so my ex boyfriend dumped me for this girl, straight out told me he was only with me because he couldnt get her.
he's being really confusing .. and not helping me to get over him. like he saw my away message sayin i was at the wrestling meet ( he came on right after i put my away up ) and i get to the wrestling meet and he shows up right after me, and sits a row in front of me. like right there. && well today i was suppose to hang out with a kid named tom. and my away message again and this time it said bonfire with tom. and tom and my ex are friends. so i get to toms and he's like i talked to mark. he said he saw you away message and he was going to stop up but he was out of service range when i called him.
why is he going out of his way to be where i am, its not making it easy for me .. he dumped me for a whore, he really hurt me this time (we've had a few problems in the past, we were together 9 monhts) i cant be friends with the guy i love, cause i cant get over him. but hes everywhere. i want to say something ... but what, and is that a good or bad idea? ... :-/
It sounds like he liked you though. It is possible to like two people but he did go out with you for that long. So I'm sure he developed feelings for you. Was he treating you nicely or was he an ass?
I think he wants you to notice him, that way you would talk to him and like him more. Maybe he couldn't get with that girl and wants you back thing.
But when a guy is putting you off in the side lines. It's not worth it.
But if you like them, I guess you could try talking to him..
So yeah, you should write something false in your away message :] Like you're hanging out with this dude at some place.
Have the dude go along with your plan.
So when he goes, you're not there.
You can always talk to his friends, ask him why he always shows up where you are.
You could always say you're out with a friend in your away message. :]
But it seems like, he's watching you and seeing if you have gotten over him, especially if you mention you're hanging out with guys.
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i went to a new dentist today.
i was wondering if i could be allergic to the kind of metal pick thing they use to count and scrap (etc) your teeth.
beacuse somethings wrong. i got home. they barely even touched my teeth just kind of poked around. and they hurt so bad my tongue cant even touch them. and my gums are all swollen and i have bumps that are really sore on the my gums. and when i brush my teeth they bleed so bad.
i was just wondering if anyone knew what i could do to fix it, or if im overreacting and i should just wait it out or see a doctor? .. i dont know. but it hurts. and it worries me.
Do you brush your teeth well?
Maybe your gums are sensitive
I would talk to your new dentist though.
Since they are a new dentist, they have new instruments and such.
Usually after they scrap your teeth, your gums are going to hurt and bleed when you brush them.
But go ask a parent to call in and ask a question if someone could be allergic to something they used!
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My dad always calls me spoiled.. and i don't wanna be- but i think i am. I only buy designer stuff(not versacee.. but like a&f .. and hollister) i have 3 tiffany necklaces && 1 bracelet. I have lacoste polos. Ipod.. tv&& computerr.. and more...
I just don't want to be noted as spoiled..
am i?
thankss
Sounds spoiled to me.
But it seems like your parents are letting you buy it. So blame them!
It's just spoiled. Ignore it.
But to prove them wrong, don' buy anything expensive. Maybe go for a non designer item? They aren't THAT bad..
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at the end of the movie hitch,
theres a song that goes like
NOW THAT WE FOUND LOVE WHAT ARE WE GUNNA DO, WITH IT!
thanks if you know.
http://www.stlyrics.com/lyrics/hitch/nowthatwefoundlove.htm
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Up until the end of seventh grade I was flat as a board, then my boobs litterally shot out over night and continued growing all summer. Now I'm almost a C and everyone thinks I stuff just because they came all-of-the-sudden! What should I do? I'm sick of people always throwing tissues at me!? THEY'RE REAL.
ignore them! who cares what they think? :D
you're almost a C! Yay! haha.
if they give you a tissue, blow your nose and throw it back ;) i mean haha.
People are just testing you.
Of course it seems weird, but it's puberty and some people are clueless.
The only way to prove people that you don't stuff is flashing them. So obviously some guys are going to bother you about it and they think they're going to get lucky, and have you flash them. So don't. :]
So you could always wear a shirt, that shows off cleavage?
You can't make that with tissues.
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ok well i remember some of the lyrics and a girl sings it and i have to find it its bugging me
ok well some of the lyrics are
"who am i to say that you love me" or sumthin like that
and
"cuz your my best friend"
please help!!!
Hope- Who am i to say
http://www.myspace.com/hearhope
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I dyed my hair a red brown color. It came out darker than I expected. I've tried lemon juice on my hair. It lightened it a little, but I didn't go out in the sun. Could you give me some suggestions of ways to lighten it without dying it again?
Shampoo it like hell?
I'm sure if you leave in the shampoo for half an hour, it would fade... but not that noticeable
Try lemon juice again & go out into the sun. :]
You'll need to dye it again, if you want to get a quick result.
Go buy a color stripper & dye it a lighter color.
If you are worried that your hair might get damaged
then get a deep conditioner treatment
You could always go to a beauty college & get it done. They have lots of young people in it (obviously) so they won't mess up your hair & they have their teachers by there sides to help.
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I've heard of deviantART but I'm looking for a smaller community to submit artwork and discuss art and receive comments, rather than deviantArt. Has anyone found anything?
here's one.
http://www.shadowness.com/
there is really no smaller community.
Those.. would be really hard to find.
So maybe try out deviantART? It's really good.
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my mum just bought me home some footless tights, i never asked for them, she just bought them. What on earth can i wear them with?! Photos would be really excellent! thanks
You can wear them with any jeanskirt.
http://www.stripersonline.com/surftalk/attachment.php?attachmentid=1733&d=1143858966
A shirt/sweater like this->
http://z.about.com/d/fashion/1/5/A/N/1/leggings.jpg
You could always wear a dress (above the knee) with leggings.
Just try it on and you'll come up with a look.
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Here's my situation..I went out with my ex for almost year (we even went to college together freshman year) but things didnt go as well as I planned and I broke up with him bc I wanted to "experience" college. I dated another guy, which was a disaster, and he dated another girl. The whole time I was in a relationship with another guy, my ex would constantly call me and write me letters about how much he stilled loved me and how I was the best thing that ever happened to him, but I just kinda ignored them bc I was "head over heels" for the new guy..Well the new guy and I broke up bc he cheated on me and a few months later my ex and I started talking and hanging out again and Im starting to have strong feelings for him again, so now I am stuck. Now he doesnt act as interested as he used to be and I told him how I feel about him and how we should try again but he keeps changing the subject. The thing is, he still claims hes in love with me and tells me that everyday and we hang out all the time so I dont know what his deal is..I feel like if I keep bugging him about it, he's gonna think im really annoying. And it seems like I am always the initiator...is he just giving me a taste of my own medicine (the fact that I acted that way when he tried getting back together) or is it somethng else? Has anyone been through the same situation??
Yeah he's giving you "a taste of your own medicine" thing.
He probably feels like.. he was on the sidelines.
So if this relationship with that new guy didn't work out.. you'll automatically go back to your ex. So he might feel a bit used.
I've been in the same situation, but I'm sure you could fix it and get back together. Just lay off the subject but keep him close, you know? But don't suffocate... Just try making more plans with him, if it's possible.
Time will tell what he wants.
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What's a boner?
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=boner
or
"Carcasses of animals intended for use as manufacturing meat (mince, hamburger, sausages, etc.) and usually graded as manufacturing"
but I'm sure you're looking for the slang meaning.
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okay, so my whole life i've wnted nothing
but to be a successful hairstylist, and own
my own buisness, like an upscale place.
but as the days get closer to graduating, im
starting to wonder, maybe this isnt cut out for me?
im taking boces next year for cosmetology, and
i just have this feeling im going to be too
scared to cut people's hair. i dont want to mess
up. and i want this more than anything.
i know its still early and i have yet to have
the training, but is it normal to be worried?
it's okay to feel like you're going to mess up.. but that's why you go to a class and learn.. pratice. They won't let you near a person first. They let you practice with fake hair, on a mannequin.
I've been told that.. you can't cut people's hair. If you have some kind of project in your class, YOU have to bring in a friend/someone you know and cut their hair.. not some random person on the street.
You'll get practice and everything, you'll be fine! :] They have skilled people there to direct you and help.
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for about two months now and it's great. We are both 15 and everything is new to us, so hopefully I don't have too much trouble trying to explain this. By the way, my name is Alyssa.
When I was over at his house yesterday (his parents were home, just upstairs) he was kind of being a little pushy wanting me to do things. He enjoys making out (kissing not sex) and wants me to all the time. Yes i enjoy it, but he wants it too much, what should i do? I also said that i wouldn't freak out on him if he touched my butt (he asked) I would just probably go really red. So he got me to dance with him in his basement and he put his hand on my waist and then on my behind. I jumped back because it suprised me and I was embarassed. All he said is "What?" with a grin on his face. I'm not sure how to tell him not to do that at the up-comming dance. Also, he does know that i insist on being a virgin untill I am married and he seems to exept it. What should i do? Any relationship tips for me?
Thanks.
Tell him to knock it off. It seems alright to do it when you're alone. Just tell him your booty is off limits at any dances. :]
If he does touch you at the dance, remove his hands and put it on your waist.
Just say, "i know you enjoy making out but I need to breathe" and just laugh or something.
And change the subject.. and go do something together [watch a movie, play a game, something]
He seems really nice.. but yeah.. just a bit of a pervert ;]
Just communicate! :] it's the key to any relationship.
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sorry if it's a little long, but i'm freaking out
ok so the other day me and my bf were supposed to go on a date *it was our 3month*, but he didn't pick me up...instead he called me from where he was and was like "yeah i'm here" so i'm thinking "ok am i supposed to drive MYSELF to my own date? whats next...i pay too? i mean come on" so i was going to *though i wasn't too happy* and my family and friends were mad that he was to lazy to come get me. so my older, very strong brother *who my bf is intimidated by* called him up and basically told him he needs to treat me right and that since i'm his gf he should have the courtesy to pick me up and that if he treats me like garbage, there's gunna be a problem. and i was upset at both him and my brother and since then, my bf hasn't called or tried to get in contact with me. i've texted him but he's been short with me or just doesn't respond and i called him today and he was with his best friend so i said "ok well do you wanna call me back when you get home" and he was like "yeah i guess?" which just about made me cry *i've been all emotional this weekend*. is my bf really that mad at ME even though it was something HE did...or rather DIDN'T do?? does he just need time to cool off? i'm determined to not let something so stupid break us up, but idk if he'll realize how dumb this is and will just end things. i feel stupid for asking this, but i really care about him and don't want to lose him over something so small, and i really need some advice.
Next time, don't get someone else involved.
Really, getting a ride from him.. isn't a big deal.
Sometimes you need to get yourself there and it would actually be nice to pay too. Some people don't have the time or lot's of money, you know?
He's probably upset (mad) that you had your brother in it. So just give him some time. If the relationship ends over this, he's not worth it.
But really, just work it out with him and nobody else. It just leads to problems.
He's probably mad that you got mad over something small.
Just wait and call him, tell him your sorry that your brother got into it. Say he was eavesdropping and whatnot.
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what is it called when you get that hard part in the middle of your ear pierced? (not cartlidge)
Does this help you?
http://tattoo.about.com/library/graphics/piercingpics8.jpg
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Is it normal for girls to have hair on their back and front like men? My sister's only 11 and she has hair everywhere but when I see girls at the beach they don't have hair (And I looked really close at the blonds because their hair is see through). My friend doesn't think so but just to be sure.
Some darker haired girls have some hair on their back. It is normal.. a lot of girls have it from what I've seen. You'll always have hair there.. noticeable or not, just not as horrible as some guys. Some girls get happy trails.. some hair that goes up towards the bellybutton.
Really.. it is normal to get hair there.. People don't know what they are saying because it's not like you can see your back... and if you tried looking at others.. you can't get CLOSE enough to see the hair. When you're the person with the hair.. you see everything up and close.. it's like magnified. Like when you have a pimple or something, you make a big deal out of it, but really.. nobody can see it.. and you think everyone can.
It's also normal to get hair on the chest too. If you're dark haired and whatnot. Some blondes have some dark hairs too.
The girls at beaches.. wax and shave.. So you'll never see any hair on them. If I go to a beach.. I wouldn't want to be hairy. So yeah.
It's either waxing or shaving.. even though she's only 11. It's best to wait for her. You don't need to do anything for her back though.
If she has some hair on her stomach she doesn't like.. maybe shave it?
Obviously the hair is going to grow back and darker..
But really.. she's too young and it's not like she's wearing revealing clothes.. so in a few years you could help her.
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im a sophomore... soo this guy who i met last year and talked to him sometimes during school... well i ran into him a few times sometime after school started back this year, and after a little bit he started runnin outta class to see me in the halls, would come by my locker after school to talk to me and walk with me to the bus, and call me every night sometimes numerous times if i didnt answer, for like at least a month straight. i was never mean to him i was always nice and stuff but all of a sudden he quit callin, quit comin to talk to me, and is giving me the cold shoulder. he'll walk right by my locker without even looking at me, and the other day when he passed me i walked up behind him and tapped him on the shoulder to say hey and happy birthday and he was just like 'what!?' when i tapped him.. so i was like well fine then i was just gonna say happy birthday... and he still didnt say anything else so i walked on. whats up with this?
dont say talk to him because obviously he's not talking to me haha and we werent really good friends to begin with anyway so honestly i really dont care but im jw what that behaviors about.
and also i dont have feelings for him at all incase youre wondering.
Well I think he liked you at some point or still does. It could be his way.. (avoiding you) of trying to get over you.. If a guy gives you a lot of attention like that and you didn't really give it back.. It's kind of hopeless to continue it. Maybe he wanted to be with you. And like you said.. you don't have any feelings for him.. so maybe he got that idea already.
Maybe he would confront you about it. I don't think he will because it's awkward and he knows he was being an ass.
But if it bothers you a lot.. just go up to him and take him aside.. and talk to him.
Just ask him if you ever did something wrong.
And that would bring up the way he has been acting.
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16/f
my bf of 4 & a half months and i have only been as far as handjobs/fingering [that was with each other and thats the most weve done at all ever in our lives]. weve talked about oral and the subject of blow jobs came up [although its unlikely to happen sometime soon] and i said something about him wearin a condom for it, and he was like "youre gonna make me wear one for that?? you cant even feel anything then". im not totally opposed to him bein without one but id pretty much prefer it. is it really that big of a deal and would he get like no pleasure out of that?
by the way do alot of girls give bjs and are they considered to be slutty if they do? because ive heard that its not that common and alot of girls refuse to do it but it seems like a whole hell of alot of them do.
It's best to have a condom on. He's just being a weenie and saying he would get no pleasure from it, so you would suck him without it.
It's better than getting an STD. You could always have a cut in your mouth, that you aren't aware about and get an STD that way.
It's just.. a lot cleaner that way.
But he would get pleasure from it.
I'm not sure if a lot of girls give bjs. It's not like they go out telling but I'm sure they do one time or another. It's not slutty unless you give a blowjob to every guy you see kind of thing. If this relationship is getting somewhere.. then it's not slutty.
It is common in some places but others.. people are just not ready for it. Some girls do it and some are just perverted (and haven't)
There's really no way to know unless they tell you?
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ok well my girlfriend and i were ina movie theatre she gave me a handjob and i cummed. then about 10 min later i went to the bathroom and washed my hands and the about 10 min after taht i fingered her im really worried she said her stomach hurts and her boobs are hard let me know guys
When cum hits air.. it dies.
But yeah, it is good to wash your hands before you finger her. It's just a lot cleaner that way.
But no she's not pregnant.
You would have to cum inside of her.
She just sounds like she's going to have her period soon.
Or sometimes when you finger a girl.. it can be uncomfortable.
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i have a boy friend (kevin) and this other boy asked (chris) me out and i told him i have a man! i do think that chris is cute but i think he will break my heart and i don't want to break up with kevin and then get hurt by chris! wat should i do??????????
It seems like you have already decided.
Just stay with your boyfriend if you think chris is going to hurt you.
If Chris has a past of doing that then it's best not to go out with him.
Just stay with what you're familiar with so you know you won't get hurt.. but only do that if you really like the guy. Don't stay with a guy because you feel like you have to and because you only feel happy with him.
Sometimes new things are good but like I said, if this chris guy has a bad past with relationships. Not really a good choice.
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