'm only assuming) were used to being around your family and loved ones for the holidays. I think you should at least talk to her and say, wait a minute. This doesn't seem right to me. It's the holidays we're in love we should spend this together with my family or yours. For instance, maybe spend Christmas eve doing something SHE wanted to do and Christmas day doing what you wanted or vice versa. Same with Thanksgiving. And you're right, it is common courtesy to discuss it and find a common ground at one point.
I hope everything works out for you! Good luck with everything.
hi. Ive got a boyfriend and i luv him to bits but should i be worried about the age gap? im 15 and he is 12. Do you think its wrong or what?
help
xxXxxX
Well, alot of people say age is just a number. But when you're young, it can be something you should be really looking out for. In my opinion (And keep in mind this is just my opinion) at the age of 12, he's young to be dating a girl. 12 year old boys are stupid, immature and.... well really stupid and immature. You, being the age of 15 may be wanting to have a relationship, someone you can sort of settle down with and be with for a long time. A boy at the age of 12 is just going to want to date a 15 year old to show off to his friends and be like DUDE LOOK AT MY HOT ASS GIRLFRIEND SHE'S 15 MANNNN! He's only 12, I think he's going to want to date PLENTY of girls and not just be tied down to one girl. I do think that it's wrong for you to be dating a guy that is younger than you by that much, especially since you're going to be what? A freshman or a sophmore in highschool and he's only going into 7th grade?
You really need to think about whether this is something you want. What I think or anyone else thinks isn't something that should make up your mind on whether or not it's "right" to be with him. If you like him and he likes you, then date him! No one's stopping you. No one CAN stop you but you.
Hey all!
I was wondering, I get a ''ROOM MAKE OVER'' and I need some new furniture, the point is, I don't have that much money, so does one of you know where I can buy cheap furniture (ONLINE?) But remember it has to be shipped over to europe, so not to much costs for shipping please.
THANKS A BUNCH!!
Ikea has GREAT inexpensive furniture. HOWEVER DO NOT buy their wood products. Their wood products are not as good quality as their metal. If you do decide to buy their wood products, you may not be able to have it that long because it may break. Ikea does have stores located in Europe, so I'm pretty sure that it won't be horribly expensive. Once you go to the Ikea website, it will have a selection to choose what country you're from. There are Ikea's all over! http://ikea.com/ Check it out! They've got great stuff =)
does the mary kay hand lotion smell good?
Like I say to most people who ask if something smells nice, what we think smells good may not smell good in your opinion. But yes, In my opinion Mary Kay hand lotion smells very nice, it's not very perfumey which I hate. It has a very nice, light sent. That would be my opinion anyway.
i always see ppl write '143' at the end of their profiles and stuff.. what the hell does that mean?
Well, it took me a few seconds to figure out what the hell you were talking about and then somehow I magically remembered. 143 stands for I love you. I= 1 letter, Love= 4 letters, you= 3 letters. It could be I hate you as well. Hate has 4 letters. Hope that helped!
- Emily
can anybody suggest a really good men's cologne for me. I'm 15/m and i'm looking for something masculine, sexy and powerful, and it has to last. My price limit is $100.
Jesus Christ! That's a very big limit. My FAVORITE men's cologne is Paul Sebastian. I think it is the sexiest smelling cologne a man can wear. Not a damn clue how much it is, but I know for a fact it's not over 100 dollars.
You can also try anything from Calvin Klein, Tommy Hilfiger or Ralph Lauren smells amazing. I love Ralph Lauren Romance for Men. It's amazing.
Another great smelling one is Dolce and Gabbana.
All of the ones I listed are ALL under 100 dollars.
PS- I love a great smelling guy. It's hot. =)
is there ANY possible way yu can go swimming w/o a tampon. Like, any way. please help, i'll rate high
Yes. There is a way, but you'll still bleed and it will show up in the water. If you want to go swimming while on your period, it's best to use a tampon. Especially if your flow is HEAVY. But, if you have a very light flow, you could go in without a tampon and you won't be able to see any blood in the pool. But if you're going to be getting in and out of a pool, you'll need to use a tampon. If you stay in the pool for a long period of time, it won't be so bad but as soon as you get out you need to go to the bathroom and put on a tampon or pad (whichever your prefrence). If you do swim while on your period without a tampon, there is a chance that the water in the pool can become contaminated and no one would be able to swim in it until the water is emptied and filled with fresh water. I'm not just saying that to get you upset, but it's the truth.
I recently recieved a goldfish from a friend. It's orange mostly, with clear fints, some black patches, and a blue stripe next to the fin. I THINK it's girl but i'm not sure lol. What should i name it? And is there anything imparticular i should know to help me keep a goldfish content and healthy?
Thanks,
Panda
First of all, sexing (determining the sex) of a goldfish when it's young is virtually impossible. You'd have to wait until it's AT LEAST a year old to figure out how old it is. In order to keep your fish healthy and keeping it alive for more than a week, firstly you need to get a fish tank. The tank needs to have a filter and an air pump. With the filter, it will prevent you from needing to clean the water every other day like you would if it was in a bowl. Feed it every day, to ever other day. You only need to do a SMALL pinch of food once a day. Goldfish normally don't last long at all no matter how hard you try to take care of it. The longest I was able to keep a goldfish with a tank and doing everything I could was about 2 months. Which isn't long for a fish living in a tank. If you go to your local pet store, they will give you many other tips on keeping your fish alive and healthy.
Now for some names:
Goldie or Goldy
Freckers/Freckles (for it's spots)
Bubbles
I normally name my fish based on the actual NAME of the fish: EX: I have a Honey Gourami- His name is Honey. I have an Angelfish, Her name is Angel. I have a Baby Blue Gourami- Her name is Baby (Baby blue) and then I have a few other fish that I didn't name, so they're not important.
If you'd like any more name suggestions for your fish feel free to visit this site: http://www.aquariumfish.net/pages/names_for_fish_no_gender.htm#top2
Is it normal for a girl my age to like another girl? I mean, i don't think i'm a lesbian or bisexual, but i heard it could be normal for someone my age (which is 15 btw) to be... "curious"? am i just weird?
You're only 15. People even at the age of 25 or older can't figure out their sexuality and are STILL confused in what their sexual prefrence is. You're just curious. But you, unlike most teenage girls or boys will not mention their feelings of them thinking they are intersted in someone of the same sex. You're young, you still have time to figure out what you like. Who knows, it could just be a phase of you thinking another girl is pretty. And who knows, maybe you could turn out to really like girls or really like both boys AND girls. It's not something you'll be able to know JUST yet. It's completely normal to be curious, and no, you're not weird.
Does anyone know where to get all the old green day cds? i cant find them anywhere
some are...
Dookie
39 smooth
Kerplunk
Insomniac
Thanks Bundles!
Circuit City or Best Buy. Your best bet is at Circuit City, they have every CD imaginable. Good luck!
PS- Greenday rocks my socks =)
This really isnt a question but i feel that people should watch. Its a lil graphic but nothing that wouldnt see on tv. All of this is real and please take the time to watch and remember what happen on that day
This is a 9/11 tribute and i hope the moderators dont delete this before visiting the site.
http://www.fdnylodd.com/BloodofHeroes.html
I don't mean to sound rude. But not that many people want to be reminded of that. My uncle was THERE. Bodies dropped right infront of him and litterly SPLATTERED to pieces. RIGHT IN FRONT OF HIM. He walked around aimlessly for hours and hours. He couldn't get ahold of my aunt or anyone. I was home all day crying because I thought he had died. It was 9 at night before my aunt called me crying saying that my uncle was alive. He to this day has not gotten over it. He's sheilded himself from society, he hides down in his basement away from his wife, his family. His mother is the most important thing to him in the world. He would spend almost ever day with his mother. He hasn't spoken to her in a year. We all remember that day. I try to forget because it's caused so much pain for my family. But please, don't post things like that. Some of us really do NOT want to be reminded. You have to understand it's hard for some of us to look at that. Some of us lost cousin's, sons, brothers, sisters, daughters, mothers, fathers, aunts, uncles, friends... It's hard.
EDIT- You fucking asked people to look at it, but I didn't. I knew by looking at the URL what it would be about and it already got me upset by looking at it, asshole. Don't fucking post that shit on here.
hey i asked you a question about myspace earlier..and you seemed to know wht you were talking about so i had another question about it... how do you get like music or the videos on your site?
btw thanks for the help eaarlier!
Well, I'm not 100% sure about JUST the music. But if you want videos, you can go to
urbnmix.net
musicvideocodes.com
musicfeet.com
and greenermusic.com
Those are just a few that I know of.
I did a quick google search and I'm pretty sure you'll be able to find a few music codes at:
Musiccodescentral.com
And no problem =) If you have any other questions just leave them in my inbox!
-Emily
Ok, I was just wondering what color eye liner you thought would go well with me. I have blue eyes most of the time (they change) And brown hair but not really dark. And also blonde high lights. Plz help
Black IS too dark for your eyes and your hair color. If your hair is light and so are your eyes, it just makes you look like you're getting ready to go out stripping. (In my opinion). One way I find useful on putting eyeliner on is to hold your eye down and just do LITTLE lines at a time all the way across, so you don't have to do a HUGE line all the way and it comes out crooked. So just do it little by little and take as much time as you need in the beginning. If you rush it then it will come out sloppy. After a few days you should be an expert!
What is an average weight for a 13/f. Height- 5 ft 1 in or maybe 2 in? Please help!
This is going to sound crazy, but anywhere between 103 pounds to 120 pounds would be ideal for a girl your height. If you go to this site
http://www.cdc.gov/nccdphp/dnpa/bmi/calc-bmi.htm
You can put in your height and how much you weigh and it will tell you everything you need to know, what's under weight, what's over weight, what's normal, etc.
i have dark circles under my eyes, and ive tried everything. ive tried concealers, cucumbers, creams, u name it. i am so embarassed of them, and if they werent there, id be so much more pretty. does someone have somethiong i can do?
Gosh, I've been trying to answer this question for the past 10 minutes but I couldn't remember the name of the product! But I found it =)
You can find it at Macys. It's called Hylexin. Let me tell you, this stuff WORKS. My mom and I share it and it works SO good. Only down side.. It's INSANELY expensive ($95.00) I also found a few other name-brand products that work almost as good, but aren't as expensive: http://www1.macys.com/search/index.ognc?SearchTarget=*&Keyword=dark+circles&KEYWORD_GO_BUTTON.x=0&KEYWORD_GO_BUTTON.y=0&KEYWORD_GO_BUTTON=KEYWORD_GO_BUTTON&bhcp=1
If you look at a few of those and just search around you may find something that is suitable for your price range and won't make a huge dent in your budget. They suck don't they? Especially when they're puffy and they make you look SO tired! Good luck with everything.
how do you put pictures on myspace...not like on the picture part...but like under the little heros section?
You need to make an account at photobucket.com (it's free completely) and just upload your pictures onto there. It will show you in your photo album 3 codes that say IMG, TAG and URL. Copy the one that says TAG and paste it into the heroes or whatever section you want into myspace. You MIGHT want to resize the pictures if you think they're going to be too big. There is an option on photobucket in your account to resize the picture.
does anyone know the name and artist of the song that goes "weve got more bounce in california"
Artist= Soul Kid #1 Song= We've got more bounce (In California)
Lyrics=
We got more bounce in California
Than all y'all combined
We got more bounce in California
We like to party all the time
We got more bounce in California
Where the hustlers all reside
We got more bounce in California
Rollin' easy when we ride
Well excuse me for a while
But it's time to propagate
I'm comin' from the land
Where the seasons never change
Where all around the world
They're all lookin' to L.A.
Always the first in new directions
Cause Cali leads the way
Chorus
Now everybody's by the pool of pleaking out on
Just bump into a playlist
That's all down on mp3
Comes another groovy lady
Borrowed her mama's SUV
Well I've seen that blonde before
In a vivid DVD
Chorus
California
Just a little bit higher baby
California
Just a little bit higher now
California
Just a little bit higher baby
California
Just a little bit higher now
If ya stuck in rush hour traffic
Out on the 101
Just blaze up and roll the top down
'Neath that California sun
Oh let those police helicopters
Shine the spotlights down on me
And I thank my lucky stars
There's no place else I'd rather be
Chorus (2x)
California
Just a little bit higher baby
California
Just a little bit higher now
California
Just a little bit higher baby
California
Just a little bit higher now
Just a little bit higher baby
Just a little bit higher now
Just a little bit higher baby
Just a little bit higher now
okay.. i cheated on my ex and he found out and broke up with me. Now.. hes threatening me and everyone that knew and didn't tell him about it. He won't say what hes going to do to us.. he just keeps saying he knows people to "take care of it"
Hes overage and we had sex.. so if he trys to hurt me.. can i get him on a statutory rape charge? -- my parents dont know we had sex...
and also.. what should i do about the threats?
Well, let's start with the threats. Depending if he's making SPECIFIC threats like I'm going to find you and him and I'm going to kill/hurt you or something like that then you need to go to the police IMMEDIATELY. And yes, you most DEFINATELY can get him on a statutory rape charge. But then that would give you the risk at your parents finding out and they may not trust you being around another guy. If you are 16 or older, then you have reached the age of consent to have sex. If you are under 16, then it's illegal for you to be having sex in the first place, at least in the state of NJ so you might want to be careful about that. It does differ in each state, so if you were curious as to if you were underaged in YOUR state here is a site that gives a chart for ages of consent: http://www.avert.org/aofconsent.htm
I wish you luck with everything. And I hope your psyco ex doesn't do anything too stupid.
ok I have a pool and i go swimming like everyday but my hair is getting very damaged from it. Like I take a shower but my hair just look damaged in a way I can't describe its just not silky. Its kind of like it looks scragly and unbrushed. I don't want to stop swimming.
Does anyone know any products or things I could do to make my hair healthy again. Please help I rate high!
Well what kind of conditioner do you use if any?
Something you should try: http://www.drugstore.com/qxp86554_333181_sespider/neutrogena/triple_moisture_daily_deep_conditioner.htm
It's a deep conditioner and it should put the shine and smoothness back into your hair! It's a great product, I use it myself.
Okay I have had my period for like a year now, or whateva. So like last month and this month, it didn't stay on as long as usual. I mean it used to come on for 5 days now it comes on for looks like 7. Is this normal? I mean what is wrong with me. I couldn't be pregnant, cause if your period comes on while you are pregnant it is shorter right? SOmeone help me please. Rate 5 for all GREAT and HELPFUL answers.
Actually, you won't get your period at all. You'll either skip it completely or you'll just "spot". And the firt few years you get your period it is IRREGULAR. Meaning, it's not on a normal schedule. It's nothing to be worried about and nothing to freak out over. Expect it to be all out of whack for a while. It takes a few years for it to come on a regular basis.